Topic: what should i do,,
tinker0090's photo
Tue 09/28/10 09:58 AM
i got a call from the school to day that elena hit a girl in the nose with a ball and made her nose bleed, so elena is going to be home for the next 2 days because of it, i told her she is soooo grounded again, she ask me if she could just get spanked again i was so surprize by this so what should i do,

AndyBgood's photo
Tue 09/28/10 10:04 AM
OH NO!!! ADD A WEEK TO HER GROUNDING! She had the guts to try to take the easy way out for her bad actions. It is clear she does not like being grounded more than being spanked. Alone and Board! That is the punishment of choice now!

That should get through to her about her behavior.

tinker0090's photo
Tue 09/28/10 10:08 AM
she been so good doing ever thing we told her, now this happen, would you think grounding her would work better then another good spanked

RenovaturIntegra's photo
Tue 09/28/10 10:13 AM
Why even thinking a spanking is a good option? Bad parenting is bad. Some old farts need some basic psychology lessons...

tinker0090's photo
Tue 09/28/10 10:17 AM
the only time mark would spank her if she was really really bad but most of the time she just gets grounded or put in time out,

mightymoe's photo
Tue 09/28/10 10:21 AM
Edited by mightymoe on Tue 09/28/10 10:21 AM

Why even thinking a spanking is a good option? Bad parenting is bad. Some old farts need some basic psychology lessons...



nothing wrong with spanking...just because you don't agree with it doesn't make it wrong... some kids need it, some don't... if the kids aren't being mistreated, it's no one elses business

msharmony's photo
Tue 09/28/10 10:35 AM

she been so good doing ever thing we told her, now this happen, would you think grounding her would work better then another good spanked


if she has clearly stated a preference towards apanking, it might not be the most suitable 'discipline'

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 09/28/10 10:39 AM
dont spank her if she wants it.......





she just might have that same old fetish you do tinker!!!!!!bigsmile :heart:

AndyBgood's photo
Tue 09/28/10 10:42 AM
She actually requested a spanking. Man do not go there! Do not give her what she wants.

Now she has been behaving up till now. The offense is serious but not exactly all that serious. Spanking would be a waste unless she got both but frankly I think alone and board will get through to her a lot more. Social creatures cannot stand to be alone. It gets to us badly as creatures.

She needs a week long time out for having the audacity to think she could request her punishment.

That is softly putting your foot down on her for her bad behavior and attempt to justify it some how.

It would be different if the other girl provoked her first or hit her first. Never punish a child for hitting back if they are being picked on violently. Children have to protect themselves too...

Think of this as an attitude adjustment!

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Tue 09/28/10 10:45 AM
If she asks for a SPANKING the answer is NO! Grounded for a week sounded great. Now hitting a girl in the nose with a ball?Why was this not considered an accident?

tinker0090's photo
Tue 09/28/10 10:57 AM

If she asks for a SPANKING the answer is NO! Grounded for a week sounded great. Now hitting a girl in the nose with a ball?Why was this not considered an accident?


elena said the girl was pushing her out of the way a few times in gym and the teacher never seen this so elena hit her in the nose with the ball so if that is true it could be a accident or she mean to do it,

i have not talk about this with mark, but you think i should just keep her old punishment the same

tinker0090's photo
Tue 09/28/10 11:05 AM

dont spank her if she wants it.......





she just might have that same old fetish you do tinker!!!!!!bigsmile :heart:


you really think she could have a small fetish for spankings

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Tue 09/28/10 11:10 AM
im just saying in 3rd grade this huge fat blonde boy was teasing me and pushed me to the ground, so I picked up some gravel and threw it in his face so he would leave me alone. I got a citation and missed our field trip because of it. I tried explaining to them what he had done but the darn playground supervisor claimed she didnt see him harrasing me. I dont see how he was a total whale for his age.