So last night I went to the bar alone and this guy who was with a couple people started talking to me. So I hung out with him and his friends. I had a smoke and he says to me that I should be smoking and how it's not good for the baby to be around it. It's not like I smoke near her at all. And I very rarely smoke as it is. He said so why do you do it then and he looked down on me for it. Which I understand not everyone likes smoking. Anyways, then after last call he says he is going to drive and I said that he shouldn't because he is pretty drunk but he doesn't care. So whatever I was still going to walk.

What I don't understand is in MY opinion drinking and driving is far worse then having a like 4 smokes. Any other opinions?

I'd say I have to agree, but then my opinion is a little biased...

I hate smoking but drinking and driving is WAY worse. At least when you choose to smoke you're really only making a conscious decision to kill yourself. When you drink and drive you're putting everyone in danger.

I enjoy both

Actually, fuuny how people like to throw stones without looking at themselves and what they do. It is not for me to tell him not to go out and kill a family full of people with his car and end up on death row. Nor is it my job to tell someone they cannot smoke.....or do whatever it is they do.........not my job......my job is to see to me and those taht seek me or those that ask.....if you feel it is wrong them it is wrong for you.....should I tell my neighbor that? NO

Actually the two can't even be compared to each other in my book.....

Second of all if all he could do is find things wrong with what ya do then it is best you went your separate ways.

Shshs I dare someone to tell me what I'm doing wrong when they are no better off......kind of like calling the kettle black.......

The way I see it don't judge me and I want judge you.........

You're nicer than I am, if someone would have been on my a$$ about smoking and the started driving drunk, the cops would have got an anonymous tip.

Smoking is a personal decision that as long as I am not in an enclosed space with it I could care less. What you were facing was a passive aggressive jerk. Drinking and Driving is illegal. One day choad boy will be driving drunk and he will have to face Johnny Law. I bet he will be all "Polite and gentlemanly" around the constabularies.

If anything I agree with Texasgal, I would have dropped a dime on his backside! If you were outside smoking and talking to his GF then she made a decision and suddenly her jerkoff BF suddenly starts having control issues in my face? I would have told him to piss off and spit in his face if he got uppity. I hate passive aggressive like you don't even know! It is one thing to be polite about it but to get undignified about smoking and then deciding to knowingly break the law?

What is worst is why his GF is even there in a BAR which is a public place. If anything what the hell was she doing in a bar pregnant in the first place?

People like that make me go !

I hate bars myself anyways. Too many instant a$$holes...


Just add alcohol!

Some stranger I met in a bar is trying to advise me about a personal habit and I'm going to hang with him all night...NOT! I'd have walked at "You shouldn't......"

Some folks and their opinions are important/necessary to your life....he and his weren't.

I lost my aunt to a drunk driver and I would never want anyone else to have to lose their family member or friend. All because I was stupid enough to drive drunk. NOT COOL. Why take the risk at killing someone else or myself? At what cost is it worth.. So someone can save a few bucks on cab? Honestly I would rather spend the few bucks and be safe.

I have yet to see anyone smoke a few cigarettes and then run their car into a bus.

My personal attitude is that, while I don't think smoking is a good thing, I think alcohol is much worse.

I will date a smoker but I will NOT date a drinker. That's a non-negotiable.

I've lost way too many people to alcohol in my life as it is. I don't want it in my life in any way, shape, or form.

Wow, you figured out he was an oxymoron before a date even happened. Kudos to you.

The guy was way out of line, especially when he drove. Why did he have a baby in the bar ? Thats what I would have said on my way to another table. Dennis

Ok, I see his, GF was PG. OOPS ! If it is a smoking establishment, and she don't like smoke, she shouldn't go there.
You don't move next to the airport, then complain about the noise.

Right on brother !

No I don't think I made myself clear. I was so baffled I just typed and I showed him and his friend the picture of my little girl and she was not at the bar. I would never allow anything like that at all! Him and his friend said I shouldn't be smoking because I have a little one.

Oh, I see, well, they were way out of line. It was none of his business. I though he had a baby in the bar ghe was worried about, then I thought his GF was PG, im all screwed up. lol

No it was my fault I should have made myself more clear