so ok i was sleep i was finally able to go to sleep like maybe an hour ago,then the phone rings,hell i dont even remember it ringing, all is i know i woke up from a dead sleep and answered hello.

its him its the man ive posted about calling me ago and as i predicted he called on Monday,he said his phone about to die and he wanted to call me and he tells me that hes not comparing me to a cow,but sad i make a lot of noise like one.and he didnt mean it like that..still no im sorry,i told him he doesn't get it.

he laughed and asked if i took my medicine..[if i dont take my birth control regularly my ovarian cyst **** with my hormones badly]

i told him you compared me to a farm animal he like no comparing would be if i said you look or were the size of one,all i said you are loud like one.

hes trying to be funny and im just trying not to burst into tears,i wants to believe thats hes immature [hes 22] and is just meaning it as a joke and doesnt realize that thats mean thing to say to a girl.

he said his phone is dying and he hang up,aggravated at me for being aggravated at him for not understanding,god i hope its only bc of his immaturity that he doesnt understand that even if hes joking,it hurts

im tired and im trying not ball my eyes out,im tired so i dont know if its just his age and his ignorance or what..help me

try kicking him in the nads and tell him

"you screamed like a little girl"

and then

"i'm not comparing you to a little girl saying you look like one or you're the size of one,i'm just saying your scream sounds like one"

JT

yeah just to be be clear and googled the definition of like :1. Possessing the same or almost the same characteristics;

maybe hes just young and dumb and doesnt really get it?

IMHO: He sounds manipulative... drop him for someone who cares enough to treat you the way you have always wanted to be treated...



$.02

do not take any more of his calls!!!!!!!

(((((southern)))))

next time he calls, give him my 'phone number. once i get his number from the caller id, i'll call him at all hours of the night and just moo. i'll moo until he hangs up, then wait awhile and call back mooing. after several months of this, he may get the hint. (i say months 'cause this guy doesn't sound like he is playing with a full deck) if he is still confused, i may have to rent a cow suit and take a bike ride over to his house. we'll take this one step at a time, but don't worry bee, i've got your back.

You're not much older than he is, doesn't look good to pull the age/maturity card when you are only four years older than he is.

That said, honestly, both of you seem to be a little immature about this. Sure, he shouldn't have said what he said...but you could also be a little more clear of your displeasure when you talk to him, you know? Let him know how much it hurt you?

Maturity is not measured in age, it isn't dictated by a number...honestly, you're both being a little immature about this situation.

F*** that Chit...and the pile of bull manure he rode in on!!! What an insensitive buffoon! I dont buy the "my phone died" crap either! I agree with GM DONT take any more calls from him...in fact, I would block the number and get a good nights sleep....dudes a looooooser!!!

Hey ((((beddy)))) how ya doin??? misses your mug around here!!!

MOO MOO lol

now stop that. she's trying to sleep

so after i was able to sleep,even with all the constant mooing you guys were making lol.

i talked to him and talked and talked and talked..he did apologize and i think FearandLoathing is right i did fly off the handle a lil bit when my by said it he said he didnt mean it that way and realized his mistake when he said it and when i talked to him he realized where i was coming from

aint love grand?

(that's a line of Jane Russell's in a movie she made with Marilyn Monroe)

lmao all i ever wanted was for him to say hes sorry and understand that it hurt me and it was wrong and he did..does that make me stupid no..it makes me happy that he said sorry

i guess this means i need to return a cow suit. darn, where is that receipt?

aww im sorry u wasted yur money

sounds like an excuse being made...but as long as your happy (for now anyways, till he calls you some other barnyard animal)

I like it when I can get a gal to play Gary had a little lamb and go BAAAAAH!

gotta watch those sheepherders...