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anyone ever got back with there ex for the sake of there child? what
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I don,t know, but I know a few that stayed together for the sake of the
kids. |
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NO I would never ever get back for the kids as I think it would cause
more damage then good, Parents can be just as effective not living in the home if they put the effort into it. |
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Yeah, I'm going to have to go with ShagnaC on this topic. I thought it
would be ok to try that, so I did, about two years ago... ShagnaC is right. Lasted, two months. It was a total disaster that made my children even more upset. Might work for some people, but definately NOT for me. TechDad58 |
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Did go back to the ex for the sake of the kids. It was a disaster. All I
could do was wish I was still on my own. The sacrifices I made to be on my own were nothing compared to the degrading ways I was treated and the sacrifice of my dignity. If you think its bad the first time and go back -it seems the person thinks they have something over you and it only gets worse when the "honeymoon" is over. |
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i know i didn't have kids for the sake of the child lol
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Thanks for your opinions she is working on 1 year sober and has been
calling and wants me to come see her I havent seen her in 2 years I might go say hi and see how she is doing. |
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Alpine
Just be careful that you both don't fall into the same old patterens as before, sobriety is hardwork as you well know and she is just coming up on a year so her head is still scattered, it takes time to retrain the mind from the old days and ways. |
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wont happen good advise though. Are partying could never pick up were it
left off it would be impossible. |
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