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Topic: The worst possible question
Atlantis75's photo
Tue 10/05/10 08:15 PM


Thank God I haven't met a chick who held out on giving head! :banana: :laughing:
do they exist...oh wait nuns but did they before they became a nun...hmmmmmmm


The real question would be...would nuns still give BJs anyway regardless of their commitment? :smile:

I think it's one hell of a challenging taks to make a nun give a BJ (on her own!).

Imagine that? Hmmm sounds like a serious challenge for a change..I like that!


EquusDancer's photo
Tue 10/05/10 08:23 PM
Edited by EquusDancer on Tue 10/05/10 08:29 PM
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EquusDancer's photo
Tue 10/05/10 08:25 PM







I didn't know there were timeframes involved for any of that, beyond personal preference. I don't see it being normal or abnormal.
Nah Rachel likes the ideal of a "normal courtship." and would perfer grow into a relationship before the blow job and "this usually takes her two months."

There's such a thing as a "normal courtship"?


In my life experience yes, I obviously cant speak for yours though. From your response I am guessing your relationships have been different?


My grandparents met and married inside a month. My folks met and married within 6 months. So a normal courtship isn't a set amount of time before doing something.

If I like the guy, short of a few things that I absolutely won't do, or are even interested in, its an all-in sort of thing. I personally don't care and don't worry if he's thinking if I've done it with someone else. He has a whole other range of issues at that point. If we blow each others minds then that's what matters. Not an "I only do this at a certain time and something else at another time".

Sex is sacred and meant to be enjoyed, not worried over.

flawlessmeans's photo
Tue 10/05/10 08:33 PM


Yeah you know the ideal courtship... the young man asks the father may I take your doughter for a walk on the town. then theres the walking and the talking and with luck the hand holding... well I gues it doesnt work like that anymore. hmmm.


Well I don't have them ask his permission, BUT they do have to meet him and my father is a very blunt and abrasive business owner.He will shred anyone that is not serious about treating me correctly. However if he likes you, you will never find a more loving, reliable and genuine father in law.
Lol Well every father should be this way your just luckey to get that from a father in laew.

EquusDancer's photo
Tue 10/05/10 08:33 PM

Yeah you know the ideal courtship... the young man asks the father may I take your doughter for a walk on the town. then theres the walking and the talking and with luck the hand holding... well I gues it doesnt work like that anymore. hmmm.


Sorry, I don't live in the Dark Ages where women were property and sold to the best man.

While I want the guy and my folks to respect each other, I don't need their permission.

Sleepless_nights_78's photo
Tue 10/05/10 09:53 PM


Yeah you know the ideal courtship... the young man asks the father may I take your doughter for a walk on the town. then theres the walking and the talking and with luck the hand holding... well I gues it doesnt work like that anymore. hmmm.


Sorry, I don't live in the Dark Ages where women were property and sold to the best man.

While I want the guy and my folks to respect each other, I don't need their permission.

I say that respect has to go both ways. When I am with someone, it doesn't matter what my family thinks about him. I am with him because of how he makes me feel and that's all that ever matters.

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