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Topic: Just curious to see what others think
chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Sun 10/31/10 06:52 AM
oh ya !!!!!!

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Sun 10/31/10 07:02 AM
Here's something that a friend of mine asked me and I'm just curious to see what others think. I know that it might sound like a strange question because I thought it was when I was asked it. But, here it goes. Is it possible for two people to remain friends even after they have slept together? Yes...absolutely....

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Sun 10/31/10 08:26 AM
Don't burn bridges just in case ya' run a dry spell and need a little.

fireflysgirl Joined Mon 10/18/10 Posts: 2957	Sun 10/31/10 09:07 AM
Don't burn bridges just in case ya' run a dry spell and need a little. LOL!!!! YES! been there & done that as a young adult & still have some great friendships that have lasted well over a decade! Actually, one of my very closest friends and I have helped each other out at several times in our lives & it's never ever gotten complicated

Phuque2 Joined Thu 11/20/08 Posts: 4927	Sun 10/31/10 09:44 AM
Yes, I am friends with ex loves and lovers that choose to remain friends. We were friends first and lovers later. When a love or lovers relationship does not work out, revert back to the friendship.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 10/31/10 11:27 AM
Here's something that a friend of mine asked me and I'm just curious to see what others think. I know that it might sound like a strange question because I thought it was when I was asked it. But, here it goes. Is it possible for two people to remain friends even after they have slept together? Absolutely.

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Sun 10/31/10 11:59 AM Edited by Mikey117 on Sun 10/31/10 12:01 PM
OK I will settle this once and for all!! Ten of U ladies that are my friends (vollenteers anyone?) we will sleep together and then we will see!! BUT it may take more than ONE time to be sure!!

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sun 10/31/10 12:47 PM
...Mikey, I don't think so, love.....unless you can hitch a ride with John Travolta and Oprah...

sparky6417 Joined Fri 10/08/10 Posts: 47	Sun 10/31/10 07:22 PM
I believe you can be better friends, having gotten all the tingles out of the way.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 10/31/10 08:11 PM
I believe you can be better friends, having gotten all the tingles out of the way. IDK tho' usually I just wanna tingle some more

CatsLoveMe Joined Wed 09/16/09 Posts: 4522	Mon 11/01/10 02:56 AM
If both parties are single, it's been my experience that opposite gender friends brings about complications.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 11/01/10 03:22 AM
If both parties are single, it's been my experience that opposite gender friends brings about complications. Having friends of the opposite sex brings about complications? How come?

CatsLoveMe Joined Wed 09/16/09 Posts: 4522	Mon 11/01/10 03:24 AM
If both parties are single, it's been my experience that opposite gender friends brings about complications. Having friends of the opposite sex brings about complications? How come? Longings? What could be? What might have been? Or maybe just mutual attraction or pheromones?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 11/01/10 03:29 AM
If both parties are single, it's been my experience that opposite gender friends brings about complications. Having friends of the opposite sex brings about complications? How come? Longings? What could be? What might have been? Or maybe just mutual attraction or pheromones? If they're single and there's mutual attraction, what's the problem? What's the complication?

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Mon 11/01/10 03:38 AM
Sleeping together & friendship ...... Is there any relation....??? Why cant friends sleep together? Why shall friendship affect adversly if both are enjoying sleeping together...?? ( rather it shall effect positively as u get to know better eachother )

Bexter Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 527	Mon 11/01/10 03:52 AM
I agree. Many times, friends who can be intimate with you make the best lovers. Right there, is the complication. Wait... Isnt that the way it's supposed to be, anyway??

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Mon 11/01/10 04:20 AM
I agree. Many times, friends who can be intimate with you make the best lovers. Right there, is the complication. Wait... Isnt that the way it's supposed to be, anyway?? i always thought it was supposed to be wham bam thank you ma'am

Bexter Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 527	Mon 11/01/10 04:23 AM
c'mere Ah'll larn ya' a thang'er two! I knows you're the Devil's Advocate, sweets. :)

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Mon 11/01/10 04:39 AM
i don't even know what that is

Smiles8675309 Joined Mon 11/01/10 Posts: 5	Mon 11/01/10 08:13 PM
Of course it is. They have to be two mature adults who appreciate the experience for what it is. Be it mind blowing sex, a means to fulfill a need, simple curiosity, etc. Why would sex be the deal breaker in a friendship?