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Topic: "I Love You More ...
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Sun 10/31/10 07:25 PM
Edited by Tuckfard on Sun 10/31/10 07:26 PM

Than I did when you were mine"

Lyrics to a Cyndi Lauper song

Is is possible to love someone more when you have broken up with

That person?

I mean i still feel love for my ex wife cuz she's the mother of my kids

But i doubt i love her more lol ... what you guys think?



LOL no Dude , I'm not in love with her


Uh huh.

If you say so.

... indifferent

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Sun 10/31/10 07:27 PM


Than I did when you were mine"

Lyrics to a Cyndi Lauper song

Is is possible to love someone more when you have broken up with

That person?

I mean i still feel love for my ex wife cuz she's the mother of my kids]

But i doubt i love her more lol ... what you guys think?



LOL no Dude , I'm not in love with her


Uh huh.

If you say so.

... indifferent


I always going to feel love for her , she's part of my life

The mother of my kids and yes i say so drinker

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Sun 10/31/10 07:33 PM
Sometimes getting out of a relationship makes you realize how much it meant to you and sometimes getting away just let's you care again - but not necessarily be 'in love' again. I love my children's father - always will - but would NEVER go there again LOL.

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Sun 10/31/10 07:53 PM

It's possible. Makes you realize how much you cared ... how much love you had ... makes you realize what you once had .. all because you had to let go and/or learn to let go.


well said! saw the ex hubby yesterday & now i got a funny feeling laugh
it was good that we talked too. It's been 5 years & a crap load of BS and yes it was very complicated frustrated frustrated sad sad

The same unexplainable wicked crazy attraction is there still and I remember the times before life got really effed up when we had the kinda thing that everyone else wanted! :banana: drool

I don't regret letting him go though and I am happy to be where I am right now in life. It would take a substantial amount of time to rebuild a friendship before we could even consider another try, but we both still care deeply for each other. Timing isn't right now, but things may change in the future! Not holding my breath for it or anything either, just saying that the bond isn't in as bad of shape as we thought!

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Sun 10/31/10 08:24 PM
I think you can love someone even more after things have ended. I do love my ex a lot since he is my daughter's father. However, I will never be "IN LOVE" with him ever again. I am greatful for the time we spent together and the life lessons I have learned but I would never love him any more or less than what I did before.

But I do think other people can love the ex a lot more because of the realization of what is lost and wanting to rekindle it. I'm not that type though.


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Mon 11/01/10 03:52 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Mon 11/01/10 03:52 PM



Than I did when you were mine"

Lyrics to a Cyndi Lauper song

Is is possible to love someone more when you have broken up with

That person?

I mean i still feel love for my ex wife cuz she's the mother of my kids]

But i doubt i love her more lol ... what you guys think?



LOL no Dude , I'm not in love with her


Uh huh.

If you say so.

... indifferent


I always going to feel love for her , she's part of my life

The mother of my kids and yes i say so drinker


I've seen some divorced parents who remain pretty good friends, I think it is possible if the split was amicable, but I do not think it is fair to a new partner to hang on to feelings of love for a previous partner. I think it is a sign that one is not ready for a new partner because they aren't over their previous one.

I feel absolutely no love for my sons' father - altho I respect his position as their father...if I find someone new I will be able to give all of my love to the new partner in my life. I think that is how it should be - I certainly cannot imagine trying to love a man who still loves his ex...no thanks

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