I am in my late 30's and looking for a serious relationship. I am new to this site so I was wondering how serious are women here in looking for a serious relationship? Can anybody share their experience here so far? Thanks. P.S. I live in Ottawa, Canada.

could care less..Im here for the free beer....

I've been trying to find this free beer for 3 years and have yet to find any! I'm starting to think it's a rumor somebody started just to get people in the door!

yeah same here..still looking for the all-you-can-eat buffet too...

Relationships become serious. It is an evolution process. More often than not "serious" out the gate also means issues and twisted psychology! There is no such thing as instant gratification. That is something Americans don't seem to understand tor chose not to.

Of course there's such a thing as instant(or close enough) gratification, but I think that belongs in a different topic.

ok, lets pose the question ........ How serious are men on this site as far as looking for a serious relationship.... other than for sexual gratification ? lol

I'm seriously wanting a partner to start a new chapter in my life with me...just as serious about it being 'right'. I'm enjoying life and am not desperate to be with just anyone...I don't worry, stress or concern myself much with any of it. I've already put my desires 'out there' and when the time is 'right', all will fall into place.

No beer. Pepsi!

No buffet. Chips!

Fair enough to ask! I asked the question about women because I am a man and I am serious... :)

i've been looking on this site for a while for a women that just has the desire to want to get herself off with me. seems like their all in it to pay some bills, so which mean they cant even do the act good, they will just lay there like a zombie or something. it's really sad. now your on here saying you want a serious relatioship with one of them, good luck with that one.

I for one am looking for a serious relationship, but so far, this site seems to be more of a generic chatspot than a dating site. That's cool though, I'm enjoying the boards and having a good time.

Welcome first of all.

Second, there are whole lotta things going on on this site. There is chat and dating and intimate encounters of any sexual orientation you happen to be. I have even been approach by the poly amorous so I guess that is going on too.

There are everything from just friends wanted to marriage wanted. It is matter of sorting it out.

I am on here to make friends that may someday come to more if it happens.

Good luck.

I have yet to see the free beer, pepsi, buffet and/or chips, so don't count on that.

I am very serious!!!

Serious about the buffet and Pepsi!!

The forums are a great place to see people and their reactions to certain questions asked and how they respond. You get to see people drop some of their mask.

I know many people who would have never met except for the forums. They are married and happy today and they owe it to the forums!

So if you see a lot of clowning around, you are seeing a side of people that do want to date but are showing a side you wouldn't see through just e-mailing each other.

I have been looking online for 4 years and haven't found the one. But the forums keep me coming back and trying for more rejections...

I am pretty new to this site-yet-it is hard to get anyone to pay attention and actually talk about anything-serious or not. It does seem to be a radical game for most. Hope you find what you are looking for.

Seriously.

I am serious but all men want is on line sex, I would really like too meet someone in my area

Heck, I'm just looking for girls who I can send picsture of my.....


Wait...I hate when I forget what we were talking about.

A radical game? I don't know about that. There is alot of BS flying around. Cool hat..........