How does someone find someone who is a true romantic. No lieing about it just to get into your pants.

I would say..... just keep searching till your heart tells you that he is the one! I think when someone wants to be a friend to you first and do things together that "good friends" do, they are more serious about treating you right than just wanting to "hook up!"

Well I think maybe not enough time is going by before they want in your pants. IF you are letting them then maybe you need to slow down and find out their true character.

I can't really pinpoint to you a true romantic, but I can give you some things to look for in a not so romantic.

1.) If you find their number written on a bathroom wall.

2.) They refer to themselves as "El Grande"

3.) They have at least one, if not more pictures of jungle cats on their walls.

4.) For a gift you get a subscription to Hustler.

5.) They give a part of their body a name. Exp: "Pink Floyd"

6.) They wash & wax their car in short jean cutoffs. So short you can see the pockets hanging out.

7.) At bars they always order you a roofie-colada.

8.) They own at least one pair of leather pants.

9.) They wear animal print Speedos.

10.) They refer to you simply as Momma or Babe. So they don't have to remember names.

So true

If this "romantic" is getting into your pants and you are NOT SURE??? Maybe you better ZIP UP....and get to know each other better?

Look for what Misterfreeze said.

Also listen to your gut. It will tell you what the right thing to do is. You also have to have trust and learn to stand your ground.

If he wants to just jump into bed right away then there is your answer and you should walk away. Unless you just want a piece of *** too.

Welcome I hope you find what your looking for

In the OP's defense I do NOT think she meant she's hoping into bed with any guy who whispers sweet nothings in her ear. I think it's very presumptuous to read her post that way.

I am a romantic.

And first off i dont want to jump you rather wine and dine and get to know the real you while treating you how you should be treated but nowadays that can be seen as soft. Sometimes you just cant win

I think every woman would ask that question. Don't know the answer but think there are very few men like this in existance. Good luck with your search though.

havent a clue, but if you find out, will you please post it..?

I think those are considered the

"nice guys"


Most of them are afraid to come out now!

I dont just hop into too bed with jsut anybody, but I seem too trust too much and believe in people that deserve too be believed in

It would be nice too meeta man who isnt afraid too be soft. It just shows that u r confident in who u r

There's your problem.

Men are not soft, we rarely have feelings, and when we do...we don't share them.

Did John Wayne sit down with a therapist and spill every single detail of his life while pouring tears? F*** no! Men don't do that! We stand tall, walk strong, head held high and flipping the therapist off when they tell us that "we should open our heart more." What is that?!

Connor MacManus, Murphy MacManus: Sláinte
Murphy MacManus: You know, it was sort of a balance though, wasn't it?
Connor MacManus: Shades of Eastwood. Charlie Bronson.
Rocco: Duke ****ing Wayne!
Connor MacManus, Murphy MacManus: Duke ****ing WAYNE!
Rocco: Men build things, then we die. It's in our ****ing DNA! THAT'S WHAT WE DO!
Murphy MacManus: And when it all falls down?
Rocco: We build it right back up again.
Connor MacManus: But this time bigger. BETTER!
Rocco: Look! Look what we can do. Look how ****in' beautiful we are. You think the men that built all this had it easy?
Murphy MacManus: Hard men!
Connor MacManus: Doing hard ****!
Rocco: and that gives me a hard on... But not in a gay way or anything like that.
Murphy MacManus: No, 'course not
Connor MacManus: Yeah it goes without sayin'
Rocco: I am so sick of all of this self help, twelve step, leftover hippie generation ********!
Connor MacManus: Now they don't want you to do anything, right? Just sit there. Don't drink.
Murphy MacManus: Don't smoke. Don't drive fast.
Connor MacManus, Murphy MacManus, Rocco: Kiss my ***!
Rocco: **** it! Do it all I say! Do you think Duke Wayne spent all of his time talking about his feelings with a ****in' therapist?
Connor MacManus: There's no ****ing way he did!
Rocco: John Wayne died with five pounds of undigested red meat in his ***. Now that's a man! Real men hide their feelings. Why?
Connor MacManus, Murphy MacManus, Rocco: Because it's none of your ****in' business!
Rocco: Men do not cry. Men do not pout. Men jack you in the ****in' jaw and say...
Detective Greenly: Thanks for comin' out.

--Thank you, Rocco!

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