If been checked out by dozens of woman, gotten dozens of winks, added on to hot lists and e-mailed dozens of woman and still no one has messaged me back or wanted to chat. Is there something im not seeing or missing that is getting me left in silence lol but really? So if your reading this I would love some input or advice. Thank YOU

welcome to the reality of online dating...
try the forums, it helps people "know" you
it helps knock down some walls.

Welcome

Check your mail filters; make sure you don’t have too many limits.

Just because members view you doesn’t mean they are interested enough to send a message. Something in your profile (or lack of a profile if you didn’t fill it out) might have caused them to pass.

Members use the nudges and add other members as “favorites” all the time without actually sending a message. Some people play games or are only here for entertainment.

As Moe said, join the forums to meet active members.

Hello--I notice what you said and being a woman--I think that some women are lack the confindence to make the move if they can't see you right in front of them! I mean to really touch you and make sure you are real to them. I don't know where you live but I would chat w/you and get to know you and see if we are to be friends or if it were to go into more...Life is to be shared and enjoyed, so do just that! Ginger(Celticwitch33)

see, the forums already working for ya...

if you click on his picture in here, it will take you to his profile
he's in texas

Maybe they're just not all that interested?

Welcome
You might try a little more individuality on your profile.
That same single sentence is on about 100,000 profiles and they don't get mails either...just sayin

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