That I apparently don't have.

I've been talking to this guy for 2 weeks, and we've been around each
other nonstop. I am really starting to care alot for him, but I can't
tell what he's feeling. I'm scared to death of getting my heart broken
again, and I think he can feel that. I know that he does care about me,
he's very good at showing it. I don't know HOW MUCH he cares. I don't
know if he's falling for me of if he's just that nice of a guy. He
comes to my house from 15 mins away to take me to work (that is only 5
blocks from me... cus he says its too hot and he don't want me gettin
sick from bein in the heat), he comes from the same 15 mins away to take
me home. We spend all of our free time together, but I'm sooooo freaked
out. I can't get a straight answer out of him. I got brave and asked
"are you deveolping feelings for me?" I got a "Maaaaybe".... MAYBE? Are
you serious?!! MAYBE? I didn't ask for him to marry me, or even to say
"I Love You"... cus its too soon for that. I got a "MAYBE" what does
that mean? Guys, decode for me please!

I am not a guy, but I think his actions speak louder than his words.
Some guys have a hard time saying something that has any same
indications of a committment.

I agree...He is showing you how he feels by his actions which speak 10
times louder than words...Maybe he doesn't have the words to say how he
feels yet...He may be a nice guy...BUT trust me if he didn't have
feelings for you...UMMMMMM You would be walking in the heat and he
wouldn't be around sooooo much...I have the same trouble sometimes
putting my own feeling into words...BUT just because I don't say
it..doesn't mean I don't feel it...Rely on his actions and let him put
his feelings into words when he is ready!!!!!!!!

OMG..Jayme...nurjoyce is absolutely correct! He is tip-toeing around you
a bit so he does not scare you off! He is probably a little gun shy
because of previous relations that he rushed too much. If he is taking
that much time with you, he is trying to show his love through action
and concern about your well being. He likes to be around you or he would
stop showing up. Believe me...he does have a big place in his heart for
you. He may also be taking your lead because you have even made
statements on here about not wanting to be smothered. What have you told
him that you want out of the relationship? That may be why he is
reacting this way also.

hee hee.

Maaayyybe means yes in this instance.
but the key is "developing" and patience
is no virtue. patience is a painful tease
when all you want is the tootsie roll in
the middle.



you make me want some too.

he probably cares for you too much and
doesn't even know it yet. sure hope so
cause he and perhaps both of you may be
in for a shock.

so, do little things for each other and
play with the matches. we all burn in the end!

can't believe Lakeman beat me to this one!

jayme how long have you known this guy? maybeeeeee might mean he is
still getting to kow you, that he's not a user, that he wants to take
time so that no one gets hurt by rushing things, if its right it will
all work out. A lot of guys would run a line a crap and act like they
care just to get some and if he isn't doing that maybe he's one of the
good guys. Don't push the issue or you may push him away........good
luck

Maybe is yes

well i do not know this guy so i do not know what he's like, but me
personally beeing a shy guy i would of told u maybe to. its the way he
told you maybe (i mean his body languege when he said it) was it like a
playful thing? if it was imo its a yes.

To me, big thing here is GOING SLOW.
Yes he is interested but wants to be sure.
Cool your jets, go with the flow
A lot less chance of hurting someone on either side.
You say you want the forever thing,
Walk the walk, slowly build the relationship
EARN what you want.

Gotta be a little quicker there slowhand..LOL

I agree with all the above,one thing is for sure, he seems to care about
u or he would not be taking u to and from work take your time and see
what happens!!

Lucky Bastard

Well, my kids LOVE to hear me say "MAYBE". Cause they know it means yes
98% of the time!

so ask him today..... what kind of feelings that u are "Maybe"
developing for me?

but wait till hes not driving but when he drops u off so he has to look
at u when u are talking to him...

invite him in the house and take your clothes off, you'll know just what
he's feeling LMAO

how touching smartazz

feeling , touching, caressing its all good LOL

I am in no rush,thats for sure. I feel my heart moving faster than my
brain, but I'm not tellin...lmao. I told him that I'm starting to care
a great deal for him. The 'L' word isn't in play quite yet, too soon
for that. I know he does care for me, and I also know that HE knows
that I'm scared of getting my heart broken. I've known him for years,
but just really started to get to know him the last few weeks. He's my
God-Daughter's dad. Sounds odd, long story. Anyway...lol, thank you
all for taking the time to reply to my topic, I feel a little more
optimistic than I did when I posted.