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Topic: Do i really neet to be mistreated?
xxauvexx's photo
Fri 10/01/10 11:14 PM
All guys want to do is **** me, then leave me. why do i keep trying? God only knows. Im sick of the BS, maybe love doesnt exist anymore =\

kc0003's photo
Fri 10/01/10 11:18 PM
it does, you just haven't found it yet...try NOT looking for it and just live your life for a while and perhaps it will find you.

thewaterbearer's photo
Fri 10/01/10 11:20 PM
There is love, just those type of guys are full of themselves and don't give a chit, those are the type I would love to chop there nuttoroos offlaugh

justme659's photo
Fri 10/01/10 11:21 PM
I hate quoting Dr. Phil, but it fits in the instance.

"You let guys get away with treating you like dirt, Stop letting them do that"

If you keep running in to a brick wall, open your eyes before running.

( I like that quote much better )

Move on to a different type of guy. And do not let them get away with treating you like just a sperm bank, if that is not what you are looking for.

no photo
Fri 10/01/10 11:26 PM
love exists all around you. you can see love in many different ways. go to the nearest car wash and you will see a guy with a vintage muscle car and notice the love in his eyes as he cleans under the car where no one else will see. go to a hospital and watch the new borns being held by mothers and fathers, even if the baby looks like an alien, you can't miss the love in their eyes. love is all around you in so many different shapes and sizes. kc is right, sometimes love finds you when you aren't looking. good luck girl.

Jtevans's photo
Fri 10/01/10 11:28 PM
do you show your boobies to them at any point in the relationship?glasses

anthonylove4you's photo
Fri 10/01/10 11:33 PM
sum of us guys are looking for a mrs right it goes both ways.

pfarro1's photo
Fri 10/01/10 11:37 PM
I so hate getting lumped in with all guys...especially the pretty ones that are a**es and the creepy weirdones. If you keep getting the same results try something different, go outside your comfort zone and ask out someone totally different than your "usual type"

pfarro1's photo
Fri 10/01/10 11:37 PM
I so hate getting lumped in with all guys...especially the pretty ones that are a**es and the creepy weirdones. If you keep getting the same results try something different, go outside your comfort zone and ask out someone totally different than your "usual type"

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 10/02/10 08:44 AM
xxauvexx, your Mingle2 profile says that you are 18.
If your profile is correct, then you appear to be in a hurry.
Why the rush?

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 10/02/10 08:52 AM
:heart: hi!!!!....


first of all your young....ya ask why they shizz on you!!!

ok...here goes

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TAMMY'S OPINION
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Ya already say your clingy...men hate that..they really enjoy their space and a chance to breathe once in a while...

we cling to others when we feel insecure

be independent of a man...i get the feeling you need validation from them (opinion only!)


So dont sound soooo needy girl...find your independence as a woman..then ya wont feel the need to cling

good luck to ya beautiful!!

no photo
Sat 10/02/10 08:55 AM

All guys want to do is **** me, then leave me. why do i keep trying? God only knows. Im sick of the BS, maybe love doesnt exist anymore =\


maybe you need to raise your standards on who you are dating...? dont be so easy, dont put out, make others treat you with the dignity and respect you deserve, then you wont feel like a welcome mat all the time...sex does not equal love...

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 10/02/10 09:05 AM
xxauvexx, your profile indicates that you want something that young men don't necessarily want yet.

A man is more likely to want to start a family when the man has some economic security, which is something that is short in supply right now.

The only young men (18-22) who have economic security are members of the military.

Jess642's photo
Sat 10/02/10 01:00 PM
....hmmmm....excuse my bluntness....if you are finding a common theme in your dating experiences...then guess what? YOU are the common denominator!

Close your legs, open your eyes, and value yourself more, and the people who only want sexual gratification become less appealing.

...blunt enough?...

no photo
Sat 10/02/10 04:58 PM

....hmmmm....excuse my bluntness....if you are finding a common theme in your dating experiences...then guess what? YOU are the common denominator!

Close your legs, open your eyes, and value yourself more, and the people who only want sexual gratification become less appealing.

...blunt enough?...


ooooh...your cool....:thumbsup:

chelsea466's photo
Sat 10/02/10 05:26 PM

I hate quoting Dr. Phil, but it fits in the instance.

"You let guys get away with treating you like dirt, Stop letting them do that"

If you keep running in to a brick wall, open your eyes before running.

( I like that quote much better )

Move on to a different type of guy. And do not let them get away with treating you like just a sperm bank, if that is not what you are looking for.


exactly :thumbsup:

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 10/02/10 05:33 PM

All guys want to do is **** me, then leave me. why do i keep trying? God only knows. Im sick of the BS, maybe love doesnt exist anymore =\


Stop having sex with them before there is a real relationship. Tell them you won't sleep with them for 3 months. That'll get rid of all the ones looking to just get laid and you'll be left with the ones who seriously like you.

no photo
Sat 10/02/10 06:23 PM

All guys want to do is **** me, then leave me. why do i keep trying? God only knows. Im sick of the BS, maybe love doesnt exist anymore =\

Are you sleeping with the guys on first night?...if so not a good idea and giving wrong impression to the guys...any guy who wants to sleep with you on first meeting and you allowing it...is not Love. LoL! Want Love have to change your ways of how you want to be treated.

ArtGurl's photo
Sat 10/02/10 06:32 PM

it does, you just haven't found it yet...try NOT looking for it and just live your life for a while and perhaps it will find you.



I've been not looking for quite a while ... maybe it got lost huh

kc0003's photo
Sat 10/02/10 06:40 PM


it does, you just haven't found it yet...try NOT looking for it and just live your life for a while and perhaps it will find you.



I've been not looking for quite a while ... maybe it got lost huh



maybe it's not a fan of cold winters...

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