Topic: If You Offer Your Hand
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Sun 10/24/10 07:39 AM



laugh there is a reason i always have some kind of weapon with me.


laugh



im not kidding i keep a screw driver in my driver side door in my truck lmao


I have a 9 iron in my car. laugh

OKCUTIE67's photo
Sun 10/24/10 07:42 AM
Nope! One shot is all you get with me! Blow that and you don't get anymore. drinker

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Sun 10/24/10 07:45 AM
Better to lose a hand than lose Mr. Happy!!noway bigsmile

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Sun 10/24/10 08:29 AM
i dont even extend the first hand to people i dont trust em

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Sun 10/24/10 09:02 AM

Never offer a hand that you may need later..down the road. You give a hand to help because it is the right thing to do.

If you expect something in return...Then your intentions were not about the giving.


beautifully said. I agree all kinds of help In my opinion including financial help should be given wiht no expectation of anything in return. So I am pretty discerning.

If someone gives me problems, or deals to me in a way I do not like, I simply refrain from any involvement with them that is not absolutely necessary. (Like the other young lady above also stated). I'm usually very cautious about those things. Unfortunately (or not) life has taught me to be cautious.


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Sun 10/24/10 09:06 AM




laugh there is a reason i always have some kind of weapon with me.


laugh



im not kidding i keep a screw driver in my driver side door in my truck lmao


I have a 9 iron in my car. laugh

I seriously keep my old field hockey stick near my door, and I carry a metal object in my car

ujGearhead's photo
Sun 10/24/10 09:07 AM

Nope! One shot is all you get with me! Blow that and you don't get anymore. drinker


But, my first is just a warning shot!

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Sun 10/24/10 09:28 AM
if one offer their "hand", but because it WANTED something, from another "hand", then it could, and will be in many cases, bit off.

if one offered "their hand", to another, OUT OF TRUE CARING FOR ANOTHER ALONE, having nothing to DO WITH SELF AQUIRING FOR ITSELF IN RETURN, then it would have in advance accessed any possible happenings from extending such hand, and in doing so, so then decided to give their hand anyhow, and so, NOT EVEN ABLE TO CONSIDER A BITTEN HAND TO EXIST FOR ITSELF?

those that see self as the "victim", only first gave to another covincing oneself it was FOR ANOTHER, but indeed, if they actually gave but because they CARED FOR ANOTHER, they would not be able to FEEL SLIGHTED...

if self give a gift, as kind words, or deeds, or material things, then ALL be as a "gift", WITH NO STRINGS OF GETTING IN RETURN FOR ITSELF?

WITH NO MOTIVE TO GIVE, BUT TO PROCURE FOR SELF?

if so, GETTING **** ON, does not exist, as the getting **** on oneself possibility would have been seen and known in advance, lest in the haste to AQUIRE FOR SELF, SELF BLINDED SELF by staring at WANTS FOR SELF, thus believing another human was but a candy dispencer, to provide to self A GOOD RETURN FOR IT'S INVESTMENT?

how is that any different that a wall street broker?

just trying to leverage self assets as in monetary gifts, self action's of caring, words of flattery, to procure the best return for self?

those that utilize the "assets" of self, to procure assests for self, will always get the *** end of the deal, in a "love deal", since it's not "love motive" to start with?








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Sun 10/24/10 09:35 AM
Before having both hands chopped off one may want to consider how efficient they are able to use their feet...also telepathy skills.

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Sun 10/24/10 09:55 AM





laugh there is a reason i always have some kind of weapon with me.


laugh



im not kidding i keep a screw driver in my driver side door in my truck lmao


I have a 9 iron in my car. laugh

I seriously keep my old field hockey stick near my door, and I carry a metal object in my car


Nice! Hey, we can't be too careful, eh? A girl has to have some means of protecting herself, and if you're good at swinging a hockey stick, then go for it! :thumbsup:

At my home, I have a samurai sword that my dad gave me. laugh

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Sun 10/24/10 09:57 AM






laugh there is a reason i always have some kind of weapon with me.

laugh

im not kidding i keep a screw driver in my driver side door in my truck lmao

I have a 9 iron in my car. laugh

I seriously keep my old field hockey stick near my door, and I carry a metal object in my car

Nice! Hey, we can't be too careful, eh? A girl has to have some means of protecting herself, and if you're good at swinging a hockey stick, then go for it! :thumbsup:
At my home, I have a samurai sword that my dad gave me. laugh


Holy samurai sword BatGirl!!

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 10/24/10 09:59 AM
Hell no!!!!!



This girl needs that right arm!!!!!!bigsmile :heart:

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Sun 10/24/10 10:16 AM







laugh there is a reason i always have some kind of weapon with me.

laugh

im not kidding i keep a screw driver in my driver side door in my truck lmao

I have a 9 iron in my car. laugh

I seriously keep my old field hockey stick near my door, and I carry a metal object in my car

Nice! Hey, we can't be too careful, eh? A girl has to have some means of protecting herself, and if you're good at swinging a hockey stick, then go for it! :thumbsup:
At my home, I have a samurai sword that my dad gave me. laugh


Holy samurai sword BatGirl!!


Can I be Cat Woman instead? She's sexy. But I would probably hurt myself with that whip. laugh

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Sun 10/24/10 10:19 AM








laugh there is a reason i always have some kind of weapon with me.

laugh

im not kidding i keep a screw driver in my driver side door in my truck lmao

I have a 9 iron in my car. laugh

I seriously keep my old field hockey stick near my door, and I carry a metal object in my car

Nice! Hey, we can't be too careful, eh? A girl has to have some means of protecting herself, and if you're good at swinging a hockey stick, then go for it! :thumbsup:
At my home, I have a samurai sword that my dad gave me. laugh


Holy samurai sword BatGirl!!


Can I be Cat Woman instead? She's sexy. But I would probably hurt myself with that whip. laugh


Either one would be fun to watch you try to use.

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Sun 10/24/10 10:26 AM
I can see it..

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Sun 10/24/10 12:05 PM

Either one would be fun to watch you try to use.


Fun as in hilarious? Yeah, probably. laugh


I can see it..


I can hear you laughing. laugh

soufiehere's photo
Sun 10/24/10 12:10 PM


Either one would be fun to watch you try to use.

Fun as in hilarious? Yeah, probably. laugh

I can see it..

I can hear you laughing. laugh

Hard to hide those belly roller ones :-)

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Sun 10/24/10 12:12 PM


Either one would be fun to watch you try to use.


Fun as in hilarious? Yeah, probably. laugh

From my past experiences in the use of both, It was funny indeed for me.

venusenvy's photo
Sun 10/24/10 12:17 PM
Fool me once, shame on you...fool me twice shame on me. bigsmile

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Sun 10/24/10 05:47 PM






laugh there is a reason i always have some kind of weapon with me.


laugh



im not kidding i keep a screw driver in my driver side door in my truck lmao


I have a 9 iron in my car. laugh

I seriously keep my old field hockey stick near my door, and I carry a metal object in my car


Nice! Hey, we can't be too careful, eh? A girl has to have some means of protecting herself, and if you're good at swinging a hockey stick, then go for it! :thumbsup:

At my home, I have a samurai sword that my dad gave me. laugh

they r heavy - I trained briefly one summer in Japanese Sword fighting, and we used wooden ones. I thought they were heavy, but our Master told us that the real ones were a lot heavier...