yes John - poignant...

If we don't take that chance on love, then we don't grow and learn.
Nobody wants to get hurt, but you have to remember, you will not match
up perfectly with the first one you have feelings for.

Jayme...

I'm sure you don't want to get your heart broken, who would. BUT, I
agree with fine...you will never know unless you try. A few weeks to
women are not the same two weeks to men. I think women ( I know I am
equally as guilty ) get caught up in their emotions quicker than men. I
think they NEED to sort it all out first....

Maybe he's not sure exactly how he's feeling right now. Maybe he is
trying to "find" the right words to say to you. I agree with
everyone....he is showing you every day how he feels...

sweetie ,let him go sloly ,appreciate that he treats you like a lady
,hes doing nice things for you because he cares dont push ,jst let it
work out in its own time ,keep telling how much you care for him but
dont ask questions let him tell you in his own time ,my advise is dont
rush him some men dont like that

well, just to be contrary, Lucifer says,

"Life is short, eat dessert first, and
have extra helpings! Do it with as much
sin and gusto that you have....Have no
regrets. Waste not a second to sin."

"I am Lucifer and I do not repent"

Sometimes it's better to say nothing at all. Don't corner him and make
him feel that he has to answer 30 questions on the "status" of your
relationship. As long as it is progressing, just let it smoothly take
shape. As soon as you get demanding he will go on the defensive. Any
action causes an opposite reacton in science and relationships! Treat
him the way you want to be treated.

I'm certainly NOT pushing. I don't do that... makes things too
complicated. Also... thanks to you all, but its not like this is the
first guy I've fallen for... haha. I just have never had a maybe before
is all and it kinda scared me. The part that scares me the most is that
he is the best guy I've fallen for. He's got no addictions (except
maybe.... ME...lol), he's got no abusive or violent tendencies (I know
this b/c of I know the only 2 serious g/f's he's had and they are
B!thches..), he is kind and considerate (most men cannot say that about
themselves), he lays his head on mine when I lay my head on his chest.
He kisses my forehead with such gentleness, holds my hand like he wants
to protect me, but careful to not hold too tight and hurt my hand. When
I walk him out to his truck at night, he makes me go in and lock the
door (I live in a VERY bad neighborhood) before he'll go ANYWHERE. I
could go on and on..

Then there's the fact that I love his daughter as much as he does.. that
helps my case some haha.. Shes an amazing kid!

lol just use protection!!!!

I can't get pregnant.. PCOS... you may or may not know what that is
(female issue...not an std...lol).. we've both gotten tested for std's
before we did anything. Thats a MUST for me before I go there with
anyone. Thats beside the point... wow, I sound like a love struck 12
year old... someone slap me please!

It sounds like he is making a genuine effort. If his other gfs were
*****es...you may be the fresh breathe of air that he has been looking
for. He has known you for a while so he must be comfortable with you.
Good Luck Jayme..stay sweet to him and he will do the same.

patience is overrated crap.

hahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa omg so true buckethead!!!!!

says buckethead after snarfing down his
53rd bucket today!

Am I REALLY supposed to take advice from a man who has a KFC bucket on
his head? ... I THINK NOT...

*does little dance* WHooT, he just told me that he loves me!!

AWWWWWWWWWEEEEEEEEE...See all that worry for nothing!!!!!

I KNEW IT

Yeah, apparently he made me squirm on purpose.. soooo irritating, but
SOOOO worth it!

{{{Jayme}}}

Ok, I know how it feels, been talking to a lot of guys, in three days they would say the L word but in a week they will be gone... (next guy please! Repeats the same steps, ugh )

Now I am with another guy (again??! haha, joyce dont laugh! ) been talking on for about two weeks now, and I see he isnt the same, been very nice and a real gentleman, now I need not to ask him what he really wants from me because deep inside I feel he cares about me. I wont rush things nor him anyway but I am happy as long as I have him to talk to so who knows what's next? Uhhmmmm...

Way to go Jayme!!!! I knew he was for real! A little patience and understanding worked great for you!!!