For those of you who are online to find a intimate encounter or who have in the past. I just wonder since it is something so easy to get with no strings attached why do you have to go online to find that? I ask this because i have never gone online to look for that nor have I in person but have been approached many times for that in person.and I dont act like that is something i am looking for either..Plain and simple.. If that is something I was looking for I would not waste my time doing it online... would be much easier in person to do.Pretty sure too that I could have my pick and could find a new one eveyrday if i wanted to..
So why do people do this online?

Why not????

Sexting - Internet heroin.

so tru..fear..

I don't know..I've never looked for that on line either...seems it would be a lot of effort for one night, why not just go to the local pub and find someone.

I always think the same thing!! I am pretty outgoing and i have a perverted sense of humor in person and online, Just because i joke around doesn't mean i'm going to talk dirty to you or send you nude pics!!! I get approached like that if i go into bars too...but i have funny things to say back to them!! Use this...Yes i know i have nice t*ts, too bad you will never see them. They usually either try to be nice after that or get ticked which always cracks me up. I have fun with it, don't let it get to you.

put simply that is what im saying

What I don't get is why people do it HERE on this site when there are sites specifically for this kind of thing. I'm guessing people go online to find it because they want to have more options than the "drunkest looking chick at the bar"

It doesnt get to me at all...i just dont understand it..if they want an effortless relationship.. why do they put so much effort into getting it?

I had a friend who was a sex addict. The online anonymity was part of the appeal for her. She said it made everything less personal, more ritualistic.

well for me in my case i wasnt drunk when they approached me at least 75% of the time lol so maybe its because they get shot down with people that arent drunk if that is what they are looking for in person?

Some guys are just that cocky

humm well i guess that makes sense...

I got an email yesterday that said...I'm so hot for you...I wrote back and said, take a cold shower!!

These kind of guys probably get rejected a lot. So doing it online is probably easier than in person.

All I'm looking for is people top talk to.

some of us don't find it so easy to find a NSA encounter. at least not without compromising our standards a great deal.

not that it's something that i'm looking for, but i wouldn't necessarily be against it if the opportunity arose with someone i found attractive.



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Some people are addicted to sex. Some companies are willing to exploit that weakness to make a profit.

so the ones that do it in person and dont get rejected are not the ones doing it online u think?

NSA?