in a relationship?

Which would just "ruing it" for you?

Here is mine:

"You don't think I'm good enough for you?"

This kills me. Makes me want to crawl up on a wall and scream at you like: AAAAAAARRRRGGGH! .

And if I would be a complete a$$hole I would say "No, since you asked that one, you just knocked off my interest."

Somehow believing that you are "good enough" for this person or that person, and he or she rejects you..you feel betrayed??

You know, there is such a thing as self confidence, but there is also arrogance and false beliefs.

The inevitable "Don't you think it's time to settle down and start a family?" three months into the relationship.

No, I do not, and goodbye!



A lot of people can't tell the difference. Or choose not to.

And a lot of people can't make the distinction between "good enough/not good enough" vs. "compatible/incompatible." They're not the same thing....

wow I just realized I wrote "ruing" it. hahaha...i'm powerless lately..

I bet you're "ruing" having written that, huh?

I think it has to do with typing..Sometimes I "auto type" things, since "g" usually follows the "n" in plenty of words, my fingers have their own mind..not to mention, my spell checker failed to underline it.... and yes, to sum it up: I feel less.

actually Atlantis thats a good one but its the one where they ask "do you think i'm to good for you"that gets me....basically thats saying,why aren't you complimenting me more,saying how beautiful i look or you are so lucky i'm even here in public with you

"Do you love me" and weve only known each other for less than a year. AAHHHHH! aparently isnt the right answer.

oh this one always gets me..."you don't think i'm a slut do you,because i don't usually do this with just any guy"*continues to give me bj*


of course i'm gonna say no

Grrrr....double post.

"Where have you been?" or possibly the one related to that question would be "What have you been doing?" They are both based in his needing to control and not trusting. Both of these would send me screaming for the nearest exit.

oh yeah...you mean in a relationship,i still go with the above that would be the worst

When she asks, "Baby. Do I look fat in this dress?"

I mean....come on! You women say you don't want liars and all that. But then you go and ask "That" question! UGH!

hmmm ruins a relationship.....

I don't believe in marriage, I don't like the word love or are not capable of saying it.

Person moves long distance :(.....


I have never had a person say they are above me or better than me HOWEVER I have WONDERED why some guys have asked me out KNOWING that I would not be interested. I don't try to date guys that I know are not interest in me and I use my judgment when deciding that. Many people don't use common sense when considering potential mates. Then they get all butt hurt when they get turned down.

Like I am a thick woman so if I see a guy who is always watching girls in a size 1 I am not going to waste my time unless he shows genuine attraction (not just being nice or friendly). This way I can limit my rejections. I don't take it personal because we all have our own likes and dislikes, just move on to the next ;)

That doesn't bother me. I will tell honestly "yes" or "no". Later on I may offer advices and will let her know which dress would be a better choice.

Some women are scared of honest opinions, but even if I pi$$ them off, later on they will be thanking me.

The reason for that question depends on the woman asking it. Some women just want attention and is seeking for a compliment (the obviously skinny girl)

The thick girl who asks because she is insecure and is not sure if the outfit is appropriate for her size.

And the very large girl who knows she looks fat but wants to deny it by seeking out the lies of her partner.

I have done things with guys I really liked that I wouldn't normally do. That's not always a lie

its kind of a guy joke...don't take it to serious

I know, I have always had guy friends and that's why I am so conservative with my affections....I know how you guys talk LOL

Im starting to like her more and more.

Define normal.