my friend has been having problems and i thought a boyfriend or girlfriend would do her some good and yes she is bisexual, and mark had a friend that been single way to long and we thought they would make a cute couple so we got them together, and to day she calls me and told me they been fighting like crazy over ever thing, she told me he been calling her names and saying she needs to get spanked and put in her place i have a real bad feeling about this guy now, so what can i say or do

Why cant they just go back to being the way they were if its at that level it's not really working out to well.

Sounds like someone is reading too much Iceburg Slim. ROFL

do what who is what is that

Not trying to offend, but why is it you who supposed to find her someone? This friend of yours is independent and grown up right? So maybe it's time for her to take care of herself on her own, especially when it comes to love life?

Tell her you apparently screwed up. If she wants out she needs to get out. And don't set her up again. She's a big girl and can find her own partner.

if you are not going to hire a Hitman then it's nothing that you can do or should do....because don't women call each other to complain about their significate other and only because at that point in time they are mad at him, this requires only an ear not a reason for you to do anything about it, because if things are so bad then why is she still with him ....it's far too soon in the relationship to claim that she stays due to Battered Wife Syndrome

besides if you ask her why don't she leave him her answer most likely would be because she loves him ...and that is why couples fight and why fighting couples stay together and treat each other like crap...because of love ...isn't love grand

i think funches is right... i would just be her friend and try to stay out of it as much as possible. if she comes to you for help, then help her get a restraining order on him if necessary, or let her stay with you or whatever you can do to help. but really has to be her decision.

except for the part about that being what women do... Some women do as well as some men.. It's not "gender" specific to complain about the significant other...

right...everyone needs an ear sometime...

it was the original poster that made it "gender specific" when it was express that the person complaining was referred to as being a woman ...unless of course the person in question is or was a pre-op transexual ...since a pre-op transexual was not mention in the original post that is why logic would dictate that I use the gender specific term "women"

Tinker...you are always in the middle of a crisis!!!!!!

people should not get involved in other peoples lives, no matter how well-meaning your intentions are...you just never know how things are going to end up...

Aye. Especially - saying it again in with full of good intentions- their own isn't arranged yet or themselves having difficulties.

Do what you should have done in the first place...and stay out of it.

hmmmm thanks a lot, she ask me for the advice and i just told her if the relationship was not working just move on with your life there i no need to worry about it it makes you old faster