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Ok, so I go to school full time and work. I refuse to date anyone I
work with, and every guy I've met at school is way too young. I am a single mom and can't go out, so how in the world am I supposed to meet anyone. Ideas??? |
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Well let's see,if I was there you could give me a shot.You are
gorgeous |
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Seems like your only free time is while out shopping, or at a movie or
dinner. Take advantage of every open door. |
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much easier said than done.. ;)
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When the door to your heart is open someone will enter.Maybe not in your
time,but God's.It always seems like that works best.Smile ,you're beautiful. |
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it's hard, just relax and do not try so hard
i agree with not dating someone from work |
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i that true pl9864 in god's time
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Hi Green,
You are facing a challenging dilemma. Single mother Education Full time job As a mother, you want to give the best you can to your child or children, and that means you give of your time. As an adult, aware of a need to provide, you work a full time job, be thankful you have it, and be loyal to it. As an individual, you see the need for growth and you have chosen education to accomplish this. While they may not seem so, these are choices you have made, for you, for your children, for a better life. This will not be forever, but you will change much in the years ahead and included with that change you will have ever increasing independence. You are are on the right course, doing the right things, to add the stress of "looking" for a relationship is not what you need. You do, however, need support and love and a time to laugh and enjoy the company of peers. You might try looking to friends for this. A common TV show among friends is a great way to have a couple hours each week to get together. Of a movie night with friends, or game night. You can network through friends to make more friends and as time goes on you will find more independence and more opportunity. You are brave and intelligent enough to have gotten this far. You can do this, it won't be forever. Friends, family they are what you need, find your way to them. |
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you are very prity ,when you are in public ,look around you smile if you
see a man you think may be what you are interested in make eye contact and smile n say hi if hes interested hell take charge from there good luck sweetie |
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HMMMMMMMMMMM The only option I see here is the Maytag Repairman!!!!!!
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omg ,is he still makin house cals?
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yes I hear ya I there also...... work, school, and kids I too try to do
it all..... we need time to ourselves really we do.... if you have a friend or family to help out that is best... I wish you lots of luck... and remember you also need down time... |
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What i worry about for you is burnout. Baby, you not only need quiet
time, you also need reinforcement from your peers and love ones. Do not paint yourself in a corner. |
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hmmm date me lol lol j/k
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lmao , humm real smooth there Heart_Break and cute too. lol
there ya go greeneyes here's your answer humm thats what one calls a fast response |
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Native_Grl39 wrote: HMMMMMMMMMMM The only option I see here is the
Maytag Repairman!!!!!! LMAO, I am dating a maytag repairman!! LMAO... They are really great guys! |
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hmm lucky you lol
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OMG!!!!!!! Really...WOW!!!!!!...See they still do make house calls!!!!!!
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hmmm what is a maytag repairman anyways?
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Now a serious response:
I know that must be a tough situation. My hats off to you for balancing so much on your plate. My mom was a single mother with me and my sister, I saw how hard she worked to take care of us, so your work isn't going unnoticed, trust me. Now, as for the dating. I do agree with not dating anyone you work with, but what kind of business are you in? Is it a business where you have customers come in? Thats an opportunity in its self. I started dating one of my gas station customers and he told me that he loves me today. You're a beyond gorgeous woman, I know that you will meet your match one day. Just keep your head up and don't stress it. Things will happen the way they are meant to, and turn out for the best. You are in my prayers. I hope it all works out for you hun! |
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