maybe he had pee pee trouble?


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ya know, no matter what people tell you and no matter what they agree to, it is their actions that show their true desires. it sounds to me like this guy just cant do this any more. as in, he has waited around for you for a long time and he is tired of not getting what he truly needs from you.

no strings sometimes means that one or both parties has to hide their true intentions. it is not unusual for some people to go along with this type of arrangement as a means of holding on to the thin hope of rekindling the relationship; especially after a long term relationship. people often view sex as the last link to the bond that they once shared.

in my opinion, the best thing you can do for him right now, is not pursue this arrangement. don't bring it up, don't try to hook up with him, nothing. eventually (if you are as close as you say) he will come to you and let you know he is ready to talk about it. then you can get all of the answers you need.

I still think he could be humping uglies (Joy just taught me that phrase) with someone new...........

He never had any problem tellin me that before.

Well you could always ask him...........

I will when the time is right. Pretty much meaning I will wait for him to come to me. He's the type that needs to think about things for a bit before he can talk about them.

KC is probably right. The guy probably has it bad for you and it is eating him up. Giving him time makes sense.......

It is possible, I guess, but I'm hoping that isn't the case. I don't want to break his heart all over again.

The no strings thing always ends in someone getting hurt.

In most cases, I am sure that is true. Never thought it'd be the case here, though, considering its been going on for several years.

yes that is a long span...i hope i'm wrong btw...

Bumping uglies.

I could of swore she said humping uglies.........

Pardon my ignorance but If you're into women now, what does "the hot beef injection" do for you? Surely you appreciate male contact by doing the bedspring boogie with him?

On a side note.... Just curious if you left him for women... That could really mess with a brothers head.... get my drift?

for what is once ok with someone in a certain time of their life, doesnt mean its always gonna be that way. it may have not a thing to do with you at all... maybe a fwb is just not what they want anymore.. and that doesnt necessarily mean they want you for more than that.

when two parties agree to a fwb... when it ends the only thing that is rejected is the idea of the fwb... because that is all there was supposed to be in the first place. does not mean you cant be friends still.. the part he is rejecting to is sex with no strings attatached...