Topic: How soon is too soon?
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Thu 09/23/10 04:46 AM
I've been seeing someone for a couple months, we get along great & have loads in common. Needless to say we are falling fast for one another, things have never felt so good with a guy for me. I feel like even though we have so much to learn about one another to really be sure, but is anyone ever sure? The point is he wants to move in together & I do too but I have my concerns about how things can turn out. I believe that we are gonna have to work together reguardless, but am I ready for him to fart in front of me, take dumps? maybe, I do like the fact that he can cook, keep a clean home and is a GOD in bed. I want to wait & he doesn't. What would it take for "you" to make that kind of step in such a new relationship?

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Thu 09/23/10 05:21 AM
For me, it's an instinctual thing. I just know when it's right.

It sounds like you're having doubts though so I, personally, would hold off on making any decisions until you're 100% sure.

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Thu 09/23/10 05:29 AM
When in doubt, don't.
Its only been a couple of months...no hurries=no worries.
Take your time.

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Thu 09/23/10 09:09 AM
I really like the advice, makes things earsier. In my mind everything fits I want to do it but kind of think it might be too good to be true. Our feelings seem to be the same, he is moody but I always kill him with kindness and comfort him while hes down. Something I have never done for any partner. In this relationship I feel like a new woman, like I have to make him happy just because he does it for me without doing much of anything. Yeah we both got it bad & so now I'm sure, its only scary because I have never left the nest. My mother wants me to wait for marriage. But we must live together first, thanks everyone for all your kind words.