Topic: Unable to see who wants to meet
NaughtyNacht's photo
Thu 06/24/10 12:13 PM
I got a message saying someone wants to meet me. However i click on "my matches" and checked my mail and both say I have nothing in there???? So how do i find out who wants to meet?

Dragoness's photo
Thu 06/24/10 12:15 PM
You have to go through your mutual matches and if you say yes to the same person who said yes to you, it will show up on your profile as a mutual match.

NaughtyNacht's photo
Thu 06/24/10 12:24 PM
Edited by NaughtyNacht on Thu 06/24/10 12:25 PM
How do I know who said yes? Guess? lol
Thanks for the quick response BTW

Dragoness's photo
Thu 06/24/10 12:29 PM

How do I know who said yes? Guess? lol
Thanks for the quick response BTW


The way the mutual match is set up, the person stays anonymous until both of you say yes or maybe to each other.

Some people like it, some do not. I guess try it and see what happens.

Good luck:thumbsup:


NaughtyNacht's photo
Thu 06/24/10 12:30 PM
I got it now, thanks Dragoness

markc48's photo
Thu 06/24/10 01:12 PM
A little tip look to see who viewed you. Works sometimes.

markecephus's photo
Thu 06/24/10 02:50 PM

In addition to the above, Mingle plus allows you to see who actually said yes, without all the guesswork.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 07/03/10 06:47 PM
"Mutual Match" is a guessing game at best, sorry, but even at the pay level it really isn't all that good. Hopefully the admin have some plans for that system in the future, I quit using it after the first few days, it is more of a hassle than it is actually useful.

markecephus's photo
Sun 07/04/10 12:38 AM

"Mutual Match" is a guessing game at best, sorry, but even at the pay level it really isn't all that good. Hopefully the admin have some plans for that system in the future, I quit using it after the first few days, it is more of a hassle than it is actually useful.


Let's be fair here.. have you used the upgrade? because i have it, and i can see everyone who said yes. (some of them are kinda cute too):smile:

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 07/04/10 08:23 PM


"Mutual Match" is a guessing game at best, sorry, but even at the pay level it really isn't all that good. Hopefully the admin have some plans for that system in the future, I quit using it after the first few days, it is more of a hassle than it is actually useful.


Let's be fair here.. have you used the upgrade? because i have it, and i can see everyone who said yes. (some of them are kinda cute too):smile:


Is it the same "Mutual Match" that it was years ago? Or has there been a miraculous upgrade made to it? Because as far as I can remember it was terrible then, and unless much has changed it is more than likely still terrible now.

charles's photo
Mon 07/05/10 01:17 PM
It sounds like you had a bad experience with MutualMatch, FearandLoathing. I am sorry it didn't work out for you, and it's certainly your right not to pay anymore attention to it. Others, however, have met their significant other through it. You've made your point of view on the matter clear a number of times before, now digging up this older thread in order to do so. I am now closing this topic.