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Topic: dreading this first
newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Fri 08/06/10 12:01 AM
I can only speak for myself honey. I try to avoid the face to face meetings. It isn't I don't want to see her, it's just easier that I don't............ That's why this is such a dilema, can't avoid them without missing out on the whole rest of my big loving family. I know how you feel. It can be hard but don't deny anything that is important to you. My 2 cents....

d24 Joined Thu 09/20/07 Posts: 2560	Fri 08/06/10 12:03 AM
I know how you feel. It can be hard but don't deny anything that is important to you. My 2 cents.... Good Advice

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Fri 08/06/10 12:06 AM
You said you're lookin good, right?... Rock that! Be confident, put your shoulders back and your head up, smile! Don't even waste your time talking to them or about them at all. Everyone will see how great you are doing and think wow, she came out of this better then they did. It really can be enlightening to be the mature adult sometimes.

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Fri 08/06/10 12:07 AM
Oh and that will for sure annoy the piss out of your ex and niece

d24 Joined Thu 09/20/07 Posts: 2560	Fri 08/06/10 12:07 AM


Rondoobie Joined Wed 05/26/10 Posts: 578	Fri 08/06/10 12:19 AM
That is a tough one It will be OK Thank you. I really needed to hear that

d24 Joined Thu 09/20/07 Posts: 2560	Fri 08/06/10 12:23 AM
You will be fine...You could meet someone there even

Rondoobie Joined Wed 05/26/10 Posts: 578	Fri 08/06/10 12:24 AM
You said you're lookin good, right?... Rock that! Be confident, put your shoulders back and your head up, smile! Don't even waste your time talking to them or about them at all. Everyone will see how great you are doing and think wow, she came out of this better then they did. It really can be enlightening to be the mature adult sometimes. I'm hoping to, lost so much weight I gotta go buy a new dress, nothing I own fits! I hope I can find something I can wear out on a date soon, if anyone ever invites me out!

Rondoobie Joined Wed 05/26/10 Posts: 578	Fri 08/06/10 12:26 AM Edited by Rondoobie on Fri 08/06/10 12:32 AM
I can only speak for myself honey. I try to avoid the face to face meetings. It isn't I don't want to see her, it's just easier that I don't............ That's why this is such a dilema, can't avoid them without missing out on the whole rest of my big loving family. I know how you feel. It can be hard but don't deny anything that is important to you. My 2 cents.... Everyone here at mingle has been so important to me in my journey through this mess. Don't be surprised if I sneak off from the reception on Saturday with my cell phone to lean on all of you for some support, then I'll go back and dance! (psycing myself up)

gtbulldog Joined Wed 09/27/06 Posts: 570	Fri 08/06/10 12:31 AM
You said you're lookin good, right?... Rock that! Be confident, put your shoulders back and your head up, smile! Don't even waste your time talking to them or about them at all. Everyone will see how great you are doing and think wow, she came out of this better then they did. It really can be enlightening to be the mature adult sometimes. I'm hoping to, lost so much weight I gotta go buy a new dress, nothing I own fits! I hope I can find something I can wear out on a date soon, if anyone ever invites me out! A Gentleman always says YES!!

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Fri 08/06/10 12:31 AM
Just feed off of the compliments. Everyone is going to be telling you how great you look so that will help a lot. Also, buy a dress that's a little sexier than you would normally get

gtbulldog Joined Wed 09/27/06 Posts: 570	Fri 08/06/10 12:37 AM
You said you're lookin good, right?... Rock that! Be confident, put your shoulders back and your head up, smile! Don't even waste your time talking to them or about them at all. Everyone will see how great you are doing and think wow, she came out of this better then they did. It really can be enlightening to be the mature adult sometimes. I'm hoping to, lost so much weight I gotta go buy a new dress, nothing I own fits! I hope I can find something I can wear out on a date soon, if anyone ever invites me out! Never lose so much weight to make somebody happy.....It's not the thing to do...

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Fri 08/06/10 12:39 AM
I think she lost it after they broke up. Heartbreak can be quite the effective diet.

gtbulldog Joined Wed 09/27/06 Posts: 570	Fri 08/06/10 12:41 AM
Just feed off of the compliments. Everyone is going to be telling you how great you look so that will help a lot. Also, buy a dress that's a little sexier than you would normally get I agree!!!!! Never feed off of somebody else but your own Sweetheart!!!

gtbulldog Joined Wed 09/27/06 Posts: 570	Fri 08/06/10 12:43 AM
I think she lost it after they broke up. Heartbreak can be quite the effective diet. I think she is looking for a heart of gold in one person soul.

Rondoobie Joined Wed 05/26/10 Posts: 578	Fri 08/06/10 12:45 AM
I think she lost it after they broke up. Heartbreak can be quite the effective diet. Yep, you nailed it! The heartbreak diet, not a conscious effort on my part. Open the cupboards, stare in the fridge, you know it's time to eat but nothing ever looks good... except when I look in the mirror...lol

gtbulldog Joined Wed 09/27/06 Posts: 570	Fri 08/06/10 12:52 AM
I think she lost it after they broke up. Heartbreak can be quite the effective diet. Yep, you nailed it! The heartbreak diet, not a conscious effort on my part. Open the cupboards, stare in the fridge, you know it's time to eat but nothing ever looks good... except when I look in the mirror...lol I think she would look great in a dress!!!! never mock a person..With there feelings folk's never!!!

Rondoobie Joined Wed 05/26/10 Posts: 578	Fri 08/06/10 12:59 AM
I think she lost it after they broke up. Heartbreak can be quite the effective diet. Yep, you nailed it! The heartbreak diet, not a conscious effort on my part. Open the cupboards, stare in the fridge, you know it's time to eat but nothing ever looks good... except when I look in the mirror...lol I think she would look great in a dress!!!! never mock a person..With there feelings folk's never!!! Thank you, hope I can find something just a little sexy! Gonna get some sleep now so I can do that shopping before work tomorrow afternoon. Thanks to everyone for their kind words and support tonight. ~Ronda

JustaSimpleMan56 Joined Mon 07/05/10 Posts: 447	Fri 08/06/10 01:06 AM
Take someone with you I would love to, but I haven't met anyone yet. And what guy wants their first date to be at a wedding? lol Believe me Ronda. If I lived close to you. I would feel HONORED to be-able to take you to the event. You are so gorgeous

gtbulldog Joined Wed 09/27/06 Posts: 570	Fri 08/06/10 01:09 AM
I think she lost it after they broke up. Heartbreak can be quite the effective diet. Yep, you nailed it! The heartbreak diet, not a conscious effort on my part. Open the cupboards, stare in the fridge, you know it's time to eat but nothing ever looks good... except when I look in the mirror...lol I think she would look great in a dress!!!! never mock a person..With there feelings folk's never!!! Thank you, hope I can find something just a little sexy! Gonna get some sleep now so I can do that shopping before work tomorrow afternoon. Thanks to everyone for their kind words and support tonight. ~Ronda Your Welcome and have good sleeps!!