I know that I have over a year, but I honestly think I am getting cold feet. I think there is something wrong with me.

I am totally deeply in love with this man.

What is wrong?

Miss Fine, we have all been burned before but he has stayed with you all this time.... Don't be your own worst enemy and second guess yourself out of this. Pach loves you, I can remember reading his few posts about you and I know how you have spoken about him for the past three years....

It seems that every time I start thinking about the wedding, or looking at wedding catalogs, my head starts to hurt and I feel very ill. It has gotten to the point that I have all but shut down when it comes to wedding things.










P.S. Is it ok if I brought back my bra pic? probably not huh?

It is not help you need you just need to relax and let things happen the way they are meant to.

When one takes too much time to second guess they will find things that are not even there. Or that are too small to let them fret over...

We can take a leap of faith and grab that happiness before us or we can look for reasons not to and let it slip through our fingers...

Don't end up being one sitting alone wondering what if I had only jumped in with both feet what would have happened?

Some times I think that his life would be better if we would have remained friends, as you all know, I am NOT the easiest person to live with. And I am not trying to make this into a pity party...

i'm not smarter than you, and i don't know you, but if you want help i will try.

I can understand this but for me, I loved getting the wedding stuff together. I bought so many catalogs and am always looking at wedding gowns (I have had mine for two years now) that I was able to look at a gown and tell Izzie that "this one" is her wedding gown, even though I had only met her once and I was a Continent away from her. (Her-Oregon, me-Long Island NY)

When it came down to having to tell my job I was leaving, I kept freaking out because I was afraid of being stranded without a job. Now that I am in the position I am in, I can't wait to get there and want to be with Jon as soon as possible.

You will be fine, just take that final jump as Kristi said.

Any advice from anyone would be greatly read and thoroughly ingested.. I mean appreciated.

Bring it on handsome.

Oh and if you can re-post yours....mine is coming out of "private"

this is going to take a few steps and if it's cool with eileena i'll help. i only say that because eileena knows you and the situation better than i do.

Ese.....Miss Fine.................Miss Fine......Ese....


Miss Fine asked for help from anyone hun, I just happened to be the one she screamed for.

If your having a problem when it comes to the wedding planning ask for help from others. You may be surprised who all would be willing to help you out and get rid of those wedding jitters....


As far as being better off as just friends... shshsh ...girlfriend if you think for a moment we are not all difficult to deal with at times then wake up for I assure you we all have our b***h side.... and some of us are real good at it too hehehehehe

Well.... THIS time I screamed for you...

nice to meet you ma'am, i think we should start with the problem. can you tell me exactly what the problem is?

Still talking about me huh?..lol

Shshsh ya might be bad but ya not that bad

Ok, first off please do not call me ma'am..I am not my mother. If you want to call me something then you may call me Miss Fine, or Fine, or hey you sexy *****...

As for the exact problem? I guess it's alot of insecurities? I feel that he can do better, sometimes I feel that he is just settling. And I am scared that he will change if we get married.

as per your request...
ok miss fine, when you explain the problem you have, are you thinking about what to type, or do you just type what you are feeling at the moment?

All of the time hun, I was all excited. I have a dress, a place, my colors, my invitations all picked out, most of my invitation list done, bridesparty picked out, then it just happened one day. I was sitting at the table and I was reading a magazine. Then I got physically ill. And this is the most I have talked about it in about 3 weeks.

Girl you need to realize he is with the woman he wants to be with and very happy with her at that... Quit selling yourself short....... your all that and a hand basket.

He loves ya he has said it and showed it in many many ways.... don't doubt his love or you will finally find something wrong with why you should be happy.......

Now do I need to get out the duct tape till the wedding?..........