I met this guy randomly one day bout 3 weeks ago he is very good looking and we have been on three dates but the thing is I think this guy mite be a player as he is soooo cocky its unreal.. Wot kinda signs shud I look out for to know if this guy is a player with girls??

have one of ur friends text him. Tell him you met at a club or something. And see all his comments back. Sometimes a lil trickery works great

Hmmmm this could be educational

How much attention does he give other girls when you are with him?

Do you see the wandering eye?

Also having a couple of friends txt him is also a good way to see what is up. Sounds like your radar is picking up a Player!

if he has never been singal longer then 2 weeks at anytime, he's a player

. He seems to give me all his attention when he's with me I never see him looking at other girls to be honest.... I love being with him but when I'm not I think he's away dating other girls maybe its just cos I like him and I'm worried.... He's just text me to see if I'm still up for the cinema on fri but I'm always available to him should I maybe be busy on fri??

PERFECT! Tell him you are busy but have a friend of yours he don't know ask him if he is up to something that day out of the blue. Have her play it off she met him somewhere you know he frequents but make sure it is a very public place like a mall or something of that nature. If he bites you know you got a player!

Word of warning though, if you are having jealousy issues now it will get worst if you get involved and there lies the road to ruin. I can see your desires being real unhealthy now. If you got to fear infidelity when you are not even involved seriously it will just get a lot worst later especially if you do become involved.

Better take things real slow and make sure you are not running head long to self destruction!

why look for signs....simply do what other women do... get access to his facebook, e-mail and cell phone accounts

DISCLAIMER:
I only generalize using the term "women" because the original poster appears to be a woman and therefore I'm making no accusations that men do not do the same

thats why you women should date ugly guys... we don't play because it's way harder for us!

Yeah i would definitely play the "get your girlfriends to talk to him" card. Works every time.

that might backfire and the girlfriend and him may find out that they have things in common and start dating

What makes you think he might be a player?

What little niggly things keep popping up?

If you suspect he is...because he's confident....and that's the only reason, then....stick with dating unsure, insecure, easily manipulated men.

The underhanded crap you are prepared to do to 'test' this bloke, makes you nothing more than a game player yourself...

protecting yourself?


...what about him, and his right to privacy?

You doubt him NOW?

sheesh!


Leave the poor guy alone...and if he does prefer to 'play' the field....I can see why.

Ahhhh. Signs eh? Want to know what to look for? Let Goof give you some good examples.

(1) If he tells you he is hanging out at Tony's house for the night, and he choice of attire are those clothes that will attract the ladies, then you might wanna spy on him for the evening. Plus, if he is little bit strong on the cologne, then yeah...something might be up.

(2). He keeps getting text messages labled "Bubba" at all times of the day, deletes Bubba's messages on the hour, every hour, and also refuses to allow you to meet Bubba, then you might wanna check into who Bubba is. If Bubba is texting him heavily during hours that you are not around your man, then Bubba is code for "Hot azz chick on side".

(3). He comes home after church and immediately runs and jumps into the shower. Now, I realize hygiene is big these days and I am all for it. But, you DO NOT go to Church without bathing. You do not disrespect the Lord by coming to HIS house unclean. Anyways, even though it is the Sabbath, you must find this action very strange. Not to mention that is "Deacon" Sara keeps texting him about "The Church Social", then I would inspect this claim and the validity as to if this Sara really is a "Deacon".

That should do for now. Hope this helps.

Its sooo important to listen to your gut instinct. All to often we make excuses or turn a blind eye In the end all we get is miserable and kicking our own butts for "why didnt I listen to myself" I wish you luck Doll