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Edited by
davidben1
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No limits bro. To each thier own. I used to whip out my extensive vocabulary to wow the peasants...till I realized I was just alienating myself by shoving my superior IQ in random strangers faces and using archaic references that required a thesaurus for translation. Now, I just talk like a half drunk sailor and everyone knows what I mean. Works for me. Do your thang my man. Nosdrowie' damn dude, your outlook is impressive, for real. what you just did was indeed a true display of embracing other's as equal to self. i am truly inspired by your words and deeds. however, just as a note, this is not any quest to be recognized for superior IQ... and if i wished to "get friends", or lovers, for myself, of course, i would not even begin to speak such, lol... it is about something much larger than that to me. the advancement of mankind into peace, by actually working to eliminate what be based upon personal preferecne, and what true equal treatment of all in society actually be, and looking for a women that value the same herself. i have trie to intentionally used the simplest words possible to describe the essence of the point. however, because of your obvious embracing of other's as equal to yourself, i shall gladly accept your advice, and seek earnestly to more simplify the essence. peace bro. |
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You lost me after "Damn Dude"
hehehehehe Sorry, I couldn't resist. |
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for any friendship is to free another of the need for ANY apology unto self, so this i extend to you, lol...
speak freely and free the world of oppression. peace man |
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Tzall good my man. Speaking freely is one thing I am good at. (God, I put my teachers through hell)
Alright wildman. you take the reigns and steer this herd of lemmings away from the cliff. I got some lady flesh to pursue. Peace. |
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there is no greater essence, to attain in life anything that oneself seeks, but the grandiose respect of simply speaking what one self wants, which then reduce the most complex to the simplest equasion, of who wants most what self wants most.
success shall be yours fellow sailor. |
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what is your mission in life davidben?
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what is your mission in life davidben? the elimination of bias from planet earth, with the true agreement of what be of personal bias, and with the true agreement of what be not of personal bias. for it is only when mortals deem no peace amoung mankind as possible, that bias is seen as a staple of mankind, and left to prosper with complacency, that hath the power to soon destroy many loved ones in an instant. if it be accessed peace on earth be not possible, then such hath become so forever, as this belief in itself would leave not one person left to even try to facilitate it, or lift one finger to do anything about it. if it was believed that no airplane could fly in the sky by all, then none would fly today. if it was believed by all that the earth was flat, then all would still be in fear and seperated from each other. if it was believed by all that blacks were disposable objects, than they would still be being burned and enslaved today. if it was believed by all that witches should be eradicated from earth, then anyone today would be possible prey to accusations and penalties of witchcraft. if it was believed by all that the computor was of no valid use to mankind, than again we would all be more seperated from each other today. if one wish for itself, and it's own family, to be treated equally and without bias, in any society, then soon the realization comes to be known, that to create such for one or some, be impossible, lest one truly try to create it for all, and to create it for all, there must be the knowing of what any personal bias actually be. some will care, some will not. each one that does, knows more what true equality be, which be one more sliver of light of happiness for all created. and one less mortal killed or tortured or abused or raped or molested or oppressed, by the lacking of any true caring about equal for all, which to care, one first needs the insight of what to actually care about, to know how to create any better for one and all. |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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^ I NEVER read this guy's stuff cuz yanno he's full of it as for Fear, ya he's a prankster furshure ****************************************** I agree to some extent with you,like - unless I'm bustin' balls back & forth w/ someone cuz we're goofingaround, then I prefer to be tactful, that IS being myself for me There's so much crap we put up with everyday - why pass along more? be the flower Lex, the clean crisp air, the unique little snowflake yanno - nice ur gonna do whatcha wanna - it was just my opinion  I honestly think this is the furst time on here that I have seen a post that is nearly 100% incorrect on all counts /end You do not have to agree with IDC really - but I am entitled to post my opinons and feelings whther they suit you or not, and quite frankly I couldn't be happier that they don't of everyone I have ever encountered on here, your opnion means the least to me. So it may be more productive for you to engage others in the future - jmho indeed, i am very full, full enough to vomit, with all the women that are ugly as sin but convince themself they are hotties... it's like a howard hughs unsanity fest, with all the self worhsipping wicked stepmother complex's run amock. regurgetated regurgetation would be more appealing.  (jk - I just felt we needed a bit of light humor at ths point) notice the "I"......just "felt"......."we".......needed a bit of light humor at this point... and "I" precisely states the "self feeler's", are believed to be the GUIDE FOR ALL OTHER HUMANS.... and this mentality having been embraced by anything as good, comes to believe the "feelers" should actually control all other's, and IF they cannot be controlled to CONFORM, TO SELF FEELER'S, then the "they" are "enemy" of self grows, even wishing these leave, a public forum? is that not what the "benefits of blunt speech" as listed, defined how blunt words exposes such wouldbe dictator's, and controllers of others? hum... and who is the "we" that you believe you speak for? there is no "we" in public forums. this is not a private home. forums are set up in the same manner a free society is set up... not using the "FEELINGS" OF SOME, to dictate the "words" of all. and yes, and you are correct, these forums do a great job of making decision's that are EQUAL, not favoring with BIAS, for "some" whom wish all others to speak as themself. yes, these forums embrace diversity as good, and diversity as what be the essence of freedom, not creating what many so long to have for themself, for self to rule as supreme, one OWN FEELINGS, dictating how all other's should speak. boy, i bet you hated george carlin, lol... and dane cook also... lol... leave, so one can control for it's own self supremacy in peace? never! that would be the same as leaving hitler alone, to prey upon the natural weaker side of the "feelings" in the people, for himself to gain power to control them, using most the natural inclination of people to want their "own feelings" protected, and for anything else to be destroyed. that would oppose the very principles i live and speak and eat and do for, which be the total freedom of ALL IN THE WORLD, not perpetuating the belief that CREATE ALL HATE IN THE WORLD, that hating another is ok, if another does not conform to the SELF FEELER'S... but, not all wish for freedom of all, just themself, and so these work but to coerce the bias out of people, to actually encite malice or contempt for the sole purpose of "protecting self feelings", as the guide of all speech"... my speech be the opposite motive of that, and so of course, will and would be always hated by the control freaks, whom but demand falttery for themself, and death or ruin or prison or banishment to all that do not give it. lol... damn, this type mentality would make excellent nazi concentration camp den mothers, carring out the fuhrer's wishes of creating his OWN FEELINGS, for all as supreme. and so, it does appear that it twas correctly stated in the "benefits of blunt and harsh speech", that such does indeed expose the wouldbe dictator's, whom would wish all freedom's erased, if it spared their own "feelers"... and as well, nothing does this except that which matches all the qualities of the "wicked stepmother syndrome", who see other human's as the self validating mirror for self, beleiving that ALL are supposed to tell self how awesome it is, and if they don't... no useful purpose for these mortals. which create EXTREME FRUSTRATION in this mentality, which becomes as loathing, which becomes as hate... omg... hello... the "control freaks", who believe their OWN FEELINGS, should decide the words allowable on planet earth, the dictators who believe their "feelings" are TO BE THE FORCED GUIDE OF AND FOR ALL? the guide for all huh... wow... such mentality is what has created the present atmosphere of hate mongering in the world. no wonder you say you cant bring yourself to read my stuff, because you would either have to hate me, or relax and admit self wishes to control all others, and then DECIDE TO LIVE AND LET LIVE, and give up the hate of what does not "FEEL" as you do, lol... and then, happy could come for more than just one. again, anything that thinks with this self as surpreme control all other feelings is free to hate me, lol...  I really think you'd get further talking to someone besdies me
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and @Lex, when I said I don't think it's necessary to "go out of the way" to be rude I was referring things like intentional baiting , inflammatory speech designed to instigate arguments - you've seen it on here I'm sure- fortunately not often. this site is pretty good as far as keeping that stuff off the threads Yeah, I have been on sites where the forums are nothing more than thinly-disguised war zones -- whatever the "topic" started out to be, it gets buried beneath pages and pages of people calling each other names for no reason. |
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^ I NEVER read this guy's stuff cuz yanno he's full of it as for Fear, ya he's a prankster furshure ****************************************** I agree to some extent with you,like - unless I'm bustin' balls back & forth w/ someone cuz we're goofingaround, then I prefer to be tactful, that IS being myself for me There's so much crap we put up with everyday - why pass along more? be the flower Lex, the clean crisp air, the unique little snowflake yanno - nice ur gonna do whatcha wanna - it was just my opinion  indeed, i am very full, full enough to vomit, with all the women that are ugly as sin but convince themself they are hotties... it's like a howard hughs unsanity fest, with all the self worhsipping wicked stepmother complex's run amock. regurgetated regurgetation would be more appealing. (jk - I just felt we needed a bit of light humor at ths point) notice the "I"......just "felt"......."we".......needed a bit of light humor at this point... and "I" precisely states the "self feeler's", are believed to be the GUIDE FOR ALL OTHER HUMANS.... and this mentality having been embraced by anything as good, comes to believe the "feelers" should actually control all other's, and IF they cannot be controlled to CONFORM, TO SELF FEELER'S, then the "they" are "enemy" of self grows, even wishing these leave, a public forum? is that not what the "benefits of blunt speech" as listed, defined how blunt words exposes such wouldbe dictator's, and controllers of others? hum... and who is the "we" that you believe you speak for? there is no "we" in public forums. this is not a private home. forums are set up in the same manner a free society is set up... not using the "FEELINGS" OF SOME, to dictate the "words" of all. and yes, and you are correct, these forums do a great job of making decision's that are EQUAL, not favoring with BIAS, for "some" whom wish all others to speak as themself. yes, these forums embrace diversity as good, and diversity as what be the essence of freedom, not creating what many so long to have for themself, for self to rule as supreme, one OWN FEELINGS, dictating how all other's should speak. boy, i bet you hated george carlin, lol... and dane cook also... lol... leave, so one can control for it's own self supremacy in peace? never! that would be the same as leaving hitler alone, to prey upon the natural weaker side of the "feelings" in the people, for himself to gain power to control them, using most the natural inclination of people to want their "own feelings" protected, and for anything else to be destroyed. that would oppose the very principles i live and speak and eat and do for, which be the total freedom of ALL IN THE WORLD, not perpetuating the belief that CREATE ALL HATE IN THE WORLD, that hating another is ok, if another does not conform to the SELF FEELER'S... but, not all wish for freedom of all, just themself, and so these work but to coerce the bias out of people, to actually encite malice or contempt for the sole purpose of "protecting self feelings", as the guide of all speech"... my speech be the opposite motive of that, and so of course, will and would be always hated by the control freaks, whom but demand falttery for themself, and death or ruin or prison or banishment to all that do not give it. lol... damn, this type mentality would make excellent nazi concentration camp den mothers, carring out the fuhrer's wishes of creating his OWN FEELINGS, for all as supreme. and so, it does appear that it twas correctly stated in the "benefits of blunt and harsh speech", that such does indeed expose the wouldbe dictator's, whom would wish all freedom's erased, if it spared their own "feelers"... and as well, nothing does this except that which matches all the qualities of the "wicked stepmother syndrome", who see other human's as the self validating mirror for self, beleiving that ALL are supposed to tell self how awesome it is, and if they don't... no useful purpose for these mortals. which create EXTREME FRUSTRATION in this mentality, which becomes as loathing, which becomes as hate... omg... hello... the "control freaks", who believe their OWN FEELINGS, should decide the words allowable on planet earth, the dictators who believe their "feelings" are TO BE THE FORCED GUIDE OF AND FOR ALL? the guide for all huh... wow... such mentality is what has created the present atmosphere of hate mongering in the world. no wonder you say you cant bring yourself to read my stuff, because you would either have to hate me, or relax and admit self wishes to control all others, and then DECIDE TO LIVE AND LET LIVE, and give up the hate of what does not "FEEL" as you do, lol... and then, happy could come for more than just one. again, anything that thinks with this self as surpreme control all other feelings is free to hate me, lol... I think you should flesh out your thoughts a bit more. Your verbiage is not excessive enough. OMG please don't egg him on - ur just a naughty one
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Needless to say..aint no damned way I am going to read the anthology above me. Less is more people. Learn it. Live it. Love it. Back to the topic at hand. You want to limit your carreer? BE HONEST...I was told I will never make upper mgmt because I am too honest. I laughed when I was told. "Yeah, I just aint no good at saying s**t that I dont mean to peoples face. But, you guys are really good at it!" I am forever doomed to middle mgmt. Want to put a bullet through the head of your love life? Shoot off a few honesty bullets. "I think your family is a freakshow and I detest having those inbreds intrude on every damned holiday" "No baby, you didn't lose 15 pounds.....they are right behind you. turn around...they are right there!" "Damn! That is one ugly kid you spawned! Shoulda thrown that one to the wolves" Wanna shed a few friends? Be honest.......... "Your old lady hits on me when you are passed out drunk" "Dang! Your daughter has a nice @ss!" Dont get me wrong...honesty has its place....so does diplomacy. So does keeping quiet cause sometimes some things are better left unsaid. so anyway how did the skirt chasing go??? |
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i always tell the truth no matter what but sometimes im told im a lil too honest
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^ I NEVER read this guy's stuff cuz yanno he's full of it as for Fear, ya he's a prankster furshure ****************************************** I agree to some extent with you,like - unless I'm bustin' balls back & forth w/ someone cuz we're goofingaround, then I prefer to be tactful, that IS being myself for me There's so much crap we put up with everyday - why pass along more? be the flower Lex, the clean crisp air, the unique little snowflake yanno - nice ur gonna do whatcha wanna - it was just my opinion I honestly think this is the furst time on here that I have seen a post that is nearly 100% incorrect on all counts /end You do not have to agree with IDC really - but I am entitled to post my opinons and feelings whther they suit you or not, and quite frankly I couldn't be happier that they don't of everyone I have ever encountered on here, your opnion means the least to me. So it may be more productive for you to engage others in the future - jmho indeed, i am very full, full enough to vomit, with all the women that are ugly as sin but convince themself they are hotties... it's like a howard hughs unsanity fest, with all the self worhsipping wicked stepmother complex's run amock. regurgetated regurgetation would be more appealing. (jk - I just felt we needed a bit of light humor at ths point) notice the "I"......just "felt"......."we".......needed a bit of light humor at this point... and "I" precisely states the "self feeler's", are believed to be the GUIDE FOR ALL OTHER HUMANS.... and this mentality having been embraced by anything as good, comes to believe the "feelers" should actually control all other's, and IF they cannot be controlled to CONFORM, TO SELF FEELER'S, then the "they" are "enemy" of self grows, even wishing these leave, a public forum? is that not what the "benefits of blunt speech" as listed, defined how blunt words exposes such wouldbe dictator's, and controllers of others? hum... and who is the "we" that you believe you speak for? there is no "we" in public forums. this is not a private home. forums are set up in the same manner a free society is set up... not using the "FEELINGS" OF SOME, to dictate the "words" of all. and yes, and you are correct, these forums do a great job of making decision's that are EQUAL, not favoring with BIAS, for "some" whom wish all others to speak as themself. yes, these forums embrace diversity as good, and diversity as what be the essence of freedom, not creating what many so long to have for themself, for self to rule as supreme, one OWN FEELINGS, dictating how all other's should speak. boy, i bet you hated george carlin, lol... and dane cook also... lol... leave, so one can control for it's own self supremacy in peace? never! that would be the same as leaving hitler alone, to prey upon the natural weaker side of the "feelings" in the people, for himself to gain power to control them, using most the natural inclination of people to want their "own feelings" protected, and for anything else to be destroyed. that would oppose the very principles i live and speak and eat and do for, which be the total freedom of ALL IN THE WORLD, not perpetuating the belief that CREATE ALL HATE IN THE WORLD, that hating another is ok, if another does not conform to the SELF FEELER'S... but, not all wish for freedom of all, just themself, and so these work but to coerce the bias out of people, to actually encite malice or contempt for the sole purpose of "protecting self feelings", as the guide of all speech"... my speech be the opposite motive of that, and so of course, will and would be always hated by the control freaks, whom but demand falttery for themself, and death or ruin or prison or banishment to all that do not give it. lol... damn, this type mentality would make excellent nazi concentration camp den mothers, carring out the fuhrer's wishes of creating his OWN FEELINGS, for all as supreme. and so, it does appear that it twas correctly stated in the "benefits of blunt and harsh speech", that such does indeed expose the wouldbe dictator's, whom would wish all freedom's erased, if it spared their own "feelers"... and as well, nothing does this except that which matches all the qualities of the "wicked stepmother syndrome", who see other human's as the self validating mirror for self, beleiving that ALL are supposed to tell self how awesome it is, and if they don't... no useful purpose for these mortals. which create EXTREME FRUSTRATION in this mentality, which becomes as loathing, which becomes as hate... omg... hello... the "control freaks", who believe their OWN FEELINGS, should decide the words allowable on planet earth, the dictators who believe their "feelings" are TO BE THE FORCED GUIDE OF AND FOR ALL? the guide for all huh... wow... such mentality is what has created the present atmosphere of hate mongering in the world. no wonder you say you cant bring yourself to read my stuff, because you would either have to hate me, or relax and admit self wishes to control all others, and then DECIDE TO LIVE AND LET LIVE, and give up the hate of what does not "FEEL" as you do, lol... and then, happy could come for more than just one. again, anything that thinks with this self as surpreme control all other feelings is free to hate me, lol... I really think you'd get further talking to someone besdies me oh, but my dear, you first spoke unto me... nay, you did not speak unto me, you deemed all my words to be "full of it"? lol... did i first deem your insight as "full of it"? i thought your insight was just fine, as well as my own? why are your words "not full of it", but mine are? are your words and insight seen with bias as better than mine? well, if such be so, and as ok with yourself, than why is it then not ok for me to speak my insight of your words? but even then, there was no reference to you personally at all, but rather only about any thought process that would deem itself fit to control all other's speech to suite itself, using itself as the bar to measure all other's, which indeed, would seem to be quite biased in itself? hum... such a one sided approach to equal. lol... indeed, my post was never speaking to you or anyone else to begin with, but rather speaking for MYSELF, in the attempts to be honest about who and what i am, as this is a dating sight, that request honesty from all, so as to not misrepresent oneself to anyone, indeed not but manipulating the truth of self but to aquire for self by way of some dishonesty. certainly, one would choose the more flattering words of humanity to be used in such endeavors. you are not for me, and i not for you. i am quite fervently happy about such. so what? whats the big deal? are all supposed to be acceptable mates for each other? lol... how may i find my true love, that which love all as equal beings, if i speak one ounce of dishonesty of myself? just because you deem my posts as "full of it", does not mean all shall, and my dear, i do not seek all to agree, or even some to agree, as to what be of most value, but indeed only one. |
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Edited by
tngxl65
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Tue 11/02/10 08:36 PM
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The truth should start as a dull sword. If it doesn't leave a mark then sharpen it.
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i always tell the truth no matter what but sometimes im told im a lil too honest only from what does not appreciate true honesty themself, so most by only what speaks not true honesty itself, so most by what does not see itself with any true honesty. |
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I value honesty, but sometimes we just have to keep our mouths shut.
The reality is no matter how you sugar coat it people are going to take what you said to heart and take offense. No one likes to have their flaws or mistakes pointed out. When my friends ask for my opinion about something I always reply: "do you want the truth or do you want to be happy?". Fact is: people only learn with their mistakes after hitting their heads at a wall a couple of times. If you know your advice is going to fall on infertile ground just keep it to yourself, saying anything will be a waste of energy and saliva. |
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Needless to say..aint no damned way I am going to read the anthology above me. Less is more people. Learn it. Live it. Love it. Back to the topic at hand. You want to limit your carreer? BE HONEST...I was told I will never make upper mgmt because I am too honest. I laughed when I was told. "Yeah, I just aint no good at saying s**t that I dont mean to peoples face. But, you guys are really good at it!" I am forever doomed to middle mgmt. Want to put a bullet through the head of your love life? Shoot off a few honesty bullets. "I think your family is a freakshow and I detest having those inbreds intrude on every damned holiday" "No baby, you didn't lose 15 pounds.....they are right behind you. turn around...they are right there!" "Damn! That is one ugly kid you spawned! Shoulda thrown that one to the wolves" Wanna shed a few friends? Be honest.......... "Your old lady hits on me when you are passed out drunk" "Dang! Your daughter has a nice @ss!" Dont get me wrong...honesty has its place....so does diplomacy. So does keeping quiet cause sometimes some things are better left unsaid. so anyway how did the skirt chasing go??? Suprizingly good! You would think a woman in a skirt could easily out run an idiot with his pants around his ankles....but, I seem to catch up a lot more than you might think I would. |
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If ya know me.....and who really knows me
 I can be blunt at times but I also have a caring heart so I would never intentionaly hurt anyone with the truth I would hold back to spare really hurting another 
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correct me if im wrong but i think alot of you come off as aholes, if you go back & read what you wrote.
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correct me if im wrong but i think alot of you come off as aholes, if you go back & read what you wrote. wow,now that you said that, i'm thinking you are going to be corrected more than once.
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