I was in a great relationship with a great guy, a photographer.

We lived in New York in a huge loft and had such fun and games, life was sooo sweet.

Then he asked me to marry him. I accepted.

We went over to his parents home in MA. They didn't take the news well. They said they wanted grandchildren and would cut his **** off if he was thinking of having a mixed race kid.

Well, my fiance didn't stand by me so I guess we were not meant to be.

My question is, if you were my lover, boyfriend, husband..would you like to have a kid with me one day and would your parents be happy too?

LOL i think you will get a lot of yes answers

no, at this point in my life I just don't want to have any more kids but you would know that up front

oh I forgot, I still like to practice making kids LOL

well, I have to say yes on this one. My mother would be happy no matter what, and if the rest of my fsmily didn't like it, oh well. They should understand that it is my choice, and it is what makes me happy. And it seemed that his parents were very close minded about this. They should have been more understanding about his happiness. And for him to do what they wished becaused he would be "cut off", well, that was materialism on his part anyway. You can find someone better.

Yes ,my parents are very accepting, my sister has lived with a black man for 8 years and 4 of my nieces and nephews are part native, they figure if that person makes u happy, then its all good!

{{{{{{{{ thanyaporn }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} how old is your "ex?" why would he have his mother dictate to him ? Seems to me it's a cop out, and anyway what's wrong with mixed race babies, they are humans too. I would not have my two any other way. They have the best of both worlds, cultures from both sides of the fence. This may sound harsh, it may be time to start dating an adult male who knows his own mind and loves you for being you...............

kiss thanks and another kiss

When you think about it, we are all of mixed race. Racial 'purity' was lost many millenia ago.


Oceans

your fiance didnt diserve a penis to concieve children anyways....mommas boy.
race doesnot matter. i would stand by my woman and let my parents slowly accept if they wanted to.

Hunny that man obviously did not deserve you, and he let his parents make his decision for him. Dont worry cause this is for the guys that had you the losers that lost you and the lucky bastard who gets to meet you. And when you find him he will be more than happy to have kids with you. And its a good thing that u found all this out sooner than later. And I agree with Oceans, so hunny dont let it get to you.

xx

I agree with cvaugh and BonnieMiss.You deserve better.My family would accept whatever made us happy.And I do have a niece,who is and she is so beautiful in more ways then one.

My parents didn't care for the 2 men I had kids by but they wouldn't trade their grandsons in for anything

The fact that he didn't stand by you should tell you all you need to know about him.

Me, personally, I'm not interested in having kids with anybody, and my parents are both dead, so I'd have to say no to your question -- but it has absolutely nothing to do with race.

been there. done that. is great!!

that is a poignant story. i love kids.
and i adore mine. and if i'm right about
you,

you are in for one hell of a great
life when you find the right guy.

and you will - but it will take a very
strong and self-confident guy for you

stick with it - there are some really
interesting people on this site.

THIS ME AND YES

he didnt love you ...too bad you had to find out in such a hurtful way...
if I were younger and you were with me of course we would have
the complete life together...as for my parents..they have nothing to do
with my life choices ...the choices are mine...
you will find someone more complete...

You are a lovely girl, with the sincerest intentions, what a catch!!!! I have to say tho that with all that you have going for you, life would be difficult with inlaws that are not on your side. He may have seen the future and realized that you should not be subjected to a lifetime of that, and it may have broken his own heart to let you go.

Someday we will all be grey, and I don't mean old. Pretty much all the same color. Its going to be a long and painful social process and you may be apart of that. I hope that you are happy with whatever you do, this is the reality of our world today.

He didn't deserve you and thank God that you found out before you got married. There is a plan and perfect person out there for you and all the children you wish to make with them. They will be loved no matter what! Both my kids are mixed race and they are BEAUTIFUL! As are all children.