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Topic: Is keeping in touch with an Ex a good idea
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Sat 10/02/10 12:39 AM
my ex deleted me in his friends list on facebook..should I mind? or should I just stop?

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Sat 10/02/10 12:43 AM
why should this bother you?

is there a reason you feel the need to remain frinds?

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Sat 10/02/10 12:43 AM
an ex is just that,an EX.why worry about it?

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Sat 10/02/10 12:49 AM
well he broke up with me for a reason, which I cannot blame him for..

I did not hurt him out of my words, not out of my action. My past did..It was unintentional..and it was unknown..he said we could be friends..and then i requested him to atleast keep me as his friend on facebook, then he said fine..

he deleted me last night, and i was online then, and i got to ask him why, and then he said, he thought it was something that was good for the break..and i said, he didnt have to do that..and then he said, invite me again, then i'll re add u..he did re-add me..

And when i went online this morning, he saw me online , and then deleted me once again? what for? i wonder why he had to say yes to adding him back then delete me again? and i wonder why he had to do that when i was already online? did he want to show me how instant he can get rid of me? he's just soo mean..He knows i did not do him bad..

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Sat 10/02/10 12:49 AM

my ex deleted me in his friends list on facebook..should I mind? or should I just stop?




it doesnt matter unless you mind


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Sat 10/02/10 12:52 AM
replying is probably not a good idea. i think u got on this site to move on and thats what u should do. good luck babe

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Sat 10/02/10 12:52 AM
Give him a bit of time...its only natural to want to have some seperation.

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Sat 10/02/10 12:57 AM
i say move on......

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Sat 10/02/10 12:57 AM
all you can do is leave him to make up his own mind. you have let him know how you feel so the rest is up to him, but if by deleting you, he is showing you that he needs to end it...let it end.

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Sat 10/02/10 12:58 AM
I've never understood how people can stay friends with ex's spock ... I think the best way to get over them is to completely cut them out of your life, yes even facebook/myspace.

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Sat 10/02/10 01:06 AM
yeah..I've been told the same..Uhmm i think his primary reason of deleting me, is because, he could see on my posts I am moving on..I even deleted our pics together..I am not being bitter because our relationship ended..it's just that, he was so mean to have re-added me, then delete me, when he saw me online..what for? to show me, he can instantly get rid of me too?

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Sat 10/02/10 01:10 AM
he could have declined my friend request..better yet, not suggest on re-adding him..

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Sat 10/02/10 01:14 AM
if you are moving on, move past this as well...

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Sat 10/02/10 03:11 AM
ya should stop...


ummmmm.....

ya delete people when ya do not want them there!.....yes?....:heart:

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Sat 10/02/10 03:41 AM
I guess if he cheated and you found out because of something on facebook, he would prob have a reason to not want you on his fbook page...

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Sat 10/02/10 06:40 AM
My ex-wife checks out my Facebook....

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Sat 10/02/10 06:55 AM
whatever.. done everything I could to remain calm and be patient with his being mean..can't take it anymore..So I'll just get over him

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Sat 10/02/10 05:00 PM
my ex checks me out from time to time..but no communication...its better that way..

like someone already said, they are an Ex for a reason..move on..its better that way..

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Sat 10/02/10 05:12 PM

yeah..I've been told the same..Uhmm i think his primary reason of deleting me, is because, he could see on my posts I am moving on..I even deleted our pics together..I am not being bitter because our relationship ended..it's just that, he was so mean to have re-added me, then delete me, when he saw me online..what for? to show me, he can instantly get rid of me too?


srsly doubt he is being mean -at least not intentionally-as u have described him he sounds like an OK person

he prolly just dont want all the reminders/he wants a clean break, and if u want to keep in good with him grant him that

let him get with u if there's any getting to be got -jmho

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Sat 10/02/10 05:18 PM
The way I see it is that they are in the past for a reason. Mind you I should probably delete the pics of me and my ex together on the good old facebook.

But I never look at my own pictures and my ex doesn't have facebook anymore. As a matter of fact I only go on facebook to maybe update my status and see how everyone is doing on my facebook.

So time to move on darlin'

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