I fail on this list too. I suck at making people laugh.

i'm a hidious monster, and there's nothing out there for me, except communication with friends on the web, besides, the mausoleum's a snap to clean.

Hahaha shut up!! You already know youre perfect.

And what the hell? How did you decide that the minimum height is 5'8? 5'7 dudes just have emotional baggage huh?

Haha I want him to be taller than me!

Mr Right hmmmm.

Gheez I hate check lists because there will always be ther person who would be so awesome and be the exception to one or more of the things I like or disliked so don't take this as gosphel.

Hetero Male. I used to think that was given but if you are equal rights for all person seems like you have to declare gender in California.

Between mid 50's to early 60's. Viet Nam Era is familiar to me.

General overall fitness mentally and physically. No health freaks or disasters lol. Mental toughness is and advantage as is intelligence and above average common sense.

Someone taller and heavier than I am. Those over 6' are going to get a natural attraction. As would dark hair and probably at least some warm fuzzy. Short curls and green eyes are my weakness. Well groomed mustache and beards are ok. I am the one with long hair in my relationships.

Probably a jeans and tshort guy off duty but someone who has at least one suit in his closet. If he has worn a Tux for something besides getting married bonus points.

Someone who had done a variety of things and likes opportunitiy to try new things. Traditional is fine just not stuck in it.

Financially responsible. Live with in your means. Some debts can not be avoid like medical or job loss but if you are in a bind because you refuse to take a blue collar job then I am going to be disgusted.

family responsibility. This doesn't mean letting adult kids set on theri butt at home bemoaning the economy but it doesn't mean kicking a pregnant teenager to the curb for being careless. You have a non=payment history of reasonable child support order don't even bother to say Hi.

Have a sense of humor and a gift for gab. Not the scarcastic baloney but a kid at heart with a goofy sense of fun. If you have ever been a secret Santa cool.

Probably need to be a volunteer. It is so much a part of who I am if you don't get it we are probably not going to jive.

Have the "no" word in your vocabulary. I want a guy who has an opinon and a bottom line.

I was hoping i would know when i find him....But i don't think that will be the case

Fortunately, I no longer have to do this.

Someone found me when I least expected it.

Not true.

I went through a few that I " thought " were right....

But then, upon finding the one who IS right, I find that the others were there to prepare me to appreciate the right one.

Believe me, you definitely know it when you find it.

Hmmm...I won't know until I find him, someone who can give me that warm and fuzzy feeling inside...haven't had that in awhile...

Someone who makes me smile, accepts me for who I am and doesn't expect me to be someone I'm not. Pretty simple.

The concept of "RIGHT" or "WRONG" when speaking in relationship terms remains non-existent....There is only understanding, compromise, listening, receiving, giving, speaking, sharing, passion in relation to corresponding with your partner. If things do not work out because you cannot understand or relate with your partner or visa versa....then that may just be incompatability or the inability to veiw another side and compromise. Sometimes, after many years people forget what it was everything started out as and how it became what it is stays ever present over shadowing what it could become..... .

I don't think the right and wrong concept is non-existent. There are right and wrong kind of people for each person. If you are incompatible, they're not the right person for you.

Well, it's actually pretty simple:

I'm looking for someone of above-average intelligence, say an IQ of around 160 or so -- someone who can discuss sahelanthropus tchadensis or M-theory without having to use Google....

Someone creative, involved in some sort of creative endeavors on an ongoing basis....

Someone with a good (preferably mildly warped) sense of humor, who enjoys sarcasm and cynicism and all of the other -isms....

Someone who doesn't have kids and doesn't want kids....

Someone who doesn't drink or use drugs....

Someone who sees a relationship as a team, as something that requires work but can be worth all the work that goes into it....

Someone who has incredible communications skills....

Someone who won't try to inhibit my creativity....

Someone who won't try to turn me into a domesticated farm animal....

As unlikely as it might seem, I did meet one person who met all of those qualifications -- so I have to believe there might be another one out there....

That would be your opinion and it would be mine that there is no Ms/Mr Rightor wrong for anyone in actuality.