i get a lot of comments from guys saying im sexy and all that but i want an honest opinion from a real man...i dont think im that pretty but thats just me...and if i am then why cant i attract a normal, well rounded, respectful, sweet guy....r there just not any left?

Not at 21 years old there aren't. Most of them are still too busy being led around by their nether regions.

It's hard to give you a " rating " because there isn't much of anything in your profile.

You say that you are shy but will talk if a guy finds the right subject...but you give no indication at all of what those subjects would be.

You say nothing about what drives you....what you are passionate about...

There just isn't much in your profile for a " normal, well rounded...etc... " guy to see and get interested in.

Honestly? There's nothing there to work with.

I can't even begin to make the remotest shred of an evaluation until I have some information about the person....who they are, what they're looking for, a little about their life and history and hopes and dreams and fears and goals....

And I don't want to cast aspersions here, because I don't know you -- I don't know anything about you -- but I have seen so many similar profiles, profiles which contained next to nothing of informational value, that I just skip them and move on to the next one.

Just my opinion, but if you want to get the attention of a guy who is after more than sheer looks, you're going to have to provide some content -- otherwise the looks are all they've got to go with.

And I would fix the spelling in the Interests List....!

Good luck!

thanks for the advice it really helps...i'm always lookin at guys profiles and sayin well dang they are not tellin me anything about them and yet here i am making the same mistake...i will fix it...oh and the spelling...im a texter and its a habit lol i do it without even realizing it...i done it just now lol

You appear to not wear anything on your photo, at least not in the visible spectrum. So guys get really turned on by that. Even old, ugly hags turn them on when the picture suggests they are naked or easy to get.

Your profile said,
I'm a fun and energetic person. I like to have a good time and meet new people.

Fun and energetic are code words for sex, and energetic, untiring sex for a long time at a time.

Meet new people translates into your not wishing for a commitment.

Now, in this post is a different you -- you wonder why you get the people who are not husband material. Because on your profile you don't appear as a wife material.

ok guys i changed my profile and tried to take your advice plz anyone let me know what u think and im gonna change my pic too havent had the chance to upload another one yet

looks good

thank u very much...means a lot

Your welcome

yep looks good to me

and welcome to the forum

thank u

misskiss,you`re gorgeous

i think ur a cutie

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Tammy

You want honest? I'll give you honest babe .. guys will tell any girl they are sexy if it gets them in the door You're only 21 but you should know this, so I'm tellin ya


You do seem very sweet .. good luck hon

I don't recall the last time I said sexy

Yeah... "sexy" don't work for me, neither does "you're a classy broad, d'ya wanna go?"

I noticed the only sure thing that gets me results is whistling at the girls in my construction coveralls, or even better, honking at them as I drive past.

i think it looks good bella....

I like your profile, and it looks like you ran out of characters in your interests. It's good to see that you haven't gotten into the habits some of us have ran into including myself and that's very respectful I believe. U did good and yea would probably be a good idea for another picture at least.