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when you have interest in someone and they have these traits does it scare you away? if so why? would you consider these traits in someone a flaw?
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I prefer them to be predictable and weak so i can manipulate them into doing naughty things to me
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I prefer them to be predictable and weak so i can manipulate them into doing naughty things to me  so being challenging and strong you feel would not be this way? perhaps you would not have to manipulate them maybe they are already naughty!
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I am all game for being manipulated into doing naughty things at least!
(if i were single!) |
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I am all game for being manipulated into doing naughty things at least! (if i were single!) your girl can do that for you lol!
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when you have interest in someone and they have these traits does it scare you away? if so why? would you consider these traits in someone a flaw? I wouldn't consider challenging and strong flaws...I would think of those as positive traits. I'm tired of winning all the arm wrestling matches, so to speak. |
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We live together now so all that naughty stuff doesnt happen like it used to. We only have sex five times a day now. It all goes downhill after you move in together.
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i agree lady for myself i do like those traits in a man.. i wonder though if it scares off men sometimes.. although they were a different breed.. than the person who told me i am like that.. seemed to make him more interested. but i wonder if the majority find someone like that scary or maybe like dan said... un- manipulative? and really that is just what they want in life?
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We live together now so all that naughty stuff doesnt happen like it used to. We only have sex five times a day now. It all goes downhill after you move in together.
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All depends.. I think it could go either way.
Being challenging and strong gives you something to work hard for and look back on and think yeah it was deffinitly worth it. Sometimes it can be intimidating and it can scare a person away. It all depends on the connection the 2 of them have. |
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Edited by
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Fri 07/16/10 12:47 PM
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i dont mean like someone being hard to get.. i meant a challenging conversation..when someone has something to offer the other with input and they realize humm i never thought of that before that way.. etc..someone who can provide different angles at situations.. more like both having something to offer each other rather than one person having to be the strong one..
 and not in an arguing way or im right your wrong etc...
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All depends.. I think it could go either way. Being challenging and strong gives you something to work hard for and look back on and think yeah it was deffinitly worth it. Sometimes it can be intimidating and it can scare a person away. It all depends on the connection the 2 of them have. True...it depends on their attitude and how they use their strengths. |
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i dont mean like someone being hard to get.. i meant a challenging conversation..when someone has something to offer the other with input and they realize humm i never thought of that before that way.. etc..someone who can provide different angles at situations.. more like both having something to offer each other rather than one person having to be the strong one.. and not in an arguing way or im right your wrong etc...
gotcha. I misinterpreted the topic. |
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when you have interest in someone and they have these traits does it scare you away? if so why? would you consider these traits in someone a flaw? I like that....challenging and strong. I think I will choose to believe that is why I can't get a date. I am challenging and strong. 
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Being challenging and strong is very different (to me) than being arrogant and macho. HUGE difference and easily recognizable...
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when you have interest in someone and they have these traits does it scare you away? if so why? would you consider these traits in someone a flaw? I like that....challenging and strong. I think I will choose to believe that is why I can't get a date. I am challenging and strong.
I think we should let them win at arm wrestling... |
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It doesn't bother me, but I have found if I don't play myself down it turns guys away. Seems to hurt their self-esteem.
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when you have interest in someone and they have these traits does it scare you away? if so why? would you consider these traits in someone a flaw? I don't like challenge, unless I understand it. I do like strength though. |
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when you have interest in someone and they have these traits does it scare you away? if so why? would you consider these traits in someone a flaw? I like that....challenging and strong. I think I will choose to believe that is why I can't get a date. I am challenging and strong.
I think we should let them win at arm wrestling... If I thought it would help, I might. |
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I prefer them to be predictable and weak so i can manipulate them into doing naughty things to me 
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