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Topic: How to get over someone
Jtevans's photo
Sat 10/30/10 08:52 PM

How do you get over a friend who you dated? We still hang out together in large groups occasionally and usually it's fun, so I don't want to start avoiding him or anything.
Also, my best friend is sometimes trying to flirt with him and cuddle with him when she knows that I still have for him. Eventhough it bothers me a lot i don't want to comment about it too much and ruin our friendship.
What should I do in both situations?



go to a strip club and see some boobies glasses

Sleepless_nights_78's photo
Sat 10/30/10 09:04 PM
It seems like you both have the same group of friends. Over all if you enjoy being around your friends then try to enjoy yourself. I know it might be easier said then done sometimes. I hope you get it figured out.

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Sat 10/30/10 09:45 PM


How do you get over a friend who you dated? We still hang out together in large groups occasionally and usually it's fun, so I don't want to start avoiding him or anything.
Also, my best friend is sometimes trying to flirt with him and cuddle with him when she knows that I still have for him. Eventhough it bothers me a lot i don't want to comment about it too much and ruin our friendship.
What should I do in both situations?



go to a strip club and see some boobies glasses
jt she's a girl she dont wanna go to no strip club and watch a buncha hoes -

fireflysgirl's photo
Sun 10/31/10 09:21 AM



How do you get over a friend who you dated? We still hang out together in large groups occasionally and usually it's fun, so I don't want to start avoiding him or anything.
Also, my best friend is sometimes trying to flirt with him and cuddle with him when she knows that I still have for him. Eventhough it bothers me a lot i don't want to comment about it too much and ruin our friendship.
What should I do in both situations?



go to a strip club and see some boobies glasses
jt she's a girl she dont wanna go to no strip club and watch a buncha hoes -


not necessarily! I love strip clubs, have even gone to one on a date!
LOL

fireflysgirl's photo
Sun 10/31/10 09:32 AM
The only ex bf I couldn't get over I slept with his best friend & that worked out quite well! Go figure

On the other hand, getting over the ex hubby is killing me! I have done everything but drop the atomic bomb on this relationship and nothing has worked! It just won't die or stay buried noway blushing

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Sun 10/31/10 07:26 PM
depends on how long u were with them over a year i would have 2 say u dont and never will

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Sun 10/31/10 08:07 PM

depends on how long u were with them over a year i would have 2 say u dont and never will
don't be silly. course you canflowers

(but I've had longer to practice...)

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Sat 11/06/10 02:55 PM
thanks for all the help guys!!! it was nice reading all that! I think I need to redefine who my closest friends are and who aren't.

P.S: hahaha no i dont think i wanna go to strip club to make myself feel better :P

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Sat 11/06/10 03:02 PM
Try developing some new interests. Grow your life in a new direction. This will lead you to meeting a whole new group of peeps. A year from now you will look back at this group and realize that they really dont matter to you anymore. Make the choice thats healthiest for you. flowerforyou

LoveAlina's photo
Sat 11/06/10 03:18 PM

How do you get over a friend who you dated? We still hang out together in large groups occasionally and usually it's fun, so I don't want to start avoiding him or anything.
Also, my best friend is sometimes trying to flirt with him and cuddle with him when she knows that I still have for him. Eventhough it bothers me a lot i don't want to comment about it too much and ruin our friendship.
What should I do in both situations?


It seems like he means more to you than just a "friend you dated" for this reason and perhaps for other reasons your having trouble sitting with this emotion. There is a reason for every season; so stay positive about yourself and your friend, unless you know for a fact she is being deliberate about your feelings and has been informed about how you truly feel. Begin to date again, this will open other opportunities awaiting. This world is huge there are plenty of fish out there! just be cautious...their all not dauphins....

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Sat 11/06/10 05:27 PM

Try developing some new interests. Grow your life in a new direction. This will lead you to meeting a whole new group of peeps. A year from now you will look back at this group and realize that they really dont matter to you anymore. Make the choice thats healthiest for you. flowerforyou


spot on venus

eklectek's photo
Sat 11/06/10 05:32 PM

How do you get over a friend who you dated? We still hang out together in large groups occasionally and usually it's fun, so I don't want to start avoiding him or anything.
Also, my best friend is sometimes trying to flirt with him and cuddle with him when she knows that I still have for him. Eventhough it bothers me a lot i don't want to comment about it too much and ruin our friendship.
What should I do in both situations?
Thisis so simple....SPEAK UP!!!! people wont know if you dont tell them....the guessing games and tongue biting Never works. I hope all works out for you. As for your friend hitting on the guy...you do not have a right to be upset unless you have the "talk" BEST of luck!!!!!!
EK

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