But, I am still looking for the best friend who makes my knees weak at the same time...he is out there!!!

you cant really have a male friend with out dammaging his relationship or yours . it is by nature that both men and women get jelious and it will more times than not cause a rift . can still waunting to be a friend to the oppisite sex be worth it . i guess it depends date your friend. i have female friends and when they are in a relationship i vanish . i was married for 10 years and learned agreat deal . a lot of my lady friends i dated or would like to date me . and that was made clear to me . and it does make it difficult when i date women from my immediate area .

my man and I have become best friends....I think because we are older and that whole jealous think was left behind long ago....


i also have lots of male friends.....without the sexual side to it!