Topic: challenging and strong
mattsk1's photo
Fri 07/16/10 03:43 PM
I want the challenge. Someone that will keep me on my toes and that I can learn from. Crap I should be careful what I wish for.

irisheyes79's photo
Fri 07/16/10 03:46 PM

I want the challenge. Someone that will keep me on my toes and that I can learn from. Crap I should be careful what I wish for.
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Ruth34611's photo
Fri 07/16/10 03:47 PM

I want the challenge. Someone that will keep me on my toes and that I can learn from. Crap I should be careful what I wish for.

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Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 07/16/10 03:49 PM
H god!

I love a man who is strong and a good challange!!

I need a man as strong as I am in order to cope

I love the alpha-male type!:heart:

buttons's photo
Fri 07/16/10 03:52 PM

I want the challenge. Someone that will keep me on my toes and that I can learn from. Crap I should be careful what I wish for.
honestly i guess i look for that too, however i do like to have different things to offer back... <not talking naughty folkslaugh > someone who can challenge me to learn something that they can teach me and vice versa otherwise i find someone to be quite dull

livelife68's photo
Fri 07/16/10 04:02 PM
I prefer and am intrigued by someone who is challenging and strong. It usually brings out the best in me and I find that a person like this helps me to keep an open mind.

newarkjw's photo
Fri 07/16/10 04:05 PM
I prefer women who speak a foreign language. She can be b!tching you out and it still sounds cool.........smokin

buttons's photo
Fri 07/16/10 04:28 PM

I prefer and am intrigued by someone who is challenging and strong. It usually brings out the best in me and I find that a person like this helps me to keep an open mind.
yea when both are challenging in the way i speak of you both do have to have a open mind.... kinda seems rare to find people with open minds.. some take it as "argumentative" when in fact like to me it is "challenging" to find better solutions.. for any situation.. rather it be between you two in a relationship or if it is just simply to figure something out that doesnt relate to your relationship <rather it be friends or a partnership of some sort relationship>...

buttons's photo
Fri 07/16/10 04:30 PM
i've noticed this too.. some men dont think they are intelligent however they are very much so.. and that needs to be pointed out to them as well.. for them to feel their input is as strong as yours...

mattsk1's photo
Fri 07/16/10 04:38 PM


I prefer and am intrigued by someone who is challenging and strong. It usually brings out the best in me and I find that a person like this helps me to keep an open mind.
yea when both are challenging in the way i speak of you both do have to have a open mind.... kinda seems rare to find people with open minds.. some take it as "argumentative" when in fact like to me it is "challenging" to find better solutions.. for any situation.. rather it be between you two in a relationship or if it is just simply to figure something out that doesnt relate to your relationship <rather it be friends or a partnership of some sort relationship>...


Could be wrong, but wouldn't the open minded man be similar to the "nice guy"(who usually get the rough end of the deal). The Alpha male I would think would be set in their ways and well pig headed.

sherry4382's photo
Fri 07/16/10 04:41 PM
If he is STRONG enough to pick me up, then i will CHALLENGE him!!bigsmile devil :tongue:

mattsk1's photo
Fri 07/16/10 04:44 PM

If he is STRONG enough to pick me up, then i will CHALLENGE him!!bigsmile devil :tongue:


Pick you up Physically and/or emotionally?

buttons's photo
Fri 07/16/10 04:44 PM
open minded means he listens.. and has room to grow and learn.. perhaps the suggestion would not of worked anyway and he can tell you why...:wink:

Totage's photo
Fri 07/16/10 04:45 PM

If he is STRONG enough to pick me up, then i will CHALLENGE him!!bigsmile devil :tongue:





I can bench press a truck.




















A Tonka truck, but it's still a truck. :tongue:

buttons's photo
Fri 07/16/10 04:46 PM
lol totage!

sherry4382's photo
Fri 07/16/10 04:46 PM


If he is STRONG enough to pick me up, then i will CHALLENGE him!!bigsmile devil :tongue:


Pick you up Physically and/or emotionally?


Both!!

sherry4382's photo
Fri 07/16/10 04:48 PM


If he is STRONG enough to pick me up, then i will CHALLENGE him!!bigsmile devil :tongue:





I can bench press a truck.




















A Tonka truck, but it's still a truck. :tongue:



mattsk1's photo
Fri 07/16/10 04:50 PM
Edited by mattsk1 on Fri 07/16/10 04:51 PM

open minded means he listens.. and has room to grow and learn.. perhaps the suggestion would not of worked anyway and he can tell you why...:wink:


Anotherwords a gem. People of the likes are hard to come by these days. Women seem to have the desire to grow in learn. Thats the big reason you ladies are out earning most of us guys who are too busy looking at porn or fantasy sports team. Ouch! The truth hurts!

buttons's photo
Fri 07/16/10 04:55 PM


open minded means he listens.. and has room to grow and learn.. perhaps the suggestion would not of worked anyway and he can tell you why...:wink:


Anotherwords a gem. People of the likes are hard to come by these days. Women seem to have the desire to grow in learn. Thats the big reason you ladies are out earning most of us guys who are too busy looking at porn or fantasy sports team. Ouch! The truth hurts!
matt?are you being challenging?laugh laugh :wink:

buttons's photo
Fri 07/16/10 05:01 PM
i do think you are right.. hard to find.. two people that can do that these days for some reason people seem to become offended if you not disagree but perhaps think of something else to try that may better a situation at handflowerforyou