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Topic: Am I asking for too much?
SillynSerious's photo
Sun 07/04/10 07:30 PM
To want a real relationship with a man whom I love and that loves me in return? To want a man that cares about me in all ways as I will him and one that knows how and when to have fun and when to be serious? A man who works as hard as I do and plays just as fully?
Is there a man that is the one who will balance with me on the scale of this life?

delilady's photo
Sun 07/04/10 07:32 PM
When you find that guy see if he has a brother for me!

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 07/04/10 07:38 PM
Ask and you shall receive.

Justaguy129's photo
Sun 07/04/10 07:42 PM
No, you're not asking too much, but that's not the real problem. If you are like most women online nowadays you will never find this person because of not being able to get past the looks issue. You look at the pics and never see the person. Yes, looks are a part of the whole chemistry thing, but should only be a small part if you want a truly nice person that will like/love you as much in return. If looks are not your primary concern then it is likely you will find who/what you are looking for. Good Luck in your search.

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 07/04/10 07:44 PM

No, you're not asking too much, but that's not the real problem. If you are like most women online nowadays you will never find this person because of not being able to get past the looks issue. You look at the pics and never see the person. Yes, looks are a part of the whole chemistry thing, but should only be a small part if you want a truly nice person that will like/love you as much in return. If looks are not your primary concern then it is likely you will find who/what you are looking for. Good Luck in your search.


I'd be offended if I had the energy.

writer_gurl's photo
Sun 07/04/10 07:46 PM

When I get that way, wanting someone to :heart: me as much as I :heart: them I watch Moulin Rougeflowerforyou

SillynSerious's photo
Sun 07/04/10 07:48 PM

No, you're not asking too much, but that's not the real problem. If you are like most women online nowadays you will never find this person because of not being able to get past the looks issue. You look at the pics and never see the person. Yes, looks are a part of the whole chemistry thing, but should only be a small part if you want a truly nice person that will like/love you as much in return. If looks are not your primary concern then it is likely you will find who/what you are looking for. Good Luck in your search.


I have no problem admitting looks do matter, but "looks" can mean many different things to many different people. It's not like I'm Miss America myself.

MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 07/04/10 07:52 PM


No, you're not asking too much, but that's not the real problem. If you are like most women online nowadays you will never find this person because of not being able to get past the looks issue. You look at the pics and never see the person. Yes, looks are a part of the whole chemistry thing, but should only be a small part if you want a truly nice person that will like/love you as much in return. If looks are not your primary concern then it is likely you will find who/what you are looking for. Good Luck in your search.


I'd be offended if I had the energy.


Me too, Ruth drinker

Hmmm, well, I've started to type my thoughts regarding that reply and I just can't bring my words together succinctly enough to make my point. I’ll just call bullshiiiit! laugh

Oy! slaphead

SillnSerious, there is someone for everyone and I hope you find the perfect guy for you! Don't settle for one reason or another. You deserve the whole package: looks, success, kindness, integrity and mutual admiration.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 07/04/10 08:05 PM

To want a real relationship with a man whom I love and that loves me in return? To want a man that cares about me in all ways as I will him and one that knows how and when to have fun and when to be serious? A man who works as hard as I do and plays just as fully?
Is there a man that is the one who will balance with me on the scale of this life?



Were all singing this song with ya sista flowerforyou

Goofball73's photo
Sun 07/04/10 08:19 PM
You need to go to places where they play Magic The Gathering, D & D, or find a secret club of Star Wars geeks (Yes...I am an SW geek). You will find the dude you described their. :thumbsup:

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 07/04/10 08:25 PM


No, you're not asking too much, but that's not the real problem. If you are like most women online nowadays you will never find this person because of not being able to get past the looks issue. You look at the pics and never see the person. Yes, looks are a part of the whole chemistry thing, but should only be a small part if you want a truly nice person that will like/love you as much in return. If looks are not your primary concern then it is likely you will find who/what you are looking for. Good Luck in your search.


I'd be offended if I had the energy.


:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Thorb's photo
Sun 07/04/10 08:26 PM
Edited by Thorb on Sun 07/04/10 08:28 PM

You need to go to places where they play Magic The Gathering, D & D, or find a secret club of Star Wars geeks (Yes...I am an SW geek). You will find the dude you described their. :thumbsup:

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To want a real relationship with a man whom I love and that loves me in return? To want a man that cares about me in all ways as I will him and one that knows how and when to have fun and when to be serious? A man who works as hard as I do and plays just as fully?
Is there a man that is the one who will balance with me on the scale of this life?


well ... we want that too ... just not a guy.

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 07/04/10 08:26 PM

You need to go to places where they play Magic The Gathering, D & D, or find a secret club of Star Wars geeks (Yes...I am an SW geek). You will find the dude you described their. :thumbsup:



Well Goof. Are you offering yourself on the altar of no return here?

smokin :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Goofball73's photo
Sun 07/04/10 08:29 PM


You need to go to places where they play Magic The Gathering, D & D, or find a secret club of Star Wars geeks (Yes...I am an SW geek). You will find the dude you described their. :thumbsup:



Well Goof. Are you offering yourself on the altar of no return here?

smokin :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:



I am a "Sexy", "Hot" and "Righteous" Star Wars geek boy. None can touch me.noway noway shocked :laughing: :laughing:

freeonthree's photo
Sun 07/04/10 08:48 PM



No, you're not asking too much, but that's not the real problem. If you are like most women online nowadays you will never find this person because of not being able to get past the looks issue. You look at the pics and never see the person. Yes, looks are a part of the whole chemistry thing, but should only be a small part if you want a truly nice person that will like/love you as much in return. If looks are not your primary concern then it is likely you will find who/what you are looking for. Good Luck in your search.


I'd be offended if I had the energy.


Me too, Ruth drinker

Hmmm, well, I've started to type my thoughts regarding that reply and I just can't bring my words together succinctly enough to make my point. I’ll just call bullshiiiit! laugh

Oy! slaphead

SillnSerious, there is someone for everyone and I hope you find the perfect guy for you! Don't settle for one reason or another. You deserve the whole package: looks, success, kindness, integrity and mutual admiration.


The first 2 took me out of the race bigsmile

mbcasey's photo
Sun 07/04/10 09:02 PM

To want a real relationship with a man whom I love and that loves me in return? To want a man that cares about me in all ways as I will him and one that knows how and when to have fun and when to be serious? A man who works as hard as I do and plays just as fully?
Is there a man that is the one who will balance with me on the scale of this life?


I am that guy but women usually run from someone who is bipolar.

I wish you the best...

Atlantis75's photo
Sun 07/04/10 09:07 PM

When you find that guy see if he has a brother for me!


and a sister for me!

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 07/04/10 09:21 PM

No, you're not asking too much, but that's not the real problem. If you are like most women online nowadays you will never find this person because of not being able to get past the looks issue. You look at the pics and never see the person. Yes, looks are a part of the whole chemistry thing, but should only be a small part if you want a truly nice person that will like/love you as much in return. If looks are not your primary concern then it is likely you will find who/what you are looking for. Good Luck in your search.


May be a fair amount of truth in what you saying except you left out a couple other important points.

To say "most women nowadays" is inaccurate.
Fact is both genders do this and it is the same in real life, has always been and will always be. So it is not isolated to just women or the internet.

Atlantis75's photo
Sun 07/04/10 09:56 PM

You need to go to places where they play Magic The Gathering, D & D, or find a secret club of Star Wars geeks (Yes...I am an SW geek). You will find the dude you described their. :thumbsup:



RowBaby's photo
Sun 07/04/10 10:01 PM
That is a sweet costume :thumbsup:

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