newarkjw:
no im nt rlly 100.. not even close. but it aint s easy t deal wit now. guess it takes time. an who says i gtta southern twang? u caint even hear me

He was engaged to both of you. What a dog.
Did you meet him online?

Trust has been shattered. The tough part is getting past the feelings of betrayal and potential self loathing. The whole thing is like any death there is a period of mourning but the question now is how long will you mourn? A day, a few days, months, years, the rest of your life????

yea i did. on myyearbook i thnk

i jus keep askin myself.. how was i nt gud enuff for him?

you were....it is he that is not good enough for you (by his actions)

I am in Louisville Ky. darlin I can hear ya. Just trying to make you smile. I've been there it will be alright.....

ill b alright yea but wen does the pain stop? :(

i jus feel like i cuda did something diff an i wudnt have lost him

17?

You broke out your calculator didn't brother.......

I used the old fashioned paper and pen method.

And there you go, that is exactly what you should not be doing!

He pulled a coward's dick move! He was not man enough to break it off with you before moving on. Jackoffs like this live for making women suffer. if he treated a commitment with you like this imagine what will happen BEFORE two years passes for them. He will be cheating on his wife too.

Better to find this out now than have to go through a divorce. In the mean time get it off your chest and move on. Like I said, if he manages to destroy your personal self worth he wins. Don't let him pull a dick move like this on you and win. I would also bet money he is the kind of dirt bag who will come crawling back to you a few months later pleading he made a mistake. if you were smart you would tell him he made two mistakes, the second was assuming you would take him back. If you did take him back after this I would give you no sympathy at all. At this moment you need tough love.

Get up, dust yourself off, and get back on that bicycle little Missy! Head up, chest out! NOW RIDE!

i love all u crazy mingle people! thanks yall have made me feel a smidge betta

andy is right....you cannot think this way

you didn't lose him, he lost

I figured since my youngest was born in '92 and just turned 18...'93 would be 17.

find a hobby hang out with friends and just let time take care of the rest

Try teaching Hamsters to dance the Electric Boogaloo!

Been there ... 20 year marriage ...

He shared my past but despite his actions, he sure wasn't going to own my future - meaning that I was not going to hold on to someone who didn't want to be held on to. That was a decision I had control over and I found it empowering and one which allowed me to process the loss and heal.

All the best to you

i feel the need to high 5 that picture..

but as for her problem everything happens for a reason its ok to be single take some time and love yourself and get empowerd