I'm from Gaziabad,Indirapuram....from the city of creators of this site, however even after sending so many messages/frnd requests to so many girls none of them replied n the same story goes with all the dating sites....i think all these sites ar fake...

I had the same experience until I started posting in the forums and getting to know people here.

I think, on this site, you really need to take some time and get yourself some exposure in the forums. People are much more likely to take notice and be curious and want to know more about you.

Well said!! I agree with Lex Jump into the forums and get to know peeps

but how much long do we have to wait till we meet someone is the question...and on the other hand...i wanted to know r there really anyone on these sites or its just the dummy ids that have been created....

may be u can tell me since u have been a member since a long time now...

Maybe Im a "dummy", but Im real

Well said!! I agree with Lex Jump into the forums and get to know peeps


aggree with u venu....however let me see n check how many dates with girls from india will i be able to have successfully....i think this will be another faliure....

Yes, there are real people here (and a few bots/scammers). It might be 30 seconds before you meet somebody or it might be 30 years. You never know. It has to do with you and luck. There's no sure thing here. If you're in a big rush or a sure thing, I'd suggest a little self seeking and a hooker.

Too many variables there for me to give you a definitive answer to "how long."


I'm not going to lie to you -- I've been on this site 3 1/2 years and I haven't met anyone. But part of that time, I was with someone, and my standards are pretty high. Also, I live in an area where there don't seem to be many active members on the site, and the ones who might be active, don't post in the forums.

On the other hand, I have friends who have met "The One" here. So it does happen, it can happen. As long as you manage to stay out of Indiana, I'm thinking.

Maybe the women you are contacting want to view more substance on your profile vs.:

Interests: Painitng Nude figures
Passionate about Sex & Wanna feel it al times.
Profession: Coporate Worker

Just sayin'.........

Maybe the women you are contacting want to view more substance on your profile vs.:

Interests: Painitng Nude figures
Passionate about Sex & Wanna feel it al times.
Profession: Coporate Worker

Just sayin'.........


every girl will have a new demand n even if i addon to my profile...d list will be a never ending list....if someone is really that interested will defitely atleast try n talk...and then can explain me what is d requirement....like now i ask u my dear lady can u suggest what r u looking for....

I don't know of any dating site that guarantees you will find someone. We only give the the tools for you to look for someone. It's up to the members to connect.

In my experience on dating sites....most girls aren't just looking for sex. If you are wanting more than just sex, maybe you should be clearer in your profile.

Your profile might be confusing. You say you are looking to date but the profile only talks about sex.

Some never meet anyone, but on the other hand we have had long term relationships and marriages between members that met here.

u might be correct because of ur experience ... well i'll make the necessary changes and then lets see d aftereffects...

That is all completely true. I can personally vouch that people meet on here and have/had a LTR. I'm one of them! I met somebody on this site and we were together for 2 years.

That's the point I was trying to convey. I personally would hit "delete" in a NY minute, if he wrote to me as I'm not looking for sex/intimate encounter(s).

OP: I was not saying to paste your resume on here, but let the reader (women) know a lil' more about you then how sexual you are/like painting nude figures...seriously.

Yes, some people will have realistic and unrealistic needs/wants in their partner.

Me personally? If you read my profile; it gives you a good snap shot where "my head is".

Like I said; women aren't looking for your CV and/or resume on your profile, but be clear with what you seek by coming here. There is nothing wrong with those members that want just an intimate encounter, LTR, casual dating, etc..as long as one is clear with whatever your choice is.

Good luck!

I just noticed one thing.....actually there wre 107 people who have read this story, however only 4 to 5 have replied...this is what i call human tandency....they wanna check everyting but dont wont to involve....they just want to be spectators...

A lot of members here only lurk and never (or hardly) post. That's why I tell people to join in the forums. Someone might be lurking and might see something posted that sparks an interest.

Posters in the forums are only a small fraction of actual members. There are many that don't even know the forums exist

or perhaps they don't feel the need to reply to everything they see?

might be...but one thing is for sure...u surely need to have a hard luck to find a someone special for yourself...

I think alot of people join sites like this to explore who is out there, but cannot overcome the fear of others finding out what they are really like. I'm new to all of this, and have only received a couple of friend requests. It takes time and getting involved.