Topic: At what point?
Yelm_Redneck's photo
Thu 06/21/07 03:29 AM
When the communication (This is after many times of phone, person, etc
encounters) stops, how long do you wait to see if the person you care
about has found another? I'm just curious, I'm sure women give it longer
than men but hey, men are like that.

countryboi89's photo
Thu 06/21/07 03:32 AM
depends on how much ya care about the person

Greyhound's photo
Thu 06/21/07 03:37 AM
heck, people think men are worse,but women are just as bad (sometimes)
laugh laugh laugh

countryboi89's photo
Thu 06/21/07 03:39 AM
women can be very cruel at time's men r always gititn the blame for bein
the cruel one in relationships but in my experience women r much more
crueler

Greyhound's photo
Thu 06/21/07 03:41 AM
I guess sometimes the door swings both ways. laugh

happybutlonely's photo
Thu 06/21/07 03:43 AM
I've decided that if I make an attempt at contact 3 times, whether it be
text, phone msgs or whatever, and get no response, than somethings up.
After that, I give it a week of silence, and if I still don't hear
anything- time to move on. Actually going through that myself right now-
Good Luck to you!

countryboi89's photo
Thu 06/21/07 03:44 AM
sorrie to hear that happy hope everythiong works out for the best with
ya

happybutlonely's photo
Thu 06/21/07 03:47 AM
thanks very much country, I like to think everything works out for the
best in the end :)

countryboi89's photo
Thu 06/21/07 03:51 AM
everything happens for a reason

Yelm_Redneck's photo
Thu 06/21/07 04:08 AM
Thanks Country, I agree, everything does happen for a reason. However,
I've had 3 women admit to mistakes after the fact then want a new
relationship. At that point, I have moved on because they thought the
grass was greener.....

mnhiker's photo
Mon 06/25/07 01:00 AM
I agree with Greyhound. brokenheart

tessa68's photo
Mon 06/25/07 01:33 AM
me up to 1 year...thats enough time allowance already, that w/ in that
period still havent hear from him .well i think its time to move on and
find another one who is more better than him...

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Mon 06/25/07 01:39 AM
A year? MAN, i couldn't wait on a dude that long! I like the 3 call/
one week thing. That sounds more like me. I don't do the whole b/s
thing. If they are into me, I assume they'll let me know, if they aren't
I respect them more if they tell me that part too.

nurjoyce's photo
Mon 06/25/07 03:32 AM
i am not even sure three phone calls..depends on how long you have known
this person and what kind of relationship you had with them. i think you
really know if a person is avoiding you or just busy.

Smartazzjohn's photo
Mon 06/25/07 02:10 PM
here a thought, call the person up and ask, why wait? at least then
you'll know whats going on