Hello Lypdon.Checking to see if all going well with you and your Daughter.
LiL

Don't be harsh my dad was and I left at 17 and got married and dropped out at 18..

Wow, I'm really surprised at the lack of comment about her upbringing. I don't know how in the hell her mother even had custody to begin with, given the circumstances. And I don't know how long she has been around these people, who are nothing short of bad role models. But, I do know this. If what you said is true about her uncle, mom and aunt, and she's been exposed to that for long enough, that WILL be the only way she knows how to behave. She's not a 'normal' 13 year old, regardless of it being 1955 or 2010. She's been exposed to abuse. She's had totally ****ed up role models, and I find it sad that so many people seem to not even realize how much of an impact all of these facts can and do have on her. The facts are that her grades are slipping and she's lost interest in things that she used to enjoy. Is it the boyfriend, or the familial issues? Or something else? Doesn't matter. The red flags are there; something is definitely going on. I would also like to mention that I find it strange that she would tell you about her diary and that everything is in it. I'm not sure what that means, but obviously, whatever is going on, she's not trying very hard to hide it from you. I wouldn't go through her ****, though. As others have said, I'd just talk to her about it, while you're calm, and make it clear that your concerns are out of love, and that you are not angry. The more you two talk and get to 'know' each other, the more forthright she'll be with you in the future.

Okay I am 23 years old. I have a 4 year old son. I am just going to say that I would be worried about my 13 year old girl because that age range these days are very advanced. My mother is a nurse and she has seen a lot of 12-15 year old girls have babies. there is a school down the road from me and all the girls there made a pack to each other that they would all get pregnant at the same time and not to mention the girls where all 13 and 14 years old. They all just said that there parents would take care of the babies and they can still party and go to school. they said they wanted babies so they can dress them in nice clothes and what not. They just wanted real live baby dolls in other words. another thing don't go in her diary. She will say she hates you and will never trust you ever again in her life.

I was born and raised in las vegas we moved to ky about 4 years ago. i had no problems growing up there but my sister is a little bit different she always hang with the "not so awesome" crowd you know the "baddies" as we used to call them you have to be careful we had to move constantly cause she just didn't seem to get the point that "bad" kids are never going to change and she was in alot of trouble all of the time. Moving here did her some good but i really miss the city. there's really nothing you can do for a child that is "stubborn" believe me except make drastic changes and drastic decisions sometimes talking doesnt always do so much good.

Omg youre freaking out.


CHILL!


If youre so concerned teach your child about safe sex, and offer to put her on the pill... Make condoms available..


Remember... you will never be able to control another human being without taping them, or chaining them to a wall in the basement.


My son is 11, he takes girls out to the diner for meals, and virgin pina coladas...


I dont sweat it... and I keep the lines of communication open, and he tells me everything.

Good luck.

looks like to me your a contral freak if she is 13 or 14 she is a big girl in my eyes and if she wanted to keep some things from her perents it's all cool, just give her the sex talk and try and talk with her a little more

first of all u should trust ur daughter and explain her about how to handle guys .making friends is not bad but beyond that its a problem ,explain her like this .iam sure that she will understand u and ur feelings.my good wishes are with u.
regards
vicky