There could be a reason why she did that maybe men are pigs let me explain b4 you get mad here. Men are to busy judging what women look like instead of getting to know her! When you go to a bar or movie,fairs and so forth tell me who are you going to talk too the skinny woman or the plus size friend of hers? Men will pick the skinny woman over the plus size woman. If the woman came out and told you who she really was and you seen the real picture and let's say for example she is a plus size woman how would you really treat her and be honest you know you will blow her off in a heart beat! I never done anything like this I try to be real but I am not getting no where! 34 years old and still single and I thought about putting up a fake picture to see if I would get any hits but I would be lying to myself and to him! How long have you been talking with her over the phone? Do you like what she is saying to you? Men need to get over on looks and start judging a woman on how she treat you! Just tell her that you know so she can stop pretending and so that she can be real with you for a change! One more thing men/women need to stop judging on looks because looks is not going to last forever but love will!

people lie in here?

men are pigs, but you defend her lying... good 1

JDR, I just read your profile and I see where your comment is coming from. I will say this...I have dated plus size women and size 0 ones too. However, just some friendly advice.....consider making your profile more positive instead of slamming on men who only look at the outside. I bet you will find someone very nice on here that likes you just the way you are. Good luck with your search and your health. I said all that to say this...Not all men are pigs....some of us are just vain. Personally speaking I like a "little" junk in the trunk as long as I can pick her up when she has fallen down drunk.

All men are not like that!!

Don't bash them because they don't like big girls!!

If they don't that's their preference

some do. Some don't

some like blondes. Brunettes. Reds. Ravens

I don't get all shook up cause some men like blonde/blue eyes

deal with it accordingly and find a man who likes his woman big!

I lie to myself mostly. I look at the mirror in my mind and I think, "You really are all of that and a bag of chips."

Then I pass the mirror in that hall and I nearly give myself a heart attack and think, "No wonder my Mom nicknamed me Hideous."

I've called out two people on here that did that, and I suspected another one but couldn't find out for sure. The second one on here was just last Fall, she put up a pic of an actress.

its kind of like profiles with no pics...who are we ,what do we look like

So why not just put up an Avatar? Many members do and I think it's cool.

I've had a few encounters "not as advertised", but never a completely different person.

I don't deal with those who don't have pics.

I like Kayaks way of doing it! I'll have to remember that.

Yeah no kidding! It wouldn't be the plus size versus skinny that I'd have a problem with, it would be the blatant lying. Dropped like a hot potato when I found out the truth then, no matter how well we got along.


And men aren't pigs!

LOOK CLOSE IM REALLY BRAD PITT

My dad once told me to marry a big woman...he said they can always get skinny and they will love you long time. So i did...well she stole all my money.