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Topic: does anybody believe in sanctity anymore
alwysmo's photo
Thu 11/04/10 10:32 AM
Doing a paper in sociology. Thanks guys. I appreciate the feedback.

msharmony's photo
Thu 11/04/10 10:32 AM
I was HAPPY to be married, and I feel sorry for all these people who look at sex as some stale activity that never changes or improves ,,,,


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Thu 11/04/10 10:37 AM
i have morals and a strong sense of passion, I make my decisions based on certain criteria--I am clean from any std's and I think that [AIDS] has a lot to do with violence or a lack of education and resources more so than say a lack of morals.

msharmony's photo
Thu 11/04/10 10:38 AM

i have morals and a strong sense of passion, I make my decisions based on certain criteria--I am clean from any std's and I think that [AIDS] has a lot to do with violence or a lack of education and resources more so than say a lack of morals.



I say we had less prominent and common issues when we STIGMATIZED behaviors, than we do now that everything is only precumbent upon 'consent'

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Thu 11/04/10 10:57 AM


i have morals and a strong sense of passion, I make my decisions based on certain criteria--I am clean from any std's and I think that [AIDS] has a lot to do with violence or a lack of education and resources more so than say a lack of morals.



I say we had less prominent and common issues when we STIGMATIZED behaviors, than we do now that everything is only precumbent upon 'consent'


Consenting doesn't always come hand in hand with education or responsibility.

alwysmo's photo
Thu 11/04/10 10:57 AM
Thanks guys. Yes I am celibate and happy. I can't judge a person in their preferences. Just where I stand on things. Thanks for helping me with my project. You guys are great.

msharmony's photo
Thu 11/04/10 11:11 AM

Thanks guys. Yes I am celibate and happy. I can't judge a person in their preferences. Just where I stand on things. Thanks for helping me with my project. You guys are great.



anytime mo, and kudos to you for your decision to abstain,,,

no photo
Thu 11/04/10 11:25 AM

I also think it takes away from the true meaning of love. If you don't have to wait and get to know a personmind body soul and spirit. There is no Substance. But waiting is so much better.just my feelings.


Sex and love aren't mutually exclusive.

no photo
Thu 11/04/10 11:27 AM

One slight flaw with this theory of abstainence till marriage thing.

I don't know ANYONE who is happy to be married. The best I can think of are a pair of couples who are blase' about it. The rest are miserable. This is the EXACT reason I have been invited to swing with many couples. They want sex....just not with the spouse that they don't even want to get naked with. As a matter of fact it is the married ones that are the real freaks. Those are the people that live with an "anything goes" philosophy. When just date humping, a modicum of civil decorum is standard practice.


I know many couples who are happily married. I guess it just depends on the couple.

Jess642's photo
Thu 11/04/10 12:29 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Thu 11/04/10 12:30 PM

In light of all the stds out there. Is there anyone out there that believe in waiting til marriage anymore before being intimate. Or do anyone have morals anymore? I hear people just wanting to hookup. No substance but just taking chances with their lives or infecting someone else.



hmmmm...if one could guarantee that neither partner would ever stray or have unprotected opportunistic sex with someone...then your theory would work.

Alas, statistically it has been proven it doesn't....the minority of 'sanctified faithful' married peoples have also got a statistically high number of liers (sp?)...noway ...did you know it is one in 5 children that are not the assumed 'biological' father's in an alleged monogomous marriage, that's a GLOBAL statistic...?

krupa's photo
Thu 11/04/10 01:15 PM


In light of all the stds out there. Is there anyone out there that believe in waiting til marriage anymore before being intimate. Or do anyone have morals anymore? I hear people just wanting to hookup. No substance but just taking chances with their lives or infecting someone else.



hmmmm...if one could guarantee that neither partner would ever stray or have unprotected opportunistic sex with someone...then your theory would work.

Alas, statistically it has been proven it doesn't....the minority of 'sanctified faithful' married peoples have also got a statistically high number of liers (sp?)...noway ...did you know it is one in 5 children that are not the assumed 'biological' father's in an alleged monogomous marriage, that's a GLOBAL statistic...?


Hey! You can't pin all those on me! 1 in 4 are chinese and 1 in 4 are indian....that leaves 3 out of 5...ok....THAT sounds more reasonable.

Jess642's photo
Thu 11/04/10 01:24 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Thu 11/04/10 01:25 PM



In light of all the stds out there. Is there anyone out there that believe in waiting til marriage anymore before being intimate. Or do anyone have morals anymore? I hear people just wanting to hookup. No substance but just taking chances with their lives or infecting someone else.



hmmmm...if one could guarantee that neither partner would ever stray or have unprotected opportunistic sex with someone...then your theory would work.

Alas, statistically it has been proven it doesn't....the minority of 'sanctified faithful' married peoples have also got a statistically high number of liers (sp?)...noway ...did you know it is one in 5 children that are not the assumed 'biological' father's in an alleged monogomous marriage, that's a GLOBAL statistic...?


Hey! You can't pin all those on me! 1 in 4 are chinese and 1 in 4 are indian....that leaves 3 out of 5...ok....THAT sounds more reasonable.



they call him the 'Sperminator!'....rofl



Why would someone staplegun their expectations, obligations, insecurities and obsessions onto another...especially if they have already done it once?

Humans are not monogomous...irrespective of how much crowing, and bragging they do.

msharmony's photo
Thu 11/04/10 01:34 PM




In light of all the stds out there. Is there anyone out there that believe in waiting til marriage anymore before being intimate. Or do anyone have morals anymore? I hear people just wanting to hookup. No substance but just taking chances with their lives or infecting someone else.



hmmmm...if one could guarantee that neither partner would ever stray or have unprotected opportunistic sex with someone...then your theory would work.

Alas, statistically it has been proven it doesn't....the minority of 'sanctified faithful' married peoples have also got a statistically high number of liers (sp?)...noway ...did you know it is one in 5 children that are not the assumed 'biological' father's in an alleged monogomous marriage, that's a GLOBAL statistic...?


Hey! You can't pin all those on me! 1 in 4 are chinese and 1 in 4 are indian....that leaves 3 out of 5...ok....THAT sounds more reasonable.



they call him the 'Sperminator!'....rofl





Why would someone staplegun their expectations, obligations, insecurities and obsessions onto another...especially if they have already done it once?

Humans are not monogomous...irrespective of how much crowing, and bragging they do.


Definition of MONOGAMY
: the state or custom of being married to one person at a time or of having only one mate at a time


some are and some arent,,,more about upbringing than nature, ,,in my opinion

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