Ok, let's play a game. (This one is for the ladies)

Let's say, you are in a bar, with music and dance floor and a crowd, and here are your choices.

Beside the crowd that you might be familiar with and you don't want anything to do with them, there are 5 guys who look promising and you wouldn't mind to meet.
All 5 look good enough and attractive to you (by just looks).

You sit back and watch and see how they act.

No 1. guy is walking around frequently and seems to be asking women for drinks or to go dancing but he seem to have a bad luck, because nobody is going with him for some reason

No. 2 guy is currently on the dance floor and dancing like a maniac, he is making a scene there..some people are wondering if he is insane or just having too much fun.

No. 3 guy is standing around and drinking one beer after another and does nothing else but staring around but he doesn't seem to care about anything.

No 4. guy is sitting in the other side of the bar table and looking at you frequently and even smiles at you, but he won't get up to approach you.

No. 5 guy just asked you for a drink a couple of times already and he is talking to his buddies. The problem with him is that he is completely drunk.


Ok, if you would go with 1 guy out of that 5, which one would it be?

#4

I don't know why i keep doing that i click once

4

#1...I like some courage and a little aggression.

i never got asked to dance.. it took me a few to go have fun... and i would ask guys to dance i would pick the ones who sat by their self and looked bored.. that werent drunk.. and i did not ask for2 dances in a row lol.. didn want them to get any ideas.. after that some of them whom were bored like me.. would later come back and ask me.. the funnest one that i remember was the guy in the wheelchair! also the one who was deaf but felt the beats..

4

I would select:

No 4. guy is sitting in the other side of the bar table and looking at you frequently and even smiles at you, but he won't get up to approach you.

Maybe he is shy or thinks he might get shot down? Since we made eye contact and he smiled at me - I would walk over and introduce myself.

That is so weird!

I'm always #4 and always been and I never had any women walk up to me and talk to me. (Ok, once or twice but they either couldn't speak English or she was wasted and she wasn't the one I was staring at)

I would used to get in, sit in the bar order a beer. If i found someone I knew or a friend, I talked to them for a while, but I used to just pick out one girl who was attractive to me and just keep looking at her and smiling. I looked all women very carefully and if I didn't find anyone who was attractive enough, then I would end up leaving earlier or go to another place.

Sometimes it was a lack of confidence, other times I came to the conclusion, that no matter how good looking she was, I just didn't want to pick up anyone from a bar. So I was just "feeding" my eyes.

And the weird thing is, most women in real life seemed to go with the drunk guy who asked them out several times or the maniac dancer.

Not me!

I can't stand drunks

I am guy no.2 out of that bunch, and sometimes guy no.3

And i never scored in bars either.

Memo to self.....Never drunk text Melody.

I don't mind that so much. I can't hear you, smell you or get bumped into by you so -- text away!

... and if you get too annoying, I can ignore you!

So anyone who has gone to bars and dance clubs. Did you notice I tried to group the most common activities you might find in there?

Others would be group of guys or group of girls..and the mixture of them. Also the 2 girl friends who dance together and go to the bathroom together and just ignore every guys.

Also the group of guys who just sit by the bar and talk with each other for hours and couldn't care less what is going on.

And then there are these 2-3 girls walking around and seem to be talking on their phone all the time or seem to be going somewhere to an important place with a fast pace (the other side of the dance floor) and would never stop walking around.

And then the lovers. They dance together and keep kissing, then sit down and talk but end up kissing again.

And there is the wh0re of the place. She is dancing with everyone and hooking up with a different guy every time you see her. All the guys know her.

And there is the playboy guy who is hooking up left and right and seem to have a new date every night. All the women knows him.

You just want incriminating evidence on me.

4, because I'm shy about approaching someone also

#4 for me also...but only if he looked at me and smiled more than once or twice. He could just be being nice and thinking the whole time...OMG..that poor woman...why does she even bother to go out???

Négy!

# 2

I wanna met the nut who could give a shiit what people think of him and his dancing...

#4... be even better if he came over to me ;)