Why don't you just visit Arcata and get a hold of me? What are you studying?

Believe me I am focusing on college. I have a lot of dreams and goals and plan to make them happen. But sometimes sitting alone in my apartment everynight gets a little lonely.

I am studying forensic archeology and forensic anthropolgy and I hope to join the F.B.I. one day.

If you ever need someone to chat with, email me. I'm 37, living in Arcata, California; but if I lose the City Council election; I'll be leaving, eventually. I don't know what it is, but there is something I like about you. Anyway, good job in school, 3.8, very good!

Well, staying focused on school is a good cause for not visiting, I suppose. Forensic archeology?...Now, that is interesting. I have been studying the law for the past few years on my own, due to a false arrest that I incurred in Arcata in Oct. 2008. I'm attempting to sue a number of local officials for deprivation of rights, but they got a court order to keep me out of the law library; so it's been difficult.
From my experience the FBI could use a sharp girl like you. My Dad worked for the FBI, CIA or something; he never could say. What kind of music do you like?

I think she needs a guy who knows when to give her her space and right now she don't need men crowding in on her.

That is my take on this. So are you looking for something "Semi-committed" as far as a relationship goes?

I can understand the pressures of college. Some classes are viciously homework intensive. In her case having a BF in her life would take away from critically needed time to focus on Homework. I am guessing some of your classes require Term Papers?

Men can be needy. I can fathom what is being asked here.

Don't make any commitments...

Just have fun and talk to people on your terms.

Get to know people here.

Weed out the fakers. They are here too like ANYWHERE else.

Don't buy into that whole "Traditional" relationship garbage either.. This is the new millennium and women can and do make more money than men these days.

Don't let men sucker you into co mingling credit or any of that BS.

Its gotta be YOUR life before you can have an "Us" life with someone else and be happy.

Wanting a dominating man though.

No wonder you need the separation zone. Male Dominance comes with a price to you. Most men like that will force you to give up your life and your life's potentials. I think you see that.

Just take your time with it all.

AndyBgood, Who cares what you think she needs? The girl is obviously beautiful, bright and motivated; she could have any guy she wants and do anything she wants, provided she follows her own will.

The OP posted on a public forum and asked the advice from our members. That's what Mingle is all about, and there are 3 pages offering similar advice.

I opine, the only competent advice is know and do thy will; and seek patience, self reliance, love and wit. I apologize to the lady, if I crowded her; I was assuming that we were in "chat mode" (it was my first time on the site) and, perhaps, I was overdrawn to her incredibly attractive beauty? Anyway, relying on others, breeds dependence; relying on self, breeds independence.

Tribbles!

ITS ALSO HARD FINDING A WOMEN WITH A TRACTOR...............

Believe in your self and GOD, the rest will work itself out along the way. We as MEN fail to realize that we are not the one's doing the choosing, it is the WOMAN! If the men in your life do not believe in your aspirations and goals then do not waste your time. Put your self first, if he does not then it is his lost.


Spademan.

How dominant are we talking here?

Just Good Morning! How beautiful is that? I happen to be about the sappiest person on this side of the Potomac, but I loved what you said.

Well, I don't want someone to dominate my life completely. I am young and determined to finsish college and have a career. I just want a man to be dominate when we are intimate.

it had better be hard

that is the way it all started with us...and hasnt stopped yet!!!!