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Topic: Does it matter?
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Sun 06/13/10 07:12 AM

Does it matter what kind of job someone has if it is legit and they are living on their own, paying their bills on time, etc.? I mean, you date say a 32 year old who still works in a grocery store as a clerk, but is able to support themself?


Doesn't matter at all ... what matters is that they're being a productive member of society and not expecting someone else to give 'em everything ... If others want to pass judgement on 'em for reasons that are totally irrelevant to the fact that they're honest and employed, well, that says more about them than it does about the person who's working this particular job ... Besides, the job does NOT define a person - the PERSON defines THEMSELF ...

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Sun 06/13/10 07:25 AM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Sun 06/13/10 07:26 AM
This is all well and good

the money part didn't matter to me.....well ya know maybe it does....

Please don't be in your 50's and not make enough for at least your own little place

don't think for a second I am going to someones elses place where you rent a room to be with you. That's a big no no to me. A big turnoff

I'm sorry. That's just me

don't hate me:heart:

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Sun 06/13/10 08:09 AM
To me as long as they have a job, then I am ok.

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Sun 06/13/10 08:11 AM
As long as they can support themselves and pay their own bills that is what matters not where they are working....noway

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Sun 06/13/10 08:38 AM
I have dated exotic performance artists (that's for you Melody). Trust issues were the big thing for me....and I was right.

In theory, holding down a job and being self sufficient SHOULD be good enough....it aint.

Believe me, when I was managing a porn store, my ex HATED it. Especially when her family or friends asked what I did for a living.

Think about it. Christmas dinner with the in-laws..."How is work going Eric?". "Great! People are always horny".

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Sun 06/13/10 08:41 AM
Lmao, Krupa your right forgot the sex industry that one is hard to explain to the family well most family's that is.......slaphead

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Sun 06/13/10 09:01 AM
I went to Texas to meet a lady right after I got hurt in Iraq. I was working for the government, but could not say what I did at that time, so I show up at the ladies house all bandaged up and a little broken....."So Mike what do you do??? I work in a cotton factory???:laughing: rofl :laughing:

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Sun 06/13/10 09:04 AM
Hehehehe you got no idea Kristy.

Spend weekends making tamales for the entire family to take home. (Its a mexican thang). I start talking about the new neon purple "Rabbit" double dongs with a cam shaft and ball bearing chambers and the guys would laugh their heads off. The mother in law would stare at her hands and cuss at me in spanish and the ex would stare daggers through my soul.

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Sun 06/13/10 09:12 AM
Edited by Phuque2 on Sun 06/13/10 09:13 AM

Hehehehe you got no idea Kristy.

Spend weekends making tamales for the entire family to take home. (Its a mexican thang). I start talking about the new neon purple "Rabbit" double dongs with a cam shaft and ball bearing chambers and the guys would laugh their heads off. The mother in law would stare at her hands and cuss at me in spanish and the ex would stare daggers through my soul.


OMG Krupa, I just spit coffee:laughing::laughing::laughing::laughing::laughing::laughing::laughing::laughing:

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Sun 06/13/10 09:21 AM

Hehehehe you got no idea Kristy.

Spend weekends making tamales for the entire family to take home. (Its a mexican thang). I start talking about the new neon purple "Rabbit" double dongs with a cam shaft and ball bearing chambers and the guys would laugh their heads off. The mother in law would stare at her hands and cuss at me in spanish and the ex would stare daggers through my soul.
laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 06/13/10 09:22 AM

Hehehehe you got no idea Kristy.

Spend weekends making tamales for the entire family to take home. (Its a mexican thang). I start talking about the new neon purple "Rabbit" double dongs with a cam shaft and ball bearing chambers and the guys would laugh their heads off. The mother in law would stare at her hands and cuss at me in spanish and the ex would stare daggers through my soul.


I almost fell off my chair laughing! rofl

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