None taken. I rarely get annoyed actually, but once you've seen this topic come up every three or so months when she decides to reactivate...it tends to wear on the collective mind.

I agree ladieofmagic or its where people look at your pro judge you on what you put as well as your pic but dont give you the time of day to show yourself to them. I am the type of guy that does like to go out sometimes but not always im not a bar hopper i did that at 19 didnt like it so im done id rather buy my bottle of rum and coke bring it home and enjoy the company of a lovely ladie

From what I have seen; I think if you aren't picky; then you are just settling. If you settle; then you will end up being unhappy. I think these people that want a long term relationship/marriage are prepared to invest a lot of their time and effort to find that person to spend the rest of their life with. So, why would they settle? I think preferencs weed out those who may not be compatible with you. I don't think its about finding someone that is perfect but someone that is perfect for you. I guess the downside is if you are too picky; you may indeed never meet anyone.

It's nice to have preferences. If you don't want to date a smoker, then you shouldn't. If you want to date someone who is of the same faith as you are, then stick to it. Preferences are nice to have.

However. Have you ever thought to yourself "Well, such and such was a great person. They had all I wanted. All I desired. Except....(insert any list of reasons why you didn't pursue something with this person). I'm sure most have. And, while it probably was a good choice not to settle, what if it could have been an even better choice if you had decided to date this person? I'm just saying that there could have been a chance that the one person you looked over was "perfect for you".

To me, you never find what you are looking for. I find that someone always shows up when you least expect it. And when you see this person, you could feel that they are awesome. And you like them. But then you give yourself a plethora of reasons to not pursue something with this person. They don't like this, or they hate that, or it isn't the right time. Dating comes down to making a choice....a decision. It's not just about dating someone. When you decide if you want to date someone, it should be because you truly want to see what you and this other person can build together. But the timing isn't right? When the hell is it ever right?

We have reasons to not do something, and we make them seem so valid that sometimes we miss the big picture. Perhaps that person you decided against was the very person who would have made your life that much better. And don't give me that "Oh, I would feel it. I would know that they were right for me." Sometimes, even when you feel it, you still say no because you have reasoned in your head that it is for the best.

I know I am playing devil's advocate here, but I feel it is a something to think about. Preferences are nice. But then again, do they always lead to the best result?

Someone has to take one for the team dude. Couldn't find a better choice to do so

im perfectly happy in my skin and both my other sites are loaded with over 2500 pics but see i hav e been on this site before under a differant name and know how bad it got with the desprite women and i havent posted anything mean or nasty this i do know cause the mods would have said so i know find me would and kristy would have
and the lil psycoligy thing wont work to get me to post a pic
ohhh btw have a great night huggzzz

No,nothing..just women in the 21st century are spoiled rotten and watch too much soap operas and tv series and think those are reality. At age 70, still lonely and childless, they wish they were more accepting. Don't forget ladies: "Tick-tock, tick-tock.. time is ticking away and time is not on your side.

Uh ya .. that's why your post got deleted in a different thread hon. After you drop your dirt you might wanna go checkin to see if it's still there. So what were you sayin?

i know its gone from your thread and i know because you sniveld and DO NOT REPEAT DO NOT CALL ME HON IM NOT YOUR HON

There is a God in the heavens.

Everybody is entitled to their opinion...but nobody ever said I had to agree with it.

ya got that right

Spoiled goes both ways. Most guys don't even bother with romance or a long-term relationship now, and confuse love and lay because they both start with L. That's why dudes don't talk so much about dating but hooking up.

Also want to comment, it's one thing to have preferences, it's another to have inflexible requirements that a man or woman must absolutely have or meet. Either you need to compromise or be willing to agree to disagree and part ways. I don't think you'll ever meet a "perfect" person. We need to ask ourselves how reasonable our preferences, requirements, or standards are. I have preferences also but mostly general ones, and my specific ones, like not dating or marrying a chain smoker, heavy drinker, etc. are for health reasons and compatibility, which I think are reasonable. Then again, everyone thinks what they think is "reasonable."