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Topic: Friends First
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Fri 09/03/10 04:47 PM
Is it wrong to get to know Someone first?:smile:

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 09/03/10 05:02 PM
Yes/no/maybe/probably/definitely/definitely not.

If you want to, go for it, screw everyone else's opinion.

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 09/03/10 05:27 PM

Is it wrong to get to know Someone first?:smile:


There is nothing wrong with getting to know someone first BUT I have enough friends that I don't sleep with ... tongue2

I need the chemistry to go along with friendship.

Along the same path, when I break up with someone, I don't expect to be friends. We will be civil and friendly; however, since they were not my friends before we dated, we probably won't be friends afterward either.

Never get trapped in the FRIEND ZONE! surprised

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Fri 09/03/10 05:30 PM

Is it wrong to get to know Someone first?:smile:


I wouldn't have it any other way............smokin

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Fri 09/03/10 05:32 PM
You need one more:smile: If you don't do the friend thing,what else is theresmokin

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Fri 09/03/10 05:32 PM

Is it wrong to get to know Someone first?:smile:


We can DO that ... ?

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Fri 09/03/10 06:09 PM
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Sat 09/04/10 07:48 AM
I definitely believe in being friends first. It takes time to get to know people...I think we all put our "best food forward" in the early stages of a relationship. Don't you? It takes time to see "all sides" to someone...and time for us to feel comfortable letting our "hair down" with others too...I don't want to be in a rush. Being in a hurry has gotten me into "trouble" in the past...I need time to get to know people and don't want to feel pressured for "more" when I am not quite ready yet.

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Sat 09/04/10 07:50 AM
I prefer friends first. That way I don't have to deal with first dates with a stranger laugh

wait....are we talking about sex or dating/relationships?

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Sat 09/04/10 08:09 AM

I prefer friends first. That way I don't have to deal with first dates with a stranger laugh

wait....are we talking about sex or dating/relationships?
Are you saying Friend's with Benifit's is O.K.

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Sat 09/04/10 08:14 AM
It's ok for some. Not me though. I was referring to dating/relationships

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Sat 09/04/10 08:16 AM
Iwas being honest, And calling you out. But that's cool, Iprefer Friend's First flowers

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Sat 09/04/10 08:18 AM
laugh called me out on what? I have no problem answering things and I don't hide what I like or not.

Some like the FWB thing. It's not for me. That is their business as far as I am concerned.

I just assumed this was about the dating world.:wink:


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Sat 09/04/10 08:20 AM
Friendship is definatley the foundation to a good relationship. However, its the spontanious combustion, instant chemistry that gets me every time. drinker

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Sat 09/04/10 08:22 AM

Friendship is definatley the foundation to a good relationship. However, its the spontanious combustion, instant chemistry that gets me every time. drinker


I hate it when guys combust on a date. People in restaurants tend to frown on that laugh

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Sat 09/04/10 08:29 AM
Yeah... Chemistry first and then HOPEFULLY we'll be long term compatible as friends...

Speaking for myself and being honest, I'm not even sure that men and women can be friends in the deep platonic sense...

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Sat 09/04/10 08:31 AM


Friendship is definatley the foundation to a good relationship. However, its the spontanious combustion, instant chemistry that gets me every time. drinker


I hate it when guys combust on a date. People in restaurants tend to frown on that laugh

Frown?! I love watching that stuff...

venusenvy's photo
Sat 09/04/10 08:33 AM

Yeah... Chemistry first and then HOPEFULLY we'll be long term compatible as friends...

Speaking for myself and being honest, I'm not even sure that men and women can be friends in the deep platonic sense...



Mmmm I dont know Al ( morning Handsome) I think we can be the greatest freinds. Afterall, who knows you better and yet loves you anyway. If thats not friendship I dont know what is. I just think its something that grows over time. JMO

Morning all you marvelous minglers!! flowerforyou

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Sat 09/04/10 08:33 AM



Friendship is definatley the foundation to a good relationship. However, its the spontanious combustion, instant chemistry that gets me every time. drinker


I hate it when guys combust on a date. People in restaurants tend to frown on that laugh

Frown?! I love watching that stuff...


Gets messy and if you are eating in an Italian restaurant then the blood might get mixed in with the sauce.

Just saying laugh




Allen....actually I get along with guys better. I am closer to guys as friends than I am with girls

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Sat 09/04/10 08:34 AM

Yeah... Chemistry first and then HOPEFULLY we'll be long term compatible as friends...

Speaking for myself and being honest, I'm not even sure that men and women can be friends in the deep platonic sense...

js... I have some terrific lady friends. No sex at all... bud's for life kinda thing.

'course I admit that I am kinda' strange, too... laugh

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