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Aren't you looking for a woman now? Is he not aware that you have switched as far as that ... I don't mean that disrespectfully. Maybe he isn't aware that your interests are now with women and he still cares and wants another chance with you. He knows. That is part of the reason we decided to call it quits 4 years ago. But he also knows that he's always been my exception, if that makes sense. And no, I haven't been "using" him. The NSA sex has been a mutual thing, both of us wanted it each time it happened. I don't expect him to give me reasons to make me feel better. I'm a bigger person than that. I am just confused on what he DID say, and why things are different now. And the sex was fantastic for both of us, thank you very much. ok...i didn't say anything about you using him.... No that was directed to one of the other posters, same with the boring sex comment....sorry I'm still trying to figure out the quote thing lol |
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Aren't you looking for a woman now? Is he not aware that you have switched as far as that ... I don't mean that disrespectfully. Maybe he isn't aware that your interests are now with women and he still cares and wants another chance with you. He knows. That is part of the reason we decided to call it quits 4 years ago. But he also knows that he's always been my exception, if that makes sense. And no, I haven't been "using" him. The NSA sex has been a mutual thing, both of us wanted it each time it happened. I don't expect him to give me reasons to make me feel better. I'm a bigger person than that. I am just confused on what he DID say, and why things are different now. And the sex was fantastic for both of us, thank you very much. ok...i didn't say anything about you using him.... No that was directed to one of the other posters, same with the boring sex comment....sorry I'm still trying to figure out the quote thing lol right on, no big deal. I say if a gotta get some sex it's nobody else's business anyway. We gotta do what we gotta do.... 
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Vacant, I will be honest here. I know you stated that you guys have been open and honest in the past. But even so, with the way he responded to the no sex, he is either being overly dramatic or he just did tell a lie. Something happened to him. Maybe he has decided that he doesn't want the NSA anymore and he just couldn't be honest. Or, maybe that is why he was dramatic with his response and was thinking you would just ask him "What's going on? Why are you evasive?". Sometimes, people who don't normally lie to each other will tell a lie. And, they normally do it when they don't even have to. Silly? Yes, it is but it is also true. But hey, I might be wrong. Just throwing in my opinion here.
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Lovin the new pic goof
 
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Vacant, I will be honest here. I know you stated that you guys have been open and honest in the past. But even so, with the way he responded to the no sex, he is either being overly dramatic or he just did tell a lie. Something happened to him. Maybe he has decided that he doesn't want the NSA anymore and he just couldn't be honest. Or, maybe that is why he was dramatic with his response and was thinking you would just ask him "What's going on? Why are you evasive?". Sometimes, people who don't normally lie to each other will tell a lie. And, they normally do it when they don't even have to. Silly? Yes, it is but it is also true. But hey, I might be wrong. Just throwing in my opinion here.
Thank you for a different perspective. I don't really know which is the correct one, but honestly, at this point, I'm not going to torture myself about it anymore. It is what it is, and probably about time for us both to move on past that part of our friendship, anyway. |
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Vacant, I will be honest here. I know you stated that you guys have been open and honest in the past. But even so, with the way he responded to the no sex, he is either being overly dramatic or he just did tell a lie. Something happened to him. Maybe he has decided that he doesn't want the NSA anymore and he just couldn't be honest. Or, maybe that is why he was dramatic with his response and was thinking you would just ask him "What's going on? Why are you evasive?". Sometimes, people who don't normally lie to each other will tell a lie. And, they normally do it when they don't even have to. Silly? Yes, it is but it is also true. But hey, I might be wrong. Just throwing in my opinion here.
Thank you for a different perspective. I don't really know which is the correct one, but honestly, at this point, I'm not going to torture myself about it anymore. It is what it is, and probably about time for us both to move on past that part of our friendship, anyway. Word! Now go out and pimp on the chicks. Oh wait! You mean I have to compete with you? Damn it Vacant. "Kicks dirt". I will lose.
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Where was the lie? I don't see one. Not wanting sex with her? She wouldn't understand? Sorry, I see nothing dishonest in feeling that way. I have had ladies say both things to me, and then explain, and I was confused by the time they were through explaining when I could understand in the beginning. It goes to the way I communicate. I like a yes/no answer, the ladies I have been with want a discussion. JMAO
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1. he is interested in you romantically
or 2. he is interested in someone else romantically are you interested in him romantically? 
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Edited by
VacantDreamer
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Mon 06/14/10 08:32 PM
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1. he is interested in you romantically or 2. he is interested in someone else romantically are you interested in him romantically?
No  that ship sailed for me a long time ago.
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Have you tried analyzing the situation over and over?
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Have you tried analyzing the situation over and over? I have the perfect response for this, but sadly, I do not want my posting abilities revoked.
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I read somewhere that FWB quite often came to a sad ending for the reason that one or the other parties ended up wanting something more from the relationship; and the friendship suffered because of it. My guess is that he possibly got to that point
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Vacant, I will be honest here. I know you stated that you guys have been open and honest in the past. But even so, with the way he responded to the no sex, he is either being overly dramatic or he just did tell a lie. Something happened to him. Maybe he has decided that he doesn't want the NSA anymore and he just couldn't be honest. Or, maybe that is why he was dramatic with his response and was thinking you would just ask him "What's going on? Why are you evasive?". Sometimes, people who don't normally lie to each other will tell a lie. And, they normally do it when they don't even have to. Silly? Yes, it is but it is also true. But hey, I might be wrong. Just throwing in my opinion here.
Thank you for a different perspective. I don't really know which is the correct one, but honestly, at this point, I'm not going to torture myself about it anymore. It is what it is, and probably about time for us both to move on past that part of our friendship, anyway. Word! Now go out and pimp on the chicks. Oh wait! You mean I have to compete with you? Damn it Vacant. "Kicks dirt". I will lose.
LOL I am sure you will have more luck in that department than I, love. |
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Have you tried analyzing the situation over and over? I have the perfect response for this, but sadly, I do not want my posting abilities revoked.
(Slides Vacant a $20) You can tell us.
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I read somewhere that FWB quite often came to a sad ending for the reason that one or the other parties ended up wanting something more from the relationship; and the friendship suffered because of it. My guess is that he possibly got to that point
I hope for our friendship's sake that isn't the case...we have always been very close friends. It would suck to lose that. |
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Have you tried analyzing the situation over and over? I have the perfect response for this, but sadly, I do not want my posting abilities revoked.
(Slides Vacant a $20) You can tell us.
*psst* *whispers to Goof* I'm fairly certain the mods are always watching
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I read somewhere that FWB quite often came to a sad ending for the reason that one or the other parties ended up wanting something more from the relationship; and the friendship suffered because of it. My guess is that he possibly got to that point
I hope for our friendship's sake that isn't the case...we have always been very close friends. It would suck to lose that. |
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Mon 06/14/10 08:45 PM
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1. he is interested in you romantically or 2. he is interested in someone else romantically are you interested in him romantically?
No that ship sailed for me a long time ago.
that is likely the reason he can't do it anymore... otherwise he may have feelings for someone else so that he is no longer comfortable with fwb - and it seems like cheating. however if that were the case he would have simply told you as you are close. the most likely reason for not wanting to discuss it with you is that he has stronger feelings and cannot share them with you knowing that you do not feel the same way. |
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I read somewhere that FWB quite often came to a sad ending for the reason that one or the other parties ended up wanting something more from the relationship; and the friendship suffered because of it. My guess is that he possibly got to that point
I hope for our friendship's sake that isn't the case...we have always been very close friends. It would suck to lose that. Yes. Yes it does. |
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Edited by
VacantDreamer
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Mon 06/14/10 08:47 PM
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Thanks guys, for all of your input. Much love to you all.
My apologies for sounding a bit whiny. Trust me when I say that is NOT usually a part of my personality, and will be gone....NOW!
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