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Topic: Advice would be grrrrreeat!
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Tue 06/26/07 08:38 PM
Ok, so I go to school full time and work. I refuse to date anyone I
work with, and every guy I've met at school is way too young. I am a
single mom and can't go out, so how in the world am I supposed to meet
anyone. Ideas???

pl9864's photo
Tue 06/26/07 08:42 PM
Well let's see,if I was there you could give me a shot.You are
gorgeousblushing

passionart's photo
Tue 06/26/07 08:49 PM
Seems like your only free time is while out shopping, or at a movie or
dinner. Take advantage of every open door.

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Tue 06/26/07 08:55 PM
much easier said than done.. ;)

pl9864's photo
Tue 06/26/07 08:57 PM
When the door to your heart is open someone will enter.Maybe not in your
time,but God's.It always seems like that works best.Smile:smile: ,you're
beautiful.

nurjoyce's photo
Tue 06/26/07 09:02 PM
it's hard, just relax and do not try so hard
i agree with not dating someone from work

marquita37921's photo
Tue 06/26/07 09:13 PM
i that true pl9864 in god's time

Redykeulous's photo
Wed 06/27/07 01:06 AM
Hi Green,

You are facing a challenging dilemma.

Single mother
Education
Full time job

As a mother, you want to give the best you can to your child or
children, and that means you give of your time.
As an adult, aware of a need to provide, you work a full time job, be
thankful you have it, and be loyal to it.
As an individual, you see the need for growth and you have chosen
education to accomplish this.

While they may not seem so, these are choices you have made, for you,
for your children, for a better life.
This will not be forever, but you will change much in the years ahead
and included with that change you will have ever increasing
independence.
You are are on the right course, doing the right things, to add the
stress of "looking" for a relationship is not what you need.

You do, however, need support and love and a time to laugh and enjoy
the company of peers.
You might try looking to friends for this. A common TV show among
friends is a great way to have a couple hours each week to get together.
Of a movie night with friends, or game night. You can network through
friends to make more friends and as time goes on you will find more
independence and more opportunity.
You are brave and intelligent enough to have gotten this far. You
can do this, it won't be forever.
Friends, family they are what you need, find your way to them.

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Wed 06/27/07 04:17 AM
you are very prity ,when you are in public ,look around you smile if you
see a man you think may be what you are interested in make eye contact
and smile n say hi
if hes interested hell take charge from there
good luck sweetie

Native_Grl39's photo
Wed 06/27/07 04:20 AM
HMMMMMMMMMMM The only option I see here is the Maytag Repairman!!!!!!


laugh huh bigsmile

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Wed 06/27/07 04:51 AM
omg ,is he still makin house cals?

Donnafisher's photo
Wed 06/27/07 09:25 AM
yes I hear ya I there also...... work, school, and kids I too try to do
it all..... we need time to ourselves really we do.... if you have a
friend or family to help out that is best... I wish you lots of luck...
and remember you also need down time...

passionart's photo
Wed 06/27/07 09:40 AM
What i worry about for you is burnout. Baby, you not only need quiet
time, you also need reinforcement from your peers and love ones. Do not
paint yourself in a corner.

Heart_Break_Kid's photo
Wed 06/27/07 09:43 AM
hmmm date me lol lol j/k

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 06/27/07 09:49 AM
lmao , humm real smooth there Heart_Break and cute too. lol
there ya go greeneyes here's your answer humm thats what one calls a
fast response bigsmile

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Wed 06/27/07 10:25 AM
Native_Grl39 wrote: HMMMMMMMMMMM The only option I see here is the
Maytag Repairman!!!!!!

LMAO, I am dating a maytag repairman!! LMAO... They are really great
guys!

Heart_Break_Kid's photo
Wed 06/27/07 10:26 AM
hmm lucky you lol

Native_Grl39's photo
Wed 06/27/07 10:26 AM
OMG!!!!!!! Really...WOW!!!!!!...See they still do make house calls!!!!!!


laugh noway huh bigsmile


Heart_Break_Kid's photo
Wed 06/27/07 10:29 AM
hmmm what is a maytag repairman anyways?

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Wed 06/27/07 10:29 AM
Now a serious response:

I know that must be a tough situation. My hats off to you for balancing
so much on your plate. My mom was a single mother with me and my
sister, I saw how hard she worked to take care of us, so your work isn't
going unnoticed, trust me. Now, as for the dating. I do agree with not
dating anyone you work with, but what kind of business are you in? Is
it a business where you have customers come in? Thats an opportunity in
its self. I started dating one of my gas station customers and he told
me that he loves me today. You're a beyond gorgeous woman, I know that
you will meet your match one day. Just keep your head up and don't
stress it. Things will happen the way they are meant to, and turn out
for the best. You are in my prayers. I hope it all works out for you
hun!

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