Topic: What'll ya have? Hottie or COOL .........
TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 06/07/10 11:04 AM
Gawd they have to have a sense of humor, be able to hold a conversations past hi how are you.........& have that kind of smile that makes their eyes light up...............:thumbsup: bigsmile

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 06/07/10 11:08 AM




I realized today when a guy asked me 3 things I like in a guy that being COOOOOOOOOOOOL was one of them.

I like cool. smokin smokin smokin

Confident, easy going, fun, and all around cool man, real cool .. is just my type of guy.

But some people like 'hot' .. You know like
"Oh she/he's sooo HOT. love love love

Like heartthrob type .. make your skin melt :banana:



To me cooooool IS hot. smokin love

What's your pleasure?


I've realized I can't settle for anything less than the whole package: a hottie, cool personality, funny, BRAINY, common sense oriented, tall, lean, loves sports, loves culture and theatre, and someone who will volunteer with me with pet rescue orgs and the veteran’s assoc.

I seem to find guys that are only about 60% of what I am looking for - and I can't be happy with any of the missing elements.

Cool and hot work for me!

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:


Oh definitely me with the arts .. I love art, theatre, music .. yada yada

& for me they have to love and interact well with children .. since I have 5 =)


Awesome Judy! flowerforyou

... and I forgot that fact in my thoughts - no kids for me. slaphead

Unfortunately for me, too many guys have kids or they want kids. It a rare gem to find the guy who is OK with not breeding. tongue2

(I love the edit feature). I remembered to add that after all laugh




Sneaky girl. :laughing: Excepting it's not changed in here cuz I already quoted you LOL.

Funny about you looking for guys who don't want to 'breed' as you put it. Because I date younger too, in a sense, I need someone 1/2 like that .. they can have their own kids, and accept mine, but no more baby-making for me rofl rofl rofl rofl

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 06/07/10 11:09 AM

Gawd they have to have a sense of humor, be able to hold a conversations past hi how are you.........& have that kind of smile that makes their eyes light up...............:thumbsup: bigsmile



:thumbsup:

Goofball73's photo
Mon 06/07/10 08:12 PM


I want a trophy wife. I'm so vain!:thumbsup: tongue2
Must she look like the KoolAid Pitcher also?happy


Indeed. And she must also pack heat as well. Chicks with guns are love love

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 06/07/10 09:04 PM



I want a trophy wife. I'm so vain!:thumbsup: tongue2
Must she look like the KoolAid Pitcher also?happy


Indeed. And she must also pack heat as well. Chicks with guns are love love



Ok enough of this whoa wanna list .. wth are YOU bringing to the table? spock :tongue: :laughing:

Goofball73's photo
Mon 06/07/10 09:07 PM




I want a trophy wife. I'm so vain!:thumbsup: tongue2
Must she look like the KoolAid Pitcher also?happy


Indeed. And she must also pack heat as well. Chicks with guns are love love



Ok enough of this whoa wanna list .. wth are YOU bringing to the table? spock :tongue: :laughing:


I bring the Kool Aid. :wink:

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 06/07/10 09:13 PM





I want a trophy wife. I'm so vain!:thumbsup: tongue2
Must she look like the KoolAid Pitcher also?happy


Indeed. And she must also pack heat as well. Chicks with guns are love love



Ok enough of this whoa wanna list .. wth are YOU bringing to the table? spock :tongue: :laughing:


I bring the Kool Aid. :wink:



Whoop tee do smokin

freeonthree's photo
Wed 06/09/10 10:06 AM
I perfer average. I think being average is cool bigsmile

RowBaby's photo
Wed 06/09/10 10:21 AM
I'll take a cool guy over a hottie any day drinker

VacantDreamer's photo
Wed 06/09/10 10:30 AM



I know what you mean. Someone can be goregous on the outside, but hideous on the inside.

I think it makes a women even more attractive when she knows she's attracive, but she doesn't let it get to her head. Like she has the looks and knows how to handle it.


I completely agree with this. To me, confidence in oneself is far more cool and attractive than actual looks. A woman could be rather plain by looks alone, but if she has confidence (NOT conceited) then she immediately becomes the supermodel of the room. Its all in how she projects herself.

Thats my take on it. Cool is WAYY better than hot. bigsmile

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 06/09/10 01:01 PM




I know what you mean. Someone can be goregous on the outside, but hideous on the inside.

I think it makes a women even more attractive when she knows she's attracive, but she doesn't let it get to her head. Like she has the looks and knows how to handle it.


I completely agree with this. To me, confidence in oneself is far more cool and attractive than actual looks. A woman could be rather plain by looks alone, but if she has confidence (NOT conceited) then she immediately becomes the supermodel of the room. Its all in how she projects herself.

Thats my take on it. Cool is WAYY better than hot. bigsmile


:thumbsup:

OKCUTIE67's photo
Wed 06/09/10 01:02 PM
I'm greedy...I want both! bigsmile

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 06/09/10 01:04 PM

I'm greedy...I want both! bigsmile



ha ha .. well you never know what Santa has in his bag eh? :laughing:

OKCUTIE67's photo
Wed 06/09/10 01:11 PM


I'm greedy...I want both! bigsmile



ha ha .. well you never know what Santa has in his bag eh? :laughing:


Coal? bigsmile

sherry4382's photo
Wed 06/09/10 01:17 PM
I dont care as long as he's packing a nice package rofl rofl

no photo
Wed 06/09/10 01:39 PM
Edited by Torgo70 on Wed 06/09/10 01:50 PM
Chicks dig cool...




Cop: Hey kid. Why do you wear sunglasses at night?
Vince Latello: Because when you're cool, the sun shines on you 24 hours a day.

- My Science Project

guardian1angel4u's photo
Wed 06/09/10 01:45 PM
One who talks is good for me, being a gemini, for me hot is cold and cool is hot, well they do say opposites attract?

3 things for a man to have in qualities, communicates at all levels, has good understanding and knowledge and not to be self righteous.:smile:

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 06/09/10 04:11 PM



I'm greedy...I want both! bigsmile



ha ha .. well you never know what Santa has in his bag eh? :laughing:


Coal? bigsmile



rofl rofl rofl rofl

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 06/09/10 04:13 PM

I dont care as long as he's packing a nice package rofl rofl



I've had that part plenty of times. Gotta have more than that to float my boat now love

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 06/09/10 04:25 PM

Chicks dig cool...




Cop: Hey kid. Why do you wear sunglasses at night?
Vince Latello: Because when you're cool, the sun shines on you 24 hours a day.

- My Science Project



Awesome quote ..

I wear my sunglasses at night
So I can, so I can
Watch you weave
Then breathe your story lines
And I wear my sunglasses at night
So I can, so I can
Keep track of the visions in my eyes

While she's deceiving me
It cuts my security
Has she got control of me
I turn to her and say

Don't switch the blade
On the guy in shades, oh-no
Don't masquerade
With the guy in shades, oh-no
I can't believe it
'Cause you got it made
With the guy in shades, oh-no

And I wear my sunglasses at night
So I can, so I can
Forget my name while you collect your claim
And I wear my sunglasses at night
So I can, so I can
See the light that's right before my eyes

While she's deceiving me
She cuts my security
Has she got control of me
I turn to her and say

Don't switch the blade
On the guy in shades, oh-no
Don't masquerade
With the guy in shades, oh-no
I can't believe it
Don't be afraid
Of the guy in shades, oh-no
It kinda scared you
'Cause you got it made
With the guy in shades, oh-no

Oh, I say I wear my sunglasses at night
I wear my sunglasses at night
I wear my sunglasses at night
I say it to you now
I wear my sunglasses at night
I wear my sunglasses at night
I wear my sunglasses at night
I cry to you
I wear my sunglasses at night
I wear my sunglasses at night