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My children would probably tell you theey would prefer jail over being bailed out.......they would be more afraid of mom bailing them out, I am very sure.... ![]() Only if you could handle thee as ssssss kicking when you got home.....do not see my kids anywhere near jail for fear of their life when ma gets ahold of em ![]() |
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I love my children.....no matter what they do.....trust me and it would really be more a tongue lashing once they reach a certain age.....they are 18 and older, then theey are old enough to make their own mistakes and they are old enough to find their way out of their own mess.....that is love....love enough for them to grow and learn from their mistakes.....
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I love my children.....no matter what they do.....trust me and it would really be more a tongue lashing once they reach a certain age.....they are 18 and older, then theey are old enough to make their own mistakes and they are old enough to find their way out of their own mess.....that is love....love enough for them to grow and learn from their mistakes..... |
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I love my children.....no matter what they do.....trust me and it would really be more a tongue lashing once they reach a certain age.....they are 18 and older, then theey are old enough to make their own mistakes and they are old enough to find their way out of their own mess.....that is love....love enough for them to grow and learn from their mistakes..... They get their amnesty day once a quarter at the round table..... |
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let them grow up and give them more responsibility when they show they can handle it....problem I believe is a lot of parents fail to instill respect/responsibility early on and then just expect them to magically have it at a certain age...it doesn't work that way. You can't let your children walk all over you for years and then just expect them to treat you differently because they reach that age that THEY think the child should be responsible...instead of raising the child right in the first place.
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I'd explain how faulty this argument is... but it's not like anybody would care or understand anyway. I have 3 sons - none of whom would fear me bailing them out of jail because they would never on God's green earth end up there - they 'd rather die, I think, oldest- B.S. in Informations systems mgmnt - works as an MS Shareware Professional (server guy) - lived on his own since age 19 - worked FT & basically put hmself through college middle - A.S. - mathematics, B.S. Physics Engineering and waiting to hear on acceptance to a graduate program in Physics. Working in some kind of refraction project at Wright patterson AFB - says it's really hard (I could have told him that......but he wanted to do it...) youngest - prolly an honor student - he's such a good kid that I don't even ask any more. hates science fairs, allergic to excersize, mildly interested in girls (10th grade), knows more about metal than most adults, knows more about computer hardware and software than most people of any age...and no one taught it to him but himself am I bragging ???? heck ya!! Are these 3 Musketeers perfect heeeee-l no, but are they wonderful awesome respectful kind responsible, yes usually all of the above we have never had to fear one another. they are not afraid of me but they listen to me and I to them and I can say with certainty that is how we want it ![]() ![]() |
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My children would probably tell you theey would prefer jail over being bailed out.......they would be more afraid of mom bailing them out, I am very sure.... [/qu You are one of those ![]() Yep and my oldest child went off to college with a 40000 dollar scholarship, if you do it right from the beginning its easy to be a permissive parent that trusts their children Congrats to you and your child..You did a great job!! I have 2 daughters in their 40's that are back in school getting another degree... |
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that younger people have become,"don't do this or don't make the same mistakes i did" pressure from their parents cause wow so much depression and i'm so misunderstood on here Some, maybe. But some of us are still avid f***-ups. |
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I'd explain how faulty this argument is... but it's not like anybody would care or understand anyway. I have 3 sons - none of whom would fear me bailing them out of jail because they would never on God's green earth end up there - they 'd rather die, I think, oldest- B.S. in Informations systems mgmnt - works as an MS Shareware Professional (server guy) - lived on his own since age 19 - worked FT & basically put hmself through college middle - A.S. - mathematics, B.S. Physics Engineering and waiting to hear on acceptance to a graduate program in Physics. Working in some kind of refraction project at Wright patterson AFB - says it's really hard (I could have told him that......but he wanted to do it...) youngest - prolly an honor student - he's such a good kid that I don't even ask any more. hates science fairs, allergic to excersize, mildly interested in girls (10th grade), knows more about metal than most adults, knows more about computer hardware and software than most people of any age...and no one taught it to him but himself am I bragging ???? heck ya!! Are these 3 Musketeers perfect heeeee-l no, but are they wonderful awesome respectful kind responsible, yes usually all of the above we have never had to fear one another. they are not afraid of me but they listen to me and I to them and I can say with certainty that is how we want it ![]() ![]() You did a great job too!! My granddaughter was accepted for her masters program at the Smithonian in DC.. She has a bachelors in Archeology and Anthropology.. Grandson just graduated with honors with an associate in Heavy Equipment/Environmental Restoration.. |
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that younger people have become,"don't do this or don't make the same mistakes i did" pressure from their parents cause wow so much depression and i'm so misunderstood on here im sorry, I dont understand the post/question ![]() ![]() |
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