Topic: my - ex
AlpineRocks's photo
Sun 10/08/06 04:53 PM
anyone ever got back with there ex for the sake of there child? what
happened?

Ontario's photo
Sun 10/08/06 04:58 PM
I don,t know, but I know a few that stayed together for the sake of the
kids.

ShagnaC's photo
Sun 10/08/06 05:32 PM
NO I would never ever get back for the kids as I think it would cause
more damage then good, Parents can be just as effective not living in
the home if they put the effort into it.

no photo
Sun 10/08/06 05:37 PM
Yeah, I'm going to have to go with ShagnaC on this topic. I thought it
would be ok to try that, so I did, about two years ago... ShagnaC is
right. Lasted, two months. It was a total disaster that made my children
even more upset. Might work for some people, but definately NOT for me.
TechDad58

greeneyedlady42's photo
Mon 10/09/06 05:23 PM
Did go back to the ex for the sake of the kids. It was a disaster. All I
could do was wish I was still on my own. The sacrifices I made to be on
my own were nothing compared to the degrading ways I was treated and the
sacrifice of my dignity.
If you think its bad the first time and go back -it seems the person
thinks they have something over you and it only gets worse when the
"honeymoon" is over.

no photo
Mon 10/09/06 05:25 PM
i know i didn't have kids for the sake of the child lol

AlpineRocks's photo
Mon 10/09/06 06:54 PM
Thanks for your opinions she is working on 1 year sober and has been
calling and wants me to come see her I havent seen her in 2 years I
might go say hi and see how she is doing.

no photo
Mon 10/09/06 06:59 PM
Alpine
Just be careful that you both don't fall into the same old patterens as
before, sobriety is hardwork as you well know and she is just coming up
on a year so her head is still scattered, it takes time to retrain the
mind from the old days and ways.

AlpineRocks's photo
Mon 10/09/06 07:21 PM
wont happen good advise though. Are partying could never pick up were it
left off it would be impossible.