So I started dating this girl 2 and half years ago.
We had our speed bumps throughout the time and she even dated a few people while we splitted for 2 months or so in between those years.
We had sex often and she said she liked me a lot but those feelings never developed to love. She asks for my help often and I am always the one saving her from situations she gets herself into and I try my best to make her happy but it seems like I didnt get anywhere throughout the relationship. She would never let me break up with her or vice versa. She claimed to be a lesbian but yet she was with a guy...just cause she liked the title. I dunno confusing times.

Sounds to me like it's time to cut your losses and move on.

She would never let me break up with her or vice versa


how can she stop ya? if she makes ya happy keep doing what you are doing,, if it makes you unhappy and she truly 'cares' about you explain to her how unhappy you are and move on

it is confusing. what is it exactly that you are asking? or, are you just venting?

she's sounds like she's a mixed up kid - u may be the only stability she has, but don;t let that stop u from pursuing a more mature lovelife of ur own - while still being that "rock" or strong shoulder

but eventually it will have to end if u find another girl

I feel ya baby

these are confusing times!!!

Sounds to me like you are asking for ways to make her change or be what you want.???

That ain't happening.

If you are not happy with her as she is, you need to move on.

not to be insulting..but now I understand why there are so many "Dr. Phil" types making buckets of money "helping" people..come on now dude..you mean to tell me that you really cant tell what is happening here with this girl????

She's using you... I'd move on if I were you.

see..? msmyka gets it...

omgosh - u look so sophisticated in ur new photo! myka

I do? I was a little drunkie and were my 2 goober friends in the pic with me

ya - it's the hairstyle - a little dressier than the other photo - which is also fine, BTW