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Topic: what should i do
no photo
Thu 06/21/07 06:30 AM
be careful what you wish for

iceprincess's photo
Thu 06/21/07 06:33 AM
how true wishes have a tendency to bite you in ass

kojack's photo
Thu 06/21/07 06:41 AM
Move on ...

Don t call her and see if she calls you. no emails no letters nothing.
If she truely wants to be with you she will find a way, if not you move
on....

I must say going out with another mans wife and being intimate well
thats wrong on many levels.

iceprincess's photo
Thu 06/21/07 06:46 AM
kojac she isn't the other mans wife yet darling they ar engaged

Puffins1958's photo
Thu 06/21/07 06:55 AM
I just think that you should move on, and just try to heal and forget
her

oldsage's photo
Thu 06/21/07 07:06 AM
Just a thought, if she is engaged to him & palyin with you.
Is there a trust issue here.


How would you feel if you were him & found out, from somebody else; not
her.
Base line is, she is cheating.
You call it like you want.

But put yourself in his shoes & then make your decision.

adj4u's photo
Thu 06/21/07 07:19 AM
countryboy the more you dwell on the situation

the longer you are giving control of you

over to another

just a thought

but hey what do i know

Staynalone's photo
Thu 06/21/07 07:20 AM
countryboy23461


Move on
If she cheated on him, she'll cheat on you
You just like him are rest stops til she finds what she is looking for.
Someday you will thank god for unanswered prayers

carebear19622's photo
Thu 06/21/07 11:28 AM
if you love something let it go..... we all know that one. Give her all
the space she can handle...in outher words no contact at all. If she
comes back make a decision. I just tell what I would do, make up your
mind and good luck!

Native_Grl39's photo
Thu 06/21/07 07:44 PM
Stay away from her until she makes a choice and make that clear to
her...If you continue with her while she is still engaged without her
making a choice...She will be walking down the isle and you will be left
with a broken brokenheart .

If she has enough feelings for you...she will do the right thing...If
not it doesn't matter how much you are in love with her...You will have
your answer and you can't make anyone love you in return!!!!!!!!

flowerforyou drinker

nurjoyce's photo
Thu 06/21/07 07:48 PM
what do you do?
hmmmmmmmm
sounds like she made up her mind, what can you do???

knightless's photo
Fri 06/22/07 10:50 PM
sorry but the way I see this is- If she cheats on her boyfriend with
you...then she will cheat on you with anyone she finds appealing. It
sounds like she enjoys the attention she gets from 2 men...and keeping
you on a string....I would be cutting that string myself. Life is too
short to be toying with other's emotions.flowerforyou

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Sat 06/23/07 04:53 AM
Hmmm just a quick question?
The time she spent with you, was her hubsand out to sea then?

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